Due to the recent development of self-media, many UP owners who have no professional level at all have thrown themselves into the army of self-media.
In order to increase fans and attract attention, he will not hesitate to send some poisonous chicken soup with reverse three views and logic, inducing many female friends who do not have rich emotional experience to use the content of these poisonous chicken soup to get along with men.
As a result, the relationship between the two people also collapsed, and they did not go smoothly.
I chatted with a well-known financial expert yesterday, and the conversation was more engaged, from the very beginning of the discussion of the stock market, to the other party's emotional problems.
In fact, gossiping about each other's emotional problems is indeed because last year, my friend of the opposite sex told me that if there is no accident, he and his girlfriend should have a wedding in the middle of 2021.
However, nearly a year later, he never mentioned it again, so my curiosity was ignited. Sure enough, the final answer was inseparable from what I guessed, and the two were sweet for two or three months and then separated.
This friend, a typical middle-class elite man, generally has a high family economic level, but he has excellent ability and will make money and invest.
The reason why he has been single for many years is nothing more than because he is indeed a face control, the requirements for women's faces and figures are relatively high, and they do not require women to have a superior academic background and economic conditions.
And his ex-girlfriend happens to grow up on his aesthetic point, so the two people quickly got in touch, and it is the kind of scene that just got in touch and fought very hotly, every day you and I.
But in fact, from the first time the two of them had a conflict, I predicted that it would be difficult for these two people to go on.
The reason for their first conflict is mainly related to vibrato.
The two of them, because of some other things, had an argument, and as a result, his girlfriend took a kind of LOW behavior at that time, that is, to send some videos on TikTok to her boyfriend, which said:
"The more direct and grumpy the girl, the kinder she is."
Obviously, his girlfriend did not realize that there was a problem with her communication style, but only blindly glorified her shortcomings.
This friend of the opposite sex did realize at that time that there was a big gap between him and his girlfriend in their thinking and three views.
Although he and the other party were each other for more than a month, in the end they still did not convince their hearts, and he also said to me:
"Imagine with my ex-girlfriend, if I really want to live a lifetime, it will definitely be a kind of torture for me, so I quickly cut off the love thread, and I don't want to waste the girl's youth." 」
There is a cruel truth, if an elite male, when you talk about some poisonous chicken soup, he does not contradict you, but follows you, then your relationship may also be judged as a paragraph.
He only needs to make you happy in the short term and get what he wants from you, so smart men will not contradict you, and when they get what they want, they will disappear without a trace.
So, the first stupid thing we said today that women shouldn't do is:
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Listen less to emotional poisonous chicken soup, learn more dry goods, real skill
In addition to what, bad tempered people are kind in their hearts, and similar ones include:
The women of Wangfu have the following characteristics: slightly fat, loud talking, impatient, but soft heart.
In fact, in addition to neglecting the management of the body, fat may also be caused by diseases;
Speaking loudly, either you are born with a loud voice or you are rude.
Whether you are quick or slow, you can't judge a person's hard heart or soft heart.
Imagine you and a quality male happily saying you meet several of the above criteria. Will the other party really think you are Wangfu? Or do you think you're shallow?
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Put away your knife mouth tofu heart
The silly white sweet heroine in the TV series, with a straight heart and fast heart, has no heart and eyes, and will be judged to be an angelic simple girl, but if you think about it in reality, those who are straightforward and have a straight talk when chatting with you, do you really like it?
Not to mention the quality men, most quality men are willing to lower their standards and find a woman with average conditions. It must be necessary to find the standards that the other party has lowered from other aspects.
Don't take your words as harsh and fast-hearted, and treat not considering the feelings of others as straightforward.
Only when both partners stand at the same angle to think about the problem, speak softly, and do not force each other's words, will they have an empathetic effect and make the feelings full of harmony.