The so-called fate is nothing more than a contempt for subjective initiative, and the vicious circle of making wrong choices according to inertia can only hate the injustice of fate.
Nicola Adams, a Birmingham woman in the UK, is one such cup woman. He married her husband early at the age of 16 and had four children in less than forty. The eldest son also married at the fateful age of 16, but the result was that the daughter-in-law got involved with her husband, leaving a grandson who was about the same age as the daughter to be raised, and more dog-blooded things were still coming...
Nikolai Adams
The story begins in 2015.
On an ordinary day, the eldest son, Shaun, 16, entered the house with a nervous and mysterious look.
"Mom, I want you to meet someone."
Nikolai was busy with housework when a girl timidly peeked her head out from behind her son, and she instantly understood what was going on.
The son's love affair was just beginning, which was the first object he took home, and Nikolai was happy about the child's growth and warmly beckoned her to sit down.
Nikolai Adams and son Sean
The girl, named Clare, was three years older than Sean, not very talkative, somewhat afraid of life, and Sean's love for her was all written in her smile.
Everything seemed so warm until Sean said they had a child and had decided to give birth to it, even registering the marriage with her. Gulaton felt a thunderbolt on a sunny day.
However, Sean's attitude is very determined, threatening to run away from home and break off the relationship without pleasure, and Nikolai fidgets, and in a trance she thinks of her young self.
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Also at the age of 16, Nikolai met her now-husband, Trevor. She is also a hot blood, love is greater than the sky, Fengzi married, gave birth to Shaun.
At a young age, Nikolai became a housewife, and while Shaun was raised, the second and third Caitlin were born one after another. At the moment when she is 32 years old, the fourth Emily is only six years old, and now she has another grandson who is about to be born, and she has become a grandmother at the age when her peers are still fighting for her career, and her life is like a wild horse that has lost its reins, and she cannot be dragged back at all.
When the two were married at the age of 16
Nikolai chose to accept this result, and she and her husband Trevor moved out of the house and began to decorate The room for Sean and add a crib. Although Claire was not a cheerful girl, when she took Nikolai's hand and begged to accompany the childbirth, Nikolai couldn't help but feel hot and promised her that she would take good care of the new daughter and grandson.
Meanwhile, husband Trevor doesn't seem to have any thoughts about it all. He was silent by nature, and the new daughter-in-law was like two strangers huddled under the same roof, and the atmosphere was not harmonious.
In 2017, Claire successfully gave birth to a male, Jayden. Nikolai loved the little guy, feeding him, playing and bathing, just as many grandmothers did, even though she was only 34 years old.
"I've always dreamed of having a big family that's lively and happy, life has chosen me, and I want to run it better."
However, it is not easy to take care of so many members, and the husband does not cooperate. Asked to help make complementary food, he was busy watching sports channels.
Daughter-in-law Claire is not a fuel-saving lamp, it seems that her son is just a bubble of she pulled down, and she doesn't even bother to spend a little time with her.
Nikolai felt cheated, but Jaden was not wrong, no one loved him, only himself to give more.
Husband Trevor only occasionally hugged his grandson
A large number of children boiled into a pot of porridge, it is bound to become more and more mushy.
Exhausted Nikolai and her husband Trevor quarreled and eventually decided to separate. So did the sons Sean and Claire, the grandson became a time bomb, and Nikolai was granted a child placement order with the permission of the court, meaning she was Jaden's first guardian.
One day when his grandson was one and a half years old, a neighbor's phone shot Nikolai in the heart.
"I thought about it for a long time and decided to tell you, do you know that your husband and daughter-in-law are together?"
The neighbor sent the photo to Nikolai, and although the picture only showed two people walking side by side, the other party said that he had seen the two travel countless times, even returning to the same house.
Nikolai's brain went blank, and she told herself that it was impossible, and that the two would not have dealt with each other in the first place, let alone the 41-year-old father-in-law and the daughter-in-law in her early 20s.
Tangled, she decided to call the man and question him:
"I know it all, and trouble tells me why you guys walk together so often."
The tone on the other end of the phone was so messy that it yelled at her:
"Or where should I go!" I can only live in her house, my benefits are all deposited in Claire's account, and we are fine now. ”
Photos from neighbours
Nikolai was out of her emotions, and she looked at the picture again, and Claire's stomach bulged slightly, which had not been the case before, was she pregnant with Trevor's child!
When she told Sean the news, the stupid son cried uncontrollably.
He resented his father, cursed himself, and after a catharsis, stopped talking for almost a week.
Indeed, no one can bear this result: the ex-wife and his father will be together, and there will be a half-brother, or half-son... A bro that doesn't fit to be called.
Nikolai couldn't help but wonder what was wrong.
Trevor and Claire are both introverts, and perhaps what soul resonance does the two have in places she doesn't perceive? Is it difficult for a marriage crisis to be a long-planned elopement. These answers could not be asked, and became the nightmare of Nikolai's nearly two decades of married life.
After the news appeared in the British "Mirror", there was news that the two people's children had been born, and then heard that the two had broken up, and these news could not make many ripples in Nikolai's heart.
After her husband eloped with her former daughter-in-law, who was still in adolescence, the novice grandmother was shocked
She only cares about four-year-old Jaden, a hapless child who was a mistake from birth and is now the only lifeblood she has had to atone for her sins.
If he could do it all over again, Nikolai would not have entered into marriage at the age of 16, and his son would not have allowed it.
However, there is no second chance in life, she only asks this grandson not to make a regrettable choice, and she will use her life's work to water it. Although this may seem like an emotional kidnapping that exerts infinite pressure.