My husband has an ex-girlfriend who has been together for 10 years. first love. Two people met in the first year of high school, and the second year of high school were together. One university was admitted to Xiamen, and one was admitted to Anhui. Take the train together to leave them small

My husband has an ex-girlfriend who has been together for 10 years. first love. Two people met in the first year of high school, and the second year of high school were together. One university was admitted to Xiamen, and one was admitted to Anhui. When they left their small county by train together, the girls cried and were reluctant to separate. My husband went to Anhui with her and found a private university to report on his own.

Awesome isn't it? Elope for love.

The two spent their college time together and returned to the provincial capital to find a job together.

The two eldest children who had just graduated shared a house with someone else and set up a small home. The work is not good, busy, and the money is small. Both people are under a lot of pressure, communication is getting less and less, suspicion, arguments... quarrel...... quarrel...... quarrel......

Girls are not too busy at work, and they don't make much money, so they don't work. My husband's job is getting better and better, but he is also getting busier. Girls check the post, check the phone, check the money ~ every phone is reviewed ~ almost every day according to the call record one by one to ask, can't tell the unclear she called back to ask who the person is, what is it for...

Once my husband went on a business trip to Guangdong, and on the day he was about to return, he was told to go to Chongqing, and when he arrived in Chongqing the next day, as soon as he left the train station, he saw girls waiting outside.

I said, "Wow, you must think it's romantic."

My husband said solemnly, at that time, he felt that his back was cold, and his sweat pores were erect.

The girl checked the train from Guangdong to Chongqing that day, and booked her own ticket to Chongqing, just to "catch the adulteress." The phone rang from colleague to vice president to confirm my husband's itinerary.

Many, many such things, I resigned when I came back.

In the end, it is not the way to say that this quarrel is not the way, get engaged, and give the girl an explanation. Contradictions arise again. Because after so many years together, the girl's family is not at all aware, and her mother is very, very sad: you have hidden from me for so long... I am very dissatisfied with my husband's personal and family situation. Therefore, the requirements for the bride price and other gifts are relatively high. In the end, the in-laws also agreed, but the feelings of the two people were really consumed.

After the engagement, my husband went back to the provincial capital to find a job, and said that he would settle the girl in a month and come back again, because he was looking for a house and a job again. After two weeks, the girl suddenly came over again. At this time, my husband is a newcomer to the company, the boss is a girl, will often call him at the end of the work time to explain some things, and finally one day, the girl grabbed the phone to insult the female boss, the female boss was scolded and did not tolerate her, the two people quarreled, of course, there are many dirty words, my husband slapped her ...

Finally, the feelings of the two people were destroyed. The girls were really sad. The two broke up. After about half a year, the girl and the blind date introduced by the family got married, and after another year, they gave birth to a baby, the baby was very cute, and the girl was also very happy.

Many years later, after I was with my husband, I told me about this past. I was very sad, two teenagers took a train through half of China to study together, passed the village field, saw North China, the Yellow River, Taishan, the Yangtze River, Lushan... What a wonderful time it was. It's a shame that this end ended.

I asked my husband, why did you hit her? This is unforgivable. If we have an argument in the future, will you also hit me?

My husband said that he was too young to deal with the problem in a very simple way, and he did not fully care about her feelings. While she loves my husband very much, she knows that the family will not agree, and she does not dare to tell the family that she bears this pressure herself, and my husband did not notice this. And because I didn't go to work after that, the circle of life was too narrow, and I should have mild depression in the later stage, which I didn't notice and didn't care about her very much. The long quarrels have consumed the feelings of my youth. In the end, they separated, but also because they really can't be together, and there are many happy and beautiful times, but more is unbearable.

Both people have become the last thing they want to become, and the other person thinks of the time when they are most unbearable.

Later, when I went back to my hometown with my husband and walked by the lake near his high school, my husband talked about the previous interesting things, and suddenly there was a momentary shaking. I understood in my heart, smiled and said, give you half an hour. Then walk slowly forward~

After walking for about a minute, I heard my husband trotting up and holding my hand. I said: Okay? He said, hmm. We hold each other, we hold the past and the present, towards the future.

That girl, she wasn't just my husband's ex-girlfriend, she was my husband's 12 years of youth. My husband now puts my feelings first, hurts me, loves me, cares about me, I have to say, it is because of her, she in these 12 years, let my husband grow from an ignorant teenager to a mature person.

I should thank her. I also wish her eternal happiness. #Emotional Emotion#Emotion# #正能量 #