If you want to capture high-quality men, you must be a leading woman

The more incompetent the woman, the more she likes to control men, she thinks that by doing so, men can stay with her forever, but unfortunately in the end men still run.

In fact, whether it is a man or a woman, as long as they do not have the ability, in the relationship between the sexes, they always want to control each other.

Truly capable men, in fact, can't control it, and they are also very disgusted, and it feels too uncomfortable to be controlled by any woman.

If you're in a relationship with a really quality guy, you have to change your way of getting along, not always thinking about controlling each other, but leading each other.

What is the difference between leading men and controlling men? The difference is big.

Controlling a man is that you have no ability, but you like to order a man to do something he is not willing to do, with a certain forced nature.

Leading men, is that you have a very unique charm to attract men, you are not forcing men to do anything, but men are willing to do things for you.

There is a fundamental difference between these two ways of getting along, controlling men will only make men more and more away from you, while leading men will only make men more and more addicted to you and more and more loyal.

In fact, many male and female contradictions are all about controlling each other, rather than leading each other.

The vast majority of women in society are controlling women, not leadership women.

Why can't you be a leadership woman, only a controlling woman?

Because you can't even control yourself, you can't control your emotions and temper, and you still want to control men?

Because you're not confident enough, you don't believe in your charisma, you can lead men, and you'll only use some coercive tactics.

Because you are stuck in a comfort zone and are not willing to grow and change, at the beginning you control men, you can really taste a certain sweetness, so you are happy and unwilling to change.

If you want to be a leadership woman, you must learn to control yourself and control your emotions and temper.

If you want to be a leading woman, be confident, believe in your own unique charm, and the chips in your hands, men are willing to be led by you for these.

If you want to be a leadership woman, don't think about controlling men at the beginning, don't try this sweetness, this sweetness comes at a price.

At the beginning you have to be a leading woman, you don't want to control any man in the past, you will only continue to improve yourself, increase the chips in your hands, and let men be willing to be led by you.

The best way to control is to let go, and the best way to lead is to be willing.

If you can really become a leading woman, you must be able to navigate the love field, and in the relationship between men and women, you can avoid a lot of unnecessary quarrels.

There was once a student Xiao Zhou who was like this, she achieved a complete transformation from a controlling woman to a leadership woman.

Xiao Zhou's own conditions are not bad, he has good looks, has a figure, graduated from a famous university, has a good job, and has a high income.

Before getting married, her husband pursued her, although Xiao Zhou's desire for control was relatively strong, but her husband still endured.

But after getting married, it changed completely, and after Xiao Zhou gave birth to a child, her husband became more and more bad for her.

Her husband is not the kind of incompetent scumbag, in fact, her husband is very good, some urban natives, the family has several houses.

Her husband actually can't stand this kind of controlling relationship, although Xiao Zhou's own conditions are good, but the original family is a little far from her husband.

Xiao Zhou always thought of controlling her husband, and even controlling her husband's parents and letting them do things according to their own wishes, which made them very disgusted.

I told Xiao Zhou that you can't always think of controlling each other, although your own conditions are good, but your original family is still high on the other side.

You must be a leading woman, those tedious housework in the family, just ask a maid to do it, you don't want to be a nanny type woman.

You spend all your time and energy on how to improve yourself, help your husband's career, and most importantly, bring your family to a higher class.

This is the kind of woman who leads, the thing to do, spend all day consuming herself on some tedious chores, and no one will remember you.

A leadership woman doesn't need to be so successful in her career or how profitable she is, but she can lead men, do her career better, and run her family better.

You see the leaders of those companies, it seems that there is no ability, in a certain skill, far from the employees, but he can lead the employees, this is the charm of leadership.

So some leadership women, you see she seems to have no ability, in fact, the ability is very large.

Some controlling women, you see she seems to be menacing, must have a lot of ability, in fact, there is no skill at all.

Those so-called independent and self-reliant women who do not rely on men are not leadership women, but control women.

Because they can't lead any man, they are not confident enough, they are very inferior, and they can only comfort themselves by working crazy and working hard to make money.

They thought that by doing so, they could become a leading woman in the relationship between the sexes, but unfortunately they still went to the road of no return for the controlling woman.

True leadership women, surrounded by countless men, are willing to let them rely on, willing to be led by them, willing to obey them.

And the controlling woman? Even if she really has a successful career, is very good at making money, and has some poor men who eat soft rice who are willing to be with them, they are certainly not willing.

Poor men who eat soft rice are also very disgusted with controlling women, just to eat a bite of soft rice, put up with it.

The woman who leads must be the most attractive woman, and the woman who controls must be the most offensive.

True leadership women, don't have to be out of the way, stand in the foreground, they will only let men charge forward.

The women around the top big guys must be leaders, not controlling women.

The appearance you see seems to be that the big guy is leading the woman, and the real core is actually the woman leading the big guy.

If you want to get the big guy and marry into the big family, you must be a leading woman, and don't be a controlling woman.