When you are young, you are not familiar with the world, especially women are too idealistic in love, easy to ignore each other's shortcomings, feel that as long as there is love, everything can be indifferent; as long as two people work together, any difficulties can be solved.
After entering the marriage, I found that some of the shortcomings of men are really difficult to change, and if women can't accept them, living together is easy to bump.
After a long time, the woman had complaints in her heart, thinking that she had married the wrong person, and she wanted to find someone to shield herself from the wind and rain, but found that all the wind and rain were brought by him.
Inevitably, it will be disgusted, look down on it in the eyes of the heart, but divorce is not so easy, and then the days will be sad, even if a person tries his best and meets a pig teammate, it is not an easy task to live well.
After marriage, women look down on such men, but they will not say it explicitly.
A man who has been "eating soft rice" and wants to be a master.
Marriage is a win-win situation for two people to team up, whether it is a strong man and a weak woman, or a strong woman and a weak man, as long as two people have a good division of labor, each in its place to seek its own government, getting along is an easy thing, and the life will not be bad.
But there is a kind of man who only wants to lie flat after marriage, sees that his wife can make money, thinks that he does not have to work hard, takes a meager salary, and wants to be a grandfather at home every day.
A friend is a kindergarten teacher, who thinks that he is married to love, and after marriage, her husband receives a salary of three thousand yuan a month, and there is a son who is more than two years old, and his life is tight.
In order to improve her living conditions, she seized the opportunity of e-commerce, earned tens of thousands of dollars a month, and changed into a big house and bought a car in less than three years.
But the man has been taking a salary of three thousand yuan, and he still can't move to find a stubble to quarrel and say that his wife is disobedient, asking his wife for 100,000 yuan to speculate in stocks and being cut leeks, so he also prevents his wife from participating in the training class to learn business philosophy.
Friends really look down on their men, want to divorce and can't be bothered, and often complain to me that this kind of life is not interesting.
Men who know how to "eat soft rice" generally feel good about themselves, care very much about their own image, like to create their own personality in front of outsiders, let others know that he is a good man and a good husband, but how to be at home is another face.
In order to strive for dominance in the relationship, such men like to routine women and want to establish their own authority in order to dominate the relationship and dominate each other.
Of course, this kind of man will provide the emotional value that women need, spend women's money to buy gifts to make women happy, and women in general enjoy it all.
The woman who looks down on this kind of man who eats soft rice is very unhappy in her heart, and she thinks that she only wants to find a man who can be relied on, not a man who only knows how to rely on himself, and can only carry things by himself when encountering things, because such a man cannot afford to carry it.
Everything must be done by themselves, men eat soft rice and eat comfortably, tiredness and grievances have become women's daily routines, the disgust in their hearts will increase day by day, and the time when they can't stand it is the time for divorce.
A cowardly, incompetent, unmotivated man.
A family needs the joint support of two husband and wife to become a safe haven.
However, if the man is cowardly and incompetent, the burden of supporting the family falls on the woman alone, and the man becomes the one who consumes her, and she will certainly look down on such a man.
Netizen Qiu qiu said that in the past ten years of marriage, the husband has never been reliable, can not do anything well, let himself and his children be wronged, never protect his wife and children when encountering things, always hide things, but in love at home.
The man himself encounters things outside to call her to ask her how to do, teach him how to deal with it, the result of stuttering and trembling in the process of negotiation with others, others bully him, he also gives people a smile, his own interests can not be maintained, not to mention that he can maintain his wife and children, she wants to communicate with him He will escape, avoid her, have to live and live a chaotic life, and anything at home is not at ease.
She felt that her spirit had dried up, and there was such a man, like raising one more son, who did not have the courage to divorce, and did not know how long he could last.
Home is a haven, and both husband and wife have a responsibility to work hard for it and learn to run it. If they all want to shelter from the wind, who will be the port?
Women like men who stand tall in the sky, can be alone, and can take care of their wives and children from being hurt.
In "Journey to the West", Zixia Fairy said: "My crush is a hero of the world, and one day he will step on the seven-colored clouds to marry me." ”
Many women long for their other half to be heroic, but in fact, they long for their partners to have a strong sense of responsibility and the ability to protect themselves.
However, when men encounter things, they only promise, cowardly and incompetent, women will feel that they have no dependence, no sense of security in their hearts, no confidence in the future, and they will look down on such men in their hearts.
If you don't think about making progress, then the woman will have no illusions about the future of the two people, and her attitude towards men will change, and the home will become a battlefield without smoke.
A self-righteous man who has no money.
When it comes to money, men will say that women worship gold, which shows that men are also afraid of women saying that he has no money, after all, it hurts self-esteem.
Some men, obviously have no money, but they always feel that they are great, have the psychology of hating the rich, and see rich men say that people are lucky, and they can't see the efforts made behind others.
All day long he blamed others for not giving him the opportunity to get rich, and shouting about what would happen if he had the chance.
Always just lip service, and refuse to work hard, still can't hear the opinions of others, like to immerse themselves in their own world, see no one, do things alone.
Women live with such men, are completely treated as nannies, have a low quality of life, and have to endure all kinds of self-righteous words of men all day long, and every day is suffering.
This kind of man is very selfish, only himself in his eyes, can't see the good of others, won't consider the feelings of others, will only act willfully, and it is the people around him who suffer, and the wife bears the brunt.
Self-righteous men like to live in their own imaginations, without the ability to judge right and wrong, let alone wisdom, can not become a climate.
After women are extremely disappointed in men, they will despise men's behavior in their hearts, and looking down on him is the norm.
As long as the mode of marriage is not tired of each other, how to choose is their own freedom, but if it causes the other half to be dissatisfied and the other half looks down on it, it shows that the relationship between the two people has a big problem.
Women look down on these three kinds of men, in case they meet, regret is useless, can only learn to restrain him, so that he must not make changes, of course, this is based on the premise of not wanting to divorce.
Don't fantasize about this kind of man consciously changing, otherwise what awaits you is greater disappointment.
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