55-year-old Xu big brother lives in Jilin City, divorced, the economic income is about 5,000 per month, the housing area is 60 square meters, Xu brother also has three houses, one set is inhabited by the old father, one set is rented, the other set he plans to sell, and so on after retirement to go to Hainan to buy a house to live, live a migratory bird-like life.
Elder Brother Xu said that he did not expect the income of the house to live at all, because he still had a craft, did power work, often followed the construction company to do engineering, and the average monthly income of five or six thousand was not a problem.
For the other half, Xu Big Brother asked the other party to be preferably about 50 years old, have social security, and have a better personality, And Xu Big Brother emphasized that he was determined not to find a bride price when he opened his mouth.
According to the request of Elder Brother Xu, The Red Lady first introduced him to Sister Guo, who is 47 years old living in Jilin City, who is also divorced and is currently waiting at home for her bedridden mother, with a housing area of 80 square meters.
Sister Guo said that two years ago she and her husband were separated because of emotional discord, this year went through divorce procedures, every day in front of the bedridden mother, daughter in the university outside, she often feels that a person's heart is empty, so she wants to find someone who can understand her pain.
When Sister Guo met with Brother Xu, Brother Xu had a very good impression of her, but Sister Guo felt that Brother Xu was too old, and she said that the other party was not the type she liked, and she still liked men who looked spiritual.
Because of the picture of Guo Sister, Xu Brother began to take the initiative to introduce his situation, red lady in order to make Guo Sister change her impression, but also took the initiative to remind Xu Big Brother about his plan to go to Hainan to buy a house, but Guo Sister said that if at the beginning she felt that two people were impossible, she did not want to know anything more.
No matter what Brother Xu said there, Sister Guo just didn't make a sound, and finally Brother Xu understood what was going on, and the blind date between the two people ended in failure.
Next, Hongniang introduced the 44-year-old Sister Yan for Elder Brother Xu, who is also divorced, with a monthly income of 5,000 yuan and a housing area of 200 square meters.
Sister Yan is a graduate of UTokyo University, is currently a teacher, she and her ex-husband divorced in 2009 because of emotional discord, and now she has been single for more than 10 years, Sister Yan said that she is not in a hurry to find a partner, but hopes to meet a like-minded person.
Sister Yan's usual life is very interesting, she loves to read, love to drink tea, the pursuit of quality of life, she hopes that the other half can be as optimistic as her, have a stable income, have a taste for life.
As soon as Sister Yan arrived at Brother Xu's house, she first went to the bathroom, and Brother Xu privately told Red Niang that he felt that the other party was too short and general in appearance, which did not meet his criteria for choosing a mate, and after Sister Yan came out of the bathroom, her impression of Brother Xu was greatly reduced, because the things in the bathroom were too messy.
Sister Yan said that she did not like to judge others, although Brother Xu was very tall and had no problems with her body, but there was still a gap between her positioning and her heart.
When they met, the two people felt that the other was a little worse in the eye, but under the persuasion of the red bride, Brother Xu still took the initiative to introduce his family situation.
Sister Yan was a little embarrassed to say that she felt it out, the other person was very enthusiastic and sincere, and through nagging, she could also feel that he was a real person, and who would live with him in the future should also be quite happy, but it was not suitable for her.
Sister Yan made an analogy, if you like this man very much, there will be an urge to hug him, and she does not feel this way when she faces Big Brother Xu. So Sister Yan took the initiative to tell Brother Xu that she felt that the two people were not suitable enough, and Brother Xu expressed understanding.
In fact, the elderly are close to each other, and it is also very important to be a door-to-door, especially in terms of three views and hobbies. Sister Yan and Brother Xu look at the people of the two worlds, Sister Yan usually likes to drink tea and read, she thinks that such a life is meaningful, and Brother Xu, although economically comparable to Sister Yan, but he is usually more willing to visit the night market, eat some small skewers, live this fireworks day, the spiritual pursuit of the two people is completely different from the trajectory of life, so let the red lady try to rub and rub, it is impossible to come together.
We often say that a person's temperament hides the road he has traveled, the books he has read and the people he has loved, and the same is true for middle-aged and elderly people, and a person's experience will be written on his face and reflected in his demeanor, and he can know at a glance whether the other party is the person he wants to find.
