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In men's hearts, liking a person and loving someone deeply are two completely different kinds of existence. If a man moves the truth, he will take the initiative to restrain himself and make himself a better person, and at the same time, he will do his best to care for and love each other, hoping that the other party can feel his sincerity.
Care, perhaps is the beginning of liking, single women really care about the opposite sex, you can decide whether to accept it after consideration.
But often excellent girls are around, not only one who really cares about her opposite sex. In the face of men's pursuit of themselves, women also have to make decisions quickly. Although the feeling of being held by the stars is good, it is good to hesitate for too long, and it is inevitable that you will leave yourself with a curse.
Among those who really care about themselves, choose the most sincere person, and then reject those who should not care for him, so that for those who are sincere to themselves, it is not a failure.
People who already have a heart or another half, when they encounter others who really care about themselves, must also refuse in an appropriate way. After all, people are also a true heart, although the true heart has wrongly paid people, then you should also treat this true heart well.
If you are not sure whether a person really regards you as true love, then you may wish to see if he has taken the initiative to do the following two things, which is the most direct proof of loving a person.
One: Take the initiative to put you in your heart and care about you everywhere
When a man is emotional about you, he will involuntarily care about you, on the surface, his kindness to you is only accidental, but in fact, the so-called accident is just the result of another effort.
When Xiao Jing goes to work, she can always meet colleagues in the company, and each time this colleague uses the excuse of taking the road as an excuse to let Xiao Jing sit in his free ride. At work, even if Xiaojing makes a mistake, he will put down his work and make up for the mistake with Xiaojing.
At the company's annual meeting, Xiao Jing was allergic to alcohol, but she was still persuaded by the company to drink. The colleague could not see it, took a sip of the wine in the white wine glass, and finally the colleague got drunk and was helped back to the dormitory.
Xiao Jing has a deep understanding of this sincere concern. She understands that as a person with a partner, she cares about the opposite sex, and if she can't refuse, she must also gently shirk it.
When there are people around who really care about themselves, and they already have a heart to belong, they must appropriately pretend to be deaf and dumb, and turn a blind eye to this care.
Because some untimely care will not only not bring warmth to the parties, but will put them in a dilemma. The care expressed directly by action has always had more meanings of love, and only by subtly rejecting it can everything end safely and the relationship return to plainness.
Xiao Jing later told this colleague who cared about herself that she was about to get married through the mouth of other colleagues. After the New Year's Day holiday, Xiao Jing heard that this colleague had resigned, and although Xiao Jing felt guilty, she also understood that this was the best way out for each other.
People who really care about you will inevitably have a taste of liking when they get along with you. After all, the adult world does not care and please for no reason.
If you find that someone always cares about you everywhere, it most likely means that he regards you as true love, if you are not single at this time, you must refuse in time, so as not to consume the enthusiasm of the other party, and to fail and hurt the other party in vain.
Two: Take the initiative to plan and plan for the future between you, and become extremely self-motivated
In addition to caring for you everywhere and keeping you in your heart, another obvious feature is that you actively plan and create your own future. He may not have thought about the future, but from the moment he fell in love with you, he had a sense of responsibility and became extremely motivated at work.
Like John in the famous book "Little Women", he silently likes Meg, although he does not tell Meg about his affection, but every move is considered for Meg.
His family conditions were poor, his parents died young, and he had to help raise his sister's children. Knowing that the burden was heavy, he did not propose to Meg at the first time, because he did not want Meg to suffer with him.
So he quit his job as a governess and started going into business, he wanted to make enough money, and then he would ask Meg to marry him, so that Meg could live a relatively generous life.
This is the difference between a man who truly loves you and plays every scene, he treats you as a lover, he will plan and create the future between you, this affection, hidden in the actual action.
Most men, in the face of people they like, tend to give without hesitation, and even indulge in it, after all, loving someone is selfless and does not ask for anything in return. And as the one who is loved, it is also necessary to see the affection of the other party in time, so as not to miss a person who truly loves himself.
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