People's Daily posted a mother-daughter photo of the same model 20 years apart: excellent mother, is the beacon of her daughter's life
For the daughter
Mom is not only her own guardian, but also a role model for her own growth
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Not long ago, I saw such a group of photos on the Internet
The photos were taken by a mother and daughter 20 years apart, and the other was a photo of the mother doing experiments in the laboratory
The other is a photo of her 18-year-old daughter Wang Moumou also doing experiments
The two photos are exactly the same in terms of appearance and posture, and even the serious temperament
Many netizens exclaimed after reading it
"It's too much like that"
"Sure enough, there must be an equally excellent mother behind a good daughter"
According to Wang Moumou, when she was very young, her mother often took her to her own laboratory
Not only did it expose her to a lot of medical books
And he asked her to do experiments together many times
In this way, Wang has liked pharmaceutical research since he was a child, and he is determined to engage in related professions when he grows up
To this end, she has also been studying hard and constantly learning from her mother
In the end, I was finally admitted to the pharmacy major as I wished
Some say the best mother-daughter relationship in the world
It's just that when I grow up, I also become the same excellent you
In the book Raising Girls, there is also such a point, that is
"Mothers are at the heart of education, especially for daughters, when mothers lead by example and do a good job of themselves
Then it is equivalent to invisibly setting up a textbook for her daughter to learn."
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The mother is the guide for the daughter
Some time ago, I saw such a video
In the video, a mother sells pork at the market while her 9-year-old daughter is dancing ballet
The little girl's elegant dancing posture and serious temperament are in stark contrast to the noisy vulgarity of the pork stall
However, both the mother and the daughter seem to be at ease
It is understood that it is this mother who wholeheartedly encourages and supports her child after discovering her daughter's dance talent
Find a teacher, find a video, even in the butcher shop do not relax the training of the daughter
Over time, my daughter has formed the habit of practicing dance anytime and anywhere, and even appeared on the stage of CCTV
Some netizens commented on this
"Although the child was born in the gutter, her mother taught her to look up at the stars."
For most girls, mom is undoubtedly the most important person in our lives and the first woman we came into contact with
It can be said that Mom's vision and pattern, to a large extent, determine what kind of life we will have in the future
Readers who have seen Little Women know it
The reason why the four sisters of the March family can be eye-catching is that each one has a distinct personality and is excellent and unique
It was because they had a wise mother, Mrs. March
In the face of the eldest daughter's arrogance and desire to enter the rich, Mrs. March did not suppress the ridicule, but single-mindedly helped her daughter dress up properly and attract the attention of others
When her daughter finally married a poor teacher and became the wife of a poor man, Mrs. March was even more sincerely blessed and happy for her daughter's happiness
In the face of the second daughter who is full of writer's dreams and is lonely and proud, Mrs. March also gives support and encouragement
And when Joe is confused by the pressure of life, show her the way
Guide Joe to find his original intention
In the end, he successfully realized his dream of being a writer
A child psychologist has said this
"Mothers can not only teach their daughters how to live, teach them how to know themselves correctly, and how to be a woman
And it plays a decisive role in shaping the character of the daughter and the formation of her outlook on life and values. ”
Indeed, on the road of life
Mom is more like a guide with a portable lamp, which can not only help us dispel confusion and confusion, but also show us the way forward
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The appearance of the mother determines the fate of the daughter's life
I have a friend
Since childhood, her parents have had a disharmonious relationship, and her mother always suspects that her father is cheating
For this reason, it is either to go to the unit to play tricks, or to threaten dad with suicide
Even after the two divorced, they still often cursed their daughter's father in front of their friends, counting down his not
In this way, the friend's heart gradually filled with fear of men and marriage
When she grew up, she was also afraid to enter love and marriage
In the end, in desperation, he chose an honest and cowardly man to marry
However, she did not love her husband at all, so she was not happy after marriage, and often quarreled with her husband and called for drinks from him
Some people say
The greatest sorrow in life is to live like you hate
How many girls in life, saying words that hate their mothers
But unconsciously followed the old path of mother
I became like a mother
I have watched such a show "Mom, You're So Good"
In the show, the star Li Sidani's mother" "Juan Sister" can be said to be lively and cute, very confident and optimistic
Because of this, her interaction with Li Sidani is also very relaxed and interesting
It caused a lot of audience to envy
More fan comments said
"Li Sidani is so optimistic and cute, it turns out that she is learning from her mother."
I have to admit that many times, my mother is the one who influences us the most
What the mother looks like, the girl will often have what kind of future
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The best gift for my daughter is to be her role model in life
I have seen such a news
A girl went to graduate school twice, and both failed
When she was preparing for her third graduate school entrance examination, she found herself under pressure and confidence
At this time, in order to cheer up her daughter, her mother did not say a word and also chose to apply for the examination
Resolutely chose to accompany his daughter to graduate school
The mother, who still has to go to work, works while studying, and it is under this action of the mother
The daughter also quickly recovered her mentality, and the mother and daughter studied together every day and memorized words together
In the end, they were all successfully admitted to graduate school
For children, it's more than what you say
What to do is often more influential on them
Being a mom is positive, hard-working, and uplifting
Children will not become lazy and lazy, and they will not be self-motivated
The reverse is also true
The famous host Dong Qing said such a sentence
"What kind of person you want to raise your child into, you must first do it according to that standard, set an example by example, and set a living example for your child."
As moms, we give our daughters the best gifts we have
It is to make yourself a daughter worship and become a role model for her life
A good mother, like a trickle, gently and powerfully waters her daughter's life, gives her life, gives her growth, and gives her the best ending
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Do a textbook for kids
Some people say that excellent mothers are the beacon of their daughter's life
Indeed, a good mother often brings her own light, and her daughter feels warmth in her body
It is strength, the driving force for progress and the unremitting pursuit
I saw such a short film not long ago
A girl was invited to a ball
In order to make her shine, her mother sewed a lot of grand and beautiful dresses for her
Unexpectedly, the girl chose a particularly ordinary red dress
The mother was very puzzled, until the day of the dance, when she was in the corridor of the dance, she saw her daughter's dream message board
Her daughter wrote "I just want to be a mom"
The daughter's actions made the mother both proud and touched
For the daughter, the reason why she has such a dream is not because her mother gave her the best example
Mothers strive to pursue their ideals and live their most wonderful lives
To be a textbook of your daughter's life, to be an idol of your daughter, and never to be the person your daughter hates to be
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