Money is a very important thing, but now that there is no money in the bag, it does not mean that men are failing, because it just means that they have not yet succeeded, and every man's future has unlimited possibilities.
Many women are willing to share happiness and hardship with men, husband and wife hand in hand with self-made people are not in the minority, hard work on the road two people to support each other, wait until success, recall all the way to the heart full of sweet feelings.
In life, there are some men who are looked down upon by women, not because of insufficient material conditions, but because men have some very cheap performance.
Such a man is disgusted by women, no matter how enthusiastic a man is for women, pursuing women will not get her response, because the bargaining behavior done by men makes him score negative in the eyes of women, and it is impossible to have a good impression in women's minds.
No woman wants to associate with a man with low cultivation quality, and a vulgar and unattractive man is unattractive. Women don't put their eyes on him, how can they talk about love further?
If a man is a flower, then the price drop he does is like a pest, biting through the petals, and the broken flowers will not make women linger.
As a man, you must not have these performances that make you look very cheap, otherwise the bitter fruit can only be swallowed by yourself. So what do men do that make women feel cheap?
1, like to brag, strong face love to brag
It is said that modesty makes people progress, low-key men who know how to converge are often very calm in personality, such men give people a reliable feeling, talk and do things are very measured.
A low-key man will give her a feeling of stability like Tarzan in front of a woman, and the invisible aura makes women impressed.
Therefore, a mature man should know how to restrain his sharp edge and make himself more like an ordinary person. Silence is golden, and the more obscure the man is, the better the man may be.
Men who like to brag about themselves often want to win the attention of the people around them, and they obviously can't do things to make up face, like the princess selling melons, everything wants to be a big package or point out a few words.
How much ability a man has and how much he can do is not up to him, and others' understanding of him is objective. The love of bragging will only make women think that you are a rude person like an upstart, even if you are rich, you are not an intrinsic noble person.
2, no self-motivated, not enterprising, content with the status quo
Sunflowers have been chasing the sun all their lives, and although its petals and colors are not so outstanding, they can win the love of countless people, precisely because the sunflowers are upright and positive to the sun.
Without a self-motivated and unenterprising man, it is difficult to go deep into the depths of a woman's heart. Women and men get along with nothing more than two results, one is that men take the initiative to motivate women, and the two make progress together; the other is that men drag women down, and everywhere they give women negative energy.
Love, what is needed is that men can be positive, spend less time on mouth work, and do more things to guide women to improve together.
Most of the days ahead will be more exciting than they are now, and men who are motivated and enterprising are responsible, and women and such men can feel the calling power of happiness together.
Unmotivated men are unattractive, a very cheap behavior, an act that makes women invisible to the good, after all, every woman wants to have a better tomorrow than today.
3, idle, delicious and lazy, dozens of years older and ask their parents for money to spend
There will be such a kind of person, called the old man, who is idle on weekdays, does not work or work, and asks his parents for money to spend when he is dozens of years older, and is raised by his elderly parents.
Some men may be temporarily difficult and need the help of their parents, which is not embarrassing, after all, the family does not speak two languages.
But those men who are healthy but lazy and live by eating and living on their parents' savings are very unsightly to women, which is no different from parasites.
The act of nibbling on the old makes women unable to see the light of tomorrow, and the parents' old books always have a time to eat, and at that time, such men are doomed to have no skills and difficulty in gaining a foothold in society, and such men are mostly selfish.
Selfishly basing his own happiness on the pressure on his parents, life is just a mess for him, and the life of a man who strives without a goal is meaningless.
If you want to get the favor of women, you must avoid being a "nibbling on the old" kind of price-cutting person.
4. Eat soft rice
Some women like to listen to men talk rhetoric, a few words to coax them to be excited, willing to buy this and that for men. But after a long time, this fresh feeling has passed, and women have begun to dislike such men.
A man should have the appearance of a man who stands tall in the sky, and he should take good care of the woman instead of letting the woman take care of him. The act of eating soft rice without dignity will be abandoned by women at any time.
Beautiful love should be maintained with heart; beautiful women must rely on personal charm to conquer.
These performances that make men look very cheap, we must pay attention to avoid, otherwise if you are not careful, you will become a person who is despised by women.