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A literary masterpiece can inspire countless generations, even if time has passed a long time, those philosophies and emotional truths of life can still affect our current life.
A warm book, with healing power, can bring us infinite warmth and thinking, and has a vital guide for our lives.
"Little Women" is such a warm book, even if you have not read this book, you must have heard such a saying: on the road to growth, live up to love and freedom. One sentence outlines the thrust of the book, love and freedom are what we seek all our lives.
This book tells us that there is never a fixed template in life, we can live in the way we like, there are many kinds of ways about love, only by being true to their hearts can we harvest true happiness.
Mrs. March's educational philosophy in the book is exemplary, her husband goes out to fight, only she and her 4 children stay together, although she lives in poverty, she always maintains an optimistic and positive attitude, and passes on this optimism to the children. She teaches her children to have a kind heart, an optimistic attitude, and to face the trials of life.
What she taught her children was not only the attitude towards life, but also the choice of marriage, no matter how poor, they could not sell their marriage and sell their families because of money.
Aunt March, who has a lot of assets, has no children under her knees, and wants to adopt one of the four daughters, but the Marches refuse, saying, "We can't give up our daughter for money, rich or poor, we must stay together and share the joys of the world." "Even if life is tight, I am not willing to give up my family affection and give up love, and this attitude also affects my daughters' view of mate selection."
The eldest daughter, Meg, is actually a woman who loves vanity, but in the end she chose a poor man to start a family, and the second daughter Joe chose to come together with the person she really liked, did not care about age, did not care about family situation, only for love, the younger daughter Amy finally chose the person she really liked. The choice of marriage for the three daughters is inseparable from Mrs. March's educational philosophy.
Although the days are poor, but happy and happy, these are far more important than external wealth. The marriage advice she gave her daughters was thought-provoking and worth learning.
I would rather you be the wife of a poor family with love and happiness than a queen with no self-esteem and no peace
More and more people regard money as the most important thing in life, and the pursuit of money has surpassed love and transcended everything in the world.
But this mother tells her children that money is a necessary and precious thing, but I never want you to see it as the first thing or the only goal to strive for.
When a person is completely controlled by money, he will become a puppet with no thought and no love, even if the family is rich, but there is no happiness to speak of.
As mothers, their greatest hope in their hearts is that they hope that their children can live a happy and complete life, that they will not have to endure the troubles of poverty, but they do not want their children to give up their insistence on love for money.
She said: My good daughter, I have high hopes for you, but I don't want you to rush into a rush, just because the rich and rich people have a big house, I will marry them. These mansions are not home, because there is no love in them.
Although money is important, it can never be used as the biggest reason for choosing a person, and a marriage without love is like a cage, even if it looks gorgeous, but the heart is very empty and empty.
I would rather marry a poor man without money, as long as there is love in it, than marry a rich man without love and no self-respect, destined to be imprisoned for a lifetime, without peace.
A lover who is deeply in love is not easily intimidated by poverty, whether married or single, we all hope that our daughter can become the pride and comfort in our lives
The eldest daughter, Meg, set foot in Vanity Fair and attended a gathering of the giants, during which she was slighted and insulted, and a friend said: If you do not take the initiative, the girls of the poor family will never have a chance.
At this time Mrs. March said: I would rather be a happy old maid than a sad wife or an improper girl, running around looking for a husband.
She told her daughter that some of the best and noblest ladies I knew were originally from the cold door, but Eros did not forget these lovely ladies. Be patient and let our home be filled with happiness so that you can take responsibility when you have a home of yourselves, and if not, live your life contentedly.
Such a remark was a great comfort for her daughter. It will make them have a sense of solid determination in their hearts, knowing that their parents will always be their own dependence, they will not exclude themselves, even if they have always remained single, they will not be rejected by their parents.
Many times in life, some of the pressure of marriage and love, often from the parents, wait until a certain age, if not yet married, it will make the parents feel humiliated, they frequently put pressure on the children, the original home should be a warm place, but finally become the burden of the child's heart.
Sometimes love will come later, don't worry, don't have to feel unloved because of the poverty of the family, wait patiently, the love that belongs to you will come sooner or later.
I don't want my daughters to be poor or too tempted by money. If status and money are based on love and character, I accept it gratefully
No mother wants her daughter to live in poverty, but would rather be poor than take money too seriously.
Happiness often has little to do with money, and some people, although living in poverty, can enjoy sweetness and warmth.
Choosing a person should not take money as the only element, love and character are the most important, if you can have the best of both worlds is better, but if you can only choose the same, love and character must be more important things.
Meg's choice of John is a man of good character, he is also wholehearted to Meg, Meg can get his wholehearted love, even if the two people are not so rich, but as long as the two people respect and love each other, it is the greatest happiness.
Everyone has the right to choose their own life, some people choose to cry in the BMW, some people choose to laugh on the bicycle, when you choose money, you have to endure the sadness of not being loved, as mothers, they would rather their daughters do not have so much wealth, the famous lady she married a poor man, surrounded by full of love, this is the mother's greatest comfort.
Money is important, but it's not all about life. Choosing the other half should not take money as the only criterion, love and character are more important things than money.
This mother's marriage advice to her daughters points out the true meaning of marriage and is worth learning from all of us.
The book "Little Women" has many thought-provoking places, it is worth our quiet heart to read one by one, recommended to you, I hope we can all find the truth of love and life.