It is almost the New Year, and every New Year's Eve, the daughter who marries out always has to buy something to go back to her mother's house to visit her parents, in order to thank her parents for their nurturing grace.
In most families, it is the daughter and son-in-law who prepare gifts for their parents for the New Year, and few mothers-in-law prepare them, but there are always many kind mothers-in-law in this world.
On January 24, 2022, in Quanzhou, Fujian Province, a kind mother-in-law helped her daughter-in-law prepare New Year gifts for her parents, and her daughter-in-law also took out the 10,000 yuan red envelope prepared for her mother-in-law in advance to let her mother-in-law celebrate the New Year.
Such a harmonious mother-in-law relationship makes people feel envious, and behind such a harmonious relationship is the common efforts of two people, after all, love is mutual, you are good to me and I will be good to you.
The daughter-in-law in Quanzhou, Fujian Province, is married far away, because it is very inconvenient to return to her mother's house with a child, and only during the New Year will she have time to let her husband drive her and her children home to visit their parents.
The woman's mother-in-law is a very kind person, considerate of the woman's hard work with the child, but also understand the woman's miss of her parents, so when the woman proposes to return to her mother's home, the mother-in-law takes out the gifts prepared in advance.
I saw a box of gifts on the ground, and those gifts were prepared by the mother-in-law for the woman, representing the mother-in-law's love for the daughter-in-law.
The mother-in-law understands that it is not easy for a woman to go home to visit her parents, so she proposes to let her son and daughter-in-law spend the New Year at her own home to accompany her parents well.
Because of the child, the mother-in-law smeared something black on the child's forehead in advance, which means that the trip is smooth. The woman was very grateful to her mother-in-law for her efforts, and took out the 10,000 yuan red envelope prepared in advance.
The mother-in-law was very surprised, she did not expect that the woman would prepare red envelopes for her, the woman said that there were more places to use money during the Spring Festival, and specially took it out for the mother-in-law to buy things during the New Year.
This matter was exposed to the Internet by netizens after triggering heated discussion among netizens, some netizens said: Quanzhou has such a mother-in-law is really not easy, affected by deep-rooted old ideas, if the son in the woman's family New Year mother-in-law will not be able to open.
Some netizens also said: Mothers are kind and filial, and only when there is a good mother will there be a filial daughter-in-law. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, first there is a good mother-in-law before there is a good daughter-in-law, all of which are mutual.
Kotani's view:
It makes sense to run in both directions, I will be good to you if you are good to me, everyone is very smart, whether you can really feel it with your heart.
A woman's mother-in-law is usually good to the woman and thinks about the woman everywhere, so the woman's treatment of the mother-in-law is naturally not bad. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is naturally not bad between mother and son.
This mother-in-law in Quanzhou, Fujian Province, is not only kind but also reasonable, understands the woman's feelings of missing her parents, and lets her son and the woman take the child back to her mother's house for the New Year, how can such a mother-in-law not be good to her?
Both the woman and the woman's mother-in-law are people who can do things, and both people know to exchange sincerity for sincerity. It is a pity that there are really too few such harmonious mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in this world, and how many people feel that the other party's efforts are deserved.
I hope that everyone in life can be like a woman, filial piety to her husband for her own work, and treat them as her parents.
I also hope that all mothers-in-law can understand the daughter-in-law, for their own sons to be good to the daughter-in-law, believe that the mother-in-law is good to the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law will naturally be good to the mother-in-law, and treat the daughter-in-law as her own daughter.