A woman questioned whether the man had taken his mother's 300,000 yuan, and the woman's mother directly scolded the man for not having a face, and broke up with her daughter for just over a year, and then found a new girlfriend. The mother began to cry as she spoke, feeling unworthy for her daughter. What's going on in between?
For convenience, for the time being, this man is called Xiao Wang. The cause of the incident began two years ago. At that time, Xiao Wang and his college girlfriend had been together for more than three years. Now that the work of the two has stabilized, they have begun to make plans for their marriage. Unexpectedly, the marriage between the two was strongly opposed by his girlfriend's mother.
Xiao Wang's hometown is rural, and his girlfriend's home is a local urban hukou. The girlfriend's mother thinks that Xiao Wang and her daughter have ulterior motives. The girlfriend's mother even privately approached Xiao Wang, saying that she wanted to give Xiao Wang 300,000 yuan and let Xiao Wang break up with his girlfriend. Xiao Wang categorically refused the other party's request.
The other party may think that it is too soft to work, so it comes hard. The girlfriend's mother did not know where to find out where Xiao Wang worked, and called a group of relatives to Xiao Wang's unit to cry. Under the strong blow of his girlfriend's mother, after half a year, Xiao Wang and his girlfriend finally chose to break up. Xiao Wang also resigned and changed to a company to work.
After the breakup, Xiao Wang met his current girlfriend under the introduction of relatives and established a relationship. For some reason, the ex-girlfriend learned about it. Then happened the scene mentioned at the beginning. The ex-girlfriend's mother believes that Xiao Wang and her daughter have only been separated for a year, and there is a new love, and there is no daughter in her heart before. Therefore, he also joined the camp of denouncing Xiao Wang.
For the scolding of his ex-girlfriend's mother, Xiao Wang's heart is also bitter. He and his ex-girlfriend were obviously separated by her, and now they are complaining about themselves. In the last relationship, Xiao Wang could not let go of the slander of his ex-girlfriend's mother. Now that I have a new girlfriend, it is even more impossible to get back together with my ex-girlfriend.
(The plot is fictional, and if there is a similarity, it is purely coincidental!) ）
Comments:
After reading the above story, I don't know what everyone thinks?
First of all, it is still necessary to express admiration for the behavior of Xiao Wang in the story that even if he broke up with his ex-girlfriend, he did not take the ex-girlfriend's mother's money. Whether people are poor or not, whether they are dead or want face. No matter what, you can't let others look down on you. This is also a rare value.
However, some people did not understand Xiao Wang's behavior of not taking money. How can I not get along with money, not to mention, this is not a small amount of money. The other party took the initiative to give, why do they still refuse, do not take the white, anyway, they have chosen to break up, in the future is also the road to the sky to go half way, whether they can meet again is difficult to say.
For this view, Xiaobian does not dare to agree. Perhaps for Xiao Wang, "three hundred thousand" is not a small number. But no matter how large the amount of money, it cannot buy Xiao Wang's dignity and face as a man. As long as Xiao Wang took it, he was inevitably inferior and could not leave in a dashing manner. If you take your own bottom line and personality, you will not have it.
In the story, the mother opposes her daughter's marriage because of the man's family situation. Some people think that mothers interfere too much in their daughters' lives. As parents, you should not dictate your children's feelings. By doing so, the mother will only lose her daughter's happiness in vain. Some people even believe that with such a mother-in-law, it is best for the man not to marry, so as not to suffer sin.
However, there are also people who support mothers. They think that if their parents are against it, it is better not to marry. Children who do not listen to their parents will regret it sooner or later. Parents are people who come over, and the chai rice oil and salt in life is the reality, and reality is always more important than love. Marriage is never a matter of two people, behind this are two families.
Falling in love is because of love, but love alone is not enough to get married. But without love, can it still be a marriage? Behind the marriage is not two people, but two families, both parents do play an important role in it, and the parents' advice is very important. But this does not mean that parents can dictate the marriage of their children.
Therefore, the door in marriage is still very important. The door-to-door here refers not to the economic conditions of the families of both sides, but more to the family's educational background, living habits, and life in the world. Marriage is not just love, it is more about life, and it is a long, unreserved life.
Finally, I would like to offer you a sentence: marriage is not a child's play, and you can't be impulsive.