Batuu wanted his father, Indah, to attend his son's full moon feast, but was refused: "I have been divorced from your mother Song Dandan for 24 years, and she has also remarried for many years, I am not sure if you still have the surname Ying, is your son related to me?" "
Despite his psychological preparations, Batuu was still sad in his heart, he tried to control his emotions, and said a few words of his heart to his father, and After Yingda listened, he never said a word.
Later, in an interview, Indah was unusual, saying that if he was given the opportunity, he would take good care of Batuu, treat the two sons equally, and open the door of the Ying family for the eldest son at any time.
It is really hard to believe that a man with a hard heart could say such a "human" thing, what did Batuu say to him?
In 1990, Inbatu was born, the name of Ying rupeng, Grandpa Ying Ruocheng liked this grandson, and the grandfather and grandson had a happy time of 7 years.
Later, Yingda and screenwriter Liang Huan got along, he proposed to get together with Song Dandan, a marriage that existed in name only, and Song Dandan did not want to keep it, so after 8 years of marriage, the two divorced.
Yingda voluntarily relinquished custody of his son Batu, and soon after the divorce, he remarried and married Liang Huan, and gave birth to a son, Inbatu, the daimyō (英如镝).
At that time, the young Batuu saw other children with their fathers to play with, and he also very much wanted his father to come and accompany him.
However, Indah always refused, and told Batuu not to bother him.
Batuu was very sad, and seeing her son's sad and tearful look, Song Dandan was very angry, she did not expect Yingda to be so ruthless.
Grandpa Yingruocheng missed Batu and would sometimes ask Song Dandan to take him home, whenever this happened, both grandfather and grandson were very happy, and the lively and sensible Batu would make Grandpa happy.
However, Indah did not welcome Batuu home, because he was worried that his wife Liang Huan would have an opinion, so he proposed to his father not to let Batuu come back in the future, and now this daughter-in-law is a screenwriter, and she needs to have a good mood to write something.
Although Ying Ruocheng did not agree in his heart, Yingda had already divorced twice, and this third marriage was not running well, and his own old face could not hang up, so he had no choice but to agree.
Indah is extremely fond of his youngest son Bayan, and does everything he wants to satisfy him and give him full of fatherly love.
Knowing from relatives and friends that his father was so good to his brother, Batuu was very envious, hoping that his father would come to see him every day, and if his father did not have time, he could call him.
Knowing that her son longs for his father's love and longs to receive his father's phone call, Song Dandan has not dared to change the number, and she also hopes that Yingda can care about her son, even if a phone call will make the child ecstatic.
However, Batuu could not wait for his father's phone call, and finally even begged his father to give him a phone number, and called him himself, but Indah did not agree.
For many years, ignoring Batuu was like a stranger, failing to fulfill his responsibility as a father.
Batuu was ridiculed as a "wild child without a father", and when he experienced loss and helplessness, Bayan, who was born with a golden spoon, invested heavily in Indah to let him receive first-class piano training at the age of 3.
Later, Bayan became interested in ice hockey, and Indah decided to train his son to become a good hockey player.
20 years ago, the average monthly salary of employees in Beijing was only 1,700 yuan, and Yingda did not hesitate to pay a "sky-high price" of 50,000 yuan to send Bayan to a high-end children's club for systematic ice hockey training.
At that time, ice hockey belonged to the noble sport, the annual training fee, equipment fee, participation fee added up to no less than 500,000, in order to facilitate his son's practice, Indah spent a lot of money to build an ice rink for him.
In a talk show, Indah once said unabashedly: "The relationship with Batuu's father and son has long been over, and now, my son is Yingrudi, and I am particularly proud to be called Yingrudi's father." "
The host asked him, the same is your son, why did Batuu come to you, and you refused every time?
Indah smiled, and an incomprehensible expression appeared on her face.
"Now that I'm divorced, there's no need to come back to me, the main thing is that I don't want to hurt my current wife and children, and I don't allow anyone to hurt the people I love the most!"
Indah also said that Bayan is his own hope, no matter what he does for him, how much he pays, he is willing, as for Batuu, he hopes not to contact him again, each is the best.
Later, Grandpa Yingruocheng died, and Batuu wanted to send Grandpa on the last journey, but Yingda refused to leave, which also became an eternal pain in Batu's heart.
Indah has publicly stated that he has ended up with Batuu's father and son, and in the face of outsiders' finger-pointing, he thinks it is no big deal and will not care at all.
Song Dandan is very dissatisfied with Yingda and scolds him for playing a loving father in front of his younger son, but he regards his eldest son as a passerby, and has been hurting Batuu for many years, and he is simply not a person!
Countless times, when Batuu envied others and laughed with his father, Song Dandan was in tears in her heart, and she could only comfort her son again and again.
"Everyone's fate is different, since heaven has arranged this, let's face it calmly!" Son, you have grown up, and Mom wants you to see open, be strong, and always be honest and kind! "
In 2018, Batuu was born with his wife Liang Bogu's son, and when his son was full moon, he very much hoped that his father Yingda could come and wanted to share with him the joy of being a father.
However, Indah still refused, as batuu had begged him before, with a tough and indifferent attitude.
Batuu said to him: "Dad, 28 years, you don't care about me, I never blame you, after my son grows up, I will still let him call you grandpa, although you don't want to admit us!" Rest assured, I won't bother you again! "
Indah must have been extremely ashamed in his heart, he couldn't imagine that Batuu not only did not complain about him, but was so generous and reasonable.
Although his father was absent in Batu's life, he was a sensible child, and did not complain, but lived his life according to his mother's expectations, with optimism and gratitude, and blessed him!
