Ren Zhengfei invited Dong Mingzhu to dinner, and let the doctor with an annual salary of 2 million yuan urge the dish, but the doctor said: Dong Zong, the dishes are on the table, no need to urge! Dong Zong looked angry, turned to leave, and the next day the doctor was expelled.
I just want to say one sentence about this: "The meal seems simple, but it is actually the most testing, it can achieve you in a short period of time, and it can also destroy you." ”
As we all know, Dong Mingzhu, as an independent female representative and the president of Gree, her pattern is naturally not to be underestimated, but why would he be expelled because of the doctor's words?
At that time, Dong Mingzhu received an invitation from Ren Zhengfei, because the secretary was on a business trip, Dong Mingzhu thought of letting the new doctor and an intern go with him, after all, in Gree is ultimately doing sales, not only technology online, but also emotional intelligence.
But Dong Mingzhu did not expect that this practice of his own directly caused a "big oolong".
Not long after the meal began, the people present had not yet picked up the chopsticks, but at this time, the doctor did not hesitate to pick up the chopsticks and pick up a chicken leg, which stunned the people present, and also leisurely nibbled, completely ignoring the feelings of the two bosses.
Dong Mingzhu was even more embarrassed, and directly kicked the doctor under the table, signaling him to put down the chicken leg in his hand.
Not to mention that the guest at this table is not him, and the doctor's behavior is already very impolite, and he does not take anyone seriously at all.
Fortunately, the doctor understood Dong Mingzhu's meaning, originally thought that it was "a widow can be taught", who knew that the doctor picked up the wine glass and wine and walked to Ren Zhengfei and said: "Ren Zong, I toast you a cup."
Before Ren Zhengfei picked up the cup, the doctor drank it directly, and this behavior directly caused Ren Zhengfei's face to change dramatically.
Dong Mingzhu also saw this, and at the same time knew that if he let the doctor stay on this dinner table again, he didn't know what disaster he would break out, so he said to the doctor and the intern: "You two see what dishes are not on the table. ”
No one thought that the doctor came directly: "Dong Zong, you are afraid that you are not lost, this dish has already been served." "Instantly the whole audience was silent, isn't this a demolition on the spot?
Seeing that Dong Mingzhu's face was getting darker and darker, the intern hurriedly hit the round field and said, "There is still a soup." After saying that, he dragged the doctor out of the private room.
The next day, the doctor received a dismissal notice from the personnel department.
Many people may be curious about this result, is it because the doctor said the wrong thing at the dinner table, did the wrong thing and was fired? Will Dong Mingzhu be too fussy?
There is a saying in "Chinese-style Socializing": "The meal bureau seems to be eating, but it is actually a bureau, and every word and demeanor of your speech and behavior is seen by others, and they will judge your behavior and emotional intelligence through these." ”
Just to say that the doctor dismantled the stage, the clear-eyed people can see that Dong Mingzhu wants to spend him and discuss other things with the cooperation, but the doctor does not have a little eyesight, which also leads to a "hypnotic dish" becoming the last straw that overwhelms him.
In today's society, whether working or not, it is always impossible to avoid socializing, especially for some office workers, if they do not know how to socialize, they can only be very mediocre, perhaps conscientious in the company, but in the end it is only a very ordinary employee, and there is no room for promotion.
Although academic qualifications are the stepping stones for finding a job, it is still far from enough to have academic qualifications and knowledge, and if you want to develop rapidly in the enterprise, you must have the ability.
What is competence in the workplace? Flexible way of thinking, knowing how to be flexible, good communication skills, is the skill, if you have these, it is only a matter of time before you get the reuse of the leader.
Especially in China, many businesses are often negotiated in the liquor bureau, and if you do not know the skills of socializing, it is difficult to get ahead in the enterprise. Many times, a sentence may make a business, but sometimes, a sentence can also ruin a business, and even bury your own work.
The famous psychologist Carnegie once said: "15% of people's success depends on professional knowledge, and 85% depends on interpersonal relationships." "
Speaking is an art, socializing is a culture! Everyone found that no, in life, dealing with people with high emotional intelligence is a kind of enjoyment, and there are fewer cups of wine per confidant; and talking to people with low emotional intelligence is a kind of torture, and words are not speculative for more than half a sentence.
In my opinion, eating, drinking, and nagging at the wine table is actually a kind of social psychology in itself. A social interaction is equivalent to a microcosm of a humane society, if you do not understand the rules inside, communication skills are limited, then the last to suffer losses will be yourself.
If you are not sociable but have to socialize; every time you eat with a leader, you don't know how to order and toast; entertain guests, often drink but don't get things done..., then I suggest you read "Chinese Socializing" and learn the way of socializing.
"Chinese-style Socializing" lists more than 300 real cases, elaborates on the misunderstandings of interpersonal communication that are easy to offend people, and teaches relevant methods and skills, so that you can get more opportunities and successes in interpersonal communication, make up for your shortcomings, and get more opportunities and successes.
Remember that at dinner, stupid people eat rice, and smart people eat opportunities. Reading "Chinese Socializing" you may be able to achieve a life of left and right, smooth sailing, whether it is entrepreneurship, or workplace hard work, or love, you need this guide to high emotional intelligence.
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