I have had the opportunity to soar, and my wife has had this opportunity, but because of our high level, I have repeatedly rubbed shoulders with opportunities. One of my father-in-law's cousins was a senior leader, and the two were from the same

I have had the opportunity to soar, and my wife has had this opportunity, but because of our high level, I have repeatedly rubbed shoulders with opportunities.

One of my father-in-law's cousins is a senior leader, and the two grew up together and had a very good relationship. The father-in-law is a very old-fashioned person, often teaching his children not to rely on relationships, to eat according to their own abilities, and when the father-in-law and cousin are at their most beautiful, they do not go to the other party to do things. Perhaps it is the purity in the bones of the literati, coupled with the influence of Lao Zhuang's thought when I was a teenager, I have always had a kind of "disdain" for fame and fortune. I feel that it is very impersonal to go to the back door to trust the relationship and run for office. Therefore, they never take the initiative to seek fame. Although he is conscientious about his work, and there are leaders who appreciate his talents, he has not been able to fight those who have a relationship and a background, and he has watched those mediocre people around him become his own leaders, while he is still struggling in a deputy post at the grassroots level. And the wife is even more so, although she is not a literati, but deeply influenced by her father, has always wanted to eat by her own ability, never took the initiative to contact the leader, and as a result, she never mixed with an official and a half-job in her life. In his words: those around who have "one leg" with the leader have gone up, and he is left with this woman who does not eat fireworks in the world.

After fifty years, people have seen more about fame and fortune, and they have seen everything in the official arena more thoroughly. Although people of the same age or even about to retire are still fighting for the "first-line elevator" of the career, I have completely let go of the idea of fame, and I just want to live in peace, health and health, do what I like to do, and strive to find a spiritual home and a peaceful pastoral before retiring.