The wife of a 41-year-old man suddenly ran away from home in the middle of the night and has disappeared ever since, never to return home. However, a year and a half later, the man suddenly received a call from the Family Planning Office, saying that his wife had given birth to a girl in the hospital! This surprises and angers men, we are a legal couple, with whom do you have children? What's behind this story?
The man's name is He Qinglin, and his wife's name is Fang Baoqin. He found a reporter and told reporters that his wife had obviously been missing for a year and a half, but suddenly a family planning office called him and said that his wife had given birth to a baby girl in a hospital.
He told reporters with great certainty that the child was definitely not his own. That is, after the wife left home, she had a child with someone else in the field.
He hurried to the relevant departments to check the information and found that the person who gave birth to the child was indeed his lost wife Fang Baoqin.
According to He Qinglin's recollection, one night, his wife fell asleep in bed, and as a result, when he woke up on the morning of the second day, his wife was gone, no matter how he called, no one answered, and his mother-in-law also did not know where his daughter was. He spent a whole year and a half looking for a wife, and he was alone with his son, who was a year and a half older.
Now that he learned that his wife had children with other men, he was angry.
He found the hospital where his wife gave birth to the child, but looked left and right and did not find his wife, when asked the doctor of the hospital, the doctor said that Fang Baoqin had been discharged from the hospital, and on the 3rd day of giving birth to the child, he was discharged, and there was a man in his 30s who accompanied her at that time, which should be the father of the child, the man was called He Dingbo.
According to the home address provided by the hospital, the reporter accompanied He Qinglin to the village committee, found the man He Dingbo, and indeed found Fang Baoqin lying on the bed in the man's home.
Fang Baoqin was a little surprised to see the arrival of her husband He Qinglin, but in the face of her husband's layers of persecution, she always ignored it. He Qinglin asked her: What have you been doing for more than a year, who did you have this child with, do you understand the law, we are a legal couple, you are breaking the law, you know?
But Fang Baoqin did not answer her husband's question at all, but was talking to reporters, and she admitted that the child was indeed not He Qinglin's, but another man's.
The reporter later learned that Fang Baoqin could not stand the life in her husband's house before she fled out overnight, her husband scolded her, her in-laws bullied her, and even her husband's sister's family rode on her head.
Just as the reporter was learning about the situation, He Qinglin and Fang Baoqin's mother fought outside the door! After Fang Baoqin disappeared, He Qinglin called his mother-in-law to ask about the whereabouts of Fang Baoqin countless times, but the mother-in-law always said that she did not know, and now that her mother-in-law appeared in He Dingbo's home, it can be seen that her mother-in-law wanted to intentionally conceal the whereabouts of Fang Baoqin.
The mother-in-law told reporters: "They are good or bad for my daughter. Her husband was not good to her, her father-in-law was not good to her, and her mother-in-law was not good. Before she could get out of the confinement, he asked her to cook, wash her clothes, and go into the water. Don't let her run, let him step on the nails on his feet! I have a daughter, I am in pain, I helped her escape, I don't want her to go back in my life. ”
So does the in-laws really treat their daughters-in-law this way?
When the reporter returned to He Qinglin's home again, the in-laws said that they had never scolded their daughter-in-law, but instead treated them as their own daughters-in-law, made food for her, and did not deduct anything.
He Qinglin's sister said that this sister-in-law Fang Baoqin is mentally ill, and what she says before can be denied later, and there is no logic in speaking.
But Fang Baoqin's mother said: "My daughter has no mental problems at all, but her intelligence is a little lower than ordinary people, and everything else is normal." ”
There is no point in pursuing this now, the current task is to deal with the relationship between this child and the three people.
When Fang Baoqin left He Qinglin's house, he went out to work and met He Dingbo. Although He Dingbo's family is poor and his appearance is not good, he really likes her and is kind to her, so she makes up her mind to follow this man and give him a baby.
Fang Baoqin's only request now is to divorce He Qinglin. She wants to live with He Dingbo and her daughter.
He Dingbo also hopes to be with Fang Baoqin, besides, his daughter needs a mother. He was reluctant to lose the person he loved, and he did not want his newborn daughter to lose her mother early.
And He Qinglin was not happy:
Why have you betrayed me, and I have to fulfill you?
The divorce was not negotiable, he wanted Fang Baoqin to go back, even if it was the daughter of Fang Baoqin and He Dingbosheng, he was willing to raise it.
But how could He Dingbo agree? It's his daughter and wife!
The three parties thus fell into a stalemate [petrified] He Qinglin's attitude was resolute and unwilling to divorce! He also wanted to go to court to sue her, to make Fang Baoqin, who was still confinement, accept the punishment of the law.
Although He Dingbo and Fang Baoqin later hoped to solve the problem through mediation, He Qinglin asked Fang Baoqin to pay at least 1500 yuan a month as child support for his son, which lasted until the age of 18. Fang Baoqin and He Dingbo agreed, and it was better to pay than to go to jail.
However, when he decided to sign the agreement, He Qinglin repented again and resolutely wanted to fight the lawsuit and let the court judge. This made Fang Baoqin helpless, if he wanted to go to jail, there was no way.
The story comes from "In Search of Love"
@Yo Yo Tomato says:
I want to say that if He Qinglin could be nicer to his daughter-in-law, her daughter-in-law would not run out of the house in the middle of the night, and even ignore her one-year-old son, right?
However, Fang Baoqin's legal awareness is still not enough, he should sue for divorce and ask for help, get legal permission and then pursue his own happiness, and marry He Dingbo and have children.
What do you think?
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