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In yesterday's article, I talked about wanting to indulge in this point, and then many girls said, I am indulgent, people are gone, but what to do?
So, let's first draw the first point, that is, if you want to play the skill of wanting to get away with it, you must have a good psychological quality, and after you have it, we will talk about specific methods.
01. First of all, the premise of "vertical" must be that the other party has been attracted to you and has developed a good feeling for you.
Yes, if he is not interested in you, you will go "vertical", and the most likely end is "death".
In the film, Claire is very clever, she is accurately grasping the timing, after she found out that Oldman was interested in herself, she began to communicate with him deeply, and guided him to pay for her, creating a sense of confusion and ambiguity, she dared to say that she did not fall in love with him, thus stimulating his man's competitive nature, so that he began to think about her, and he could not stop thinking about her.
Soon, Oldman began to suffer from gain and loss, and thought that he had encountered a love enemy, and began to be more attentive to Claire, cooking a big meal for her, in order to let her buy a suitable dress, he went to great lengths to bring back a lot of clothes for her to try on, and also risked being misunderstood by others as perverted to buy cosmetics for her, encouraging her to become beautiful, and helping her overcome her fears and get out of the house.
Oldman's cost is getting higher and higher, and his feelings for Claire are getting deeper and deeper, so Claire has begun a new round of "longitudinal".
02. Secondly, the essence of "vertical" is: "to do".
In fact, on the basis of having already gained the trust and good feelings of the other party, to use a legitimate and sweet rejection to break this trust and good feelings in person, the purpose is to improve their sense of existence in the other party's heart.
Claire, under Oldman's efforts, did not thank Zero for this, but became more and more hot and cold to him, and she also directly refused to go out of the house, playing missing, she not only did not take Oldman's efforts seriously, but also tried to toss him as much as possible, suddenly hysterical cries, coupled with inexplicable neuroticism, so that Oldman was at a loss.
In this case, the average man will definitely stay away from Claire. Curiously, however, these actions did not disgust Oldman, but rather stimulated his desire to protect and made him understand the importance of Claire to him. Why is it so effective? Because in a man who wants to pursue you, your repeated doing, repeated tossing, will constantly brush your sense of existence in his heart.
Don't worry that he will be annoyed, as long as you are on a certain scale, he will not be annoyed, he will only love you more.
03. Again, the most important trick of "vertical" is: make mistakes and then apologize.
This one is the soul of the "vertical".
When Claire is "doing", what she should pay special attention to is Oldman's attitude, as long as Oldman can bear it, her next step must be to do more, as long as Oldman has a difficult face and begins to avoid, she will sincerely apologize, take all the mistakes on herself, pretend to be pitiful.
Remember, make mistakes first, once the signs are not right, sincerely apologize, and then after getting forgiveness, you must make mistakes again, if necessary, you can come a few more times to explore the other party's bottom line, and even expand the other party's tolerance for you Bottom line, he will lower the bottom line for you more and more.
The true meaning of love is: the more he can tolerate you, the more he loves you, and the more he loves you, the more he can tolerate you.
04. Finally, "vertical" to the extreme is to grab.
When you are almost "indulgent" to a man, don't forget to take his last step, be sure to make him full of value to you. In this way, his love for you can be in full swing, and you can also be able to grasp it.
In the film, on a rainy night, Oldman goes to see Claire, is attacked by the mob, and falls in a pool of blood, he dials Claire's phone and tells her that he is outside her house, so Claire overcomes years of mental illness, runs out of the house, and saves Oldman.
In that moment, Oldman forgot his own life and death, he thought that it was he who saved Claire, it was his efforts that made her overcome her phobia, it was his efforts that made her finally become a normal woman, it was his persevering love that redeemed Claire's soul.
At that moment, Claire gave Oldman a sense of victory in capturing a woman on his own, so Oldman happily surrendered to claire, the world's most beautiful prey, and he took her into his home, to his secret room, which he never let outsiders know, took her to admire his valuable life's collection, and proposed to her passionately, and he was ready to quit the auction world and spend the rest of his life with her beloved.
05. Mei Niang said
"Tackling" is the end, and "vertical" is the means. "Vertical" must be orderly, "capture" can be so cleverly captured,
In short, wanting to get away with it is a protracted battle about intelligence, a psychological game, and a woman's mentality must be stable.
Claire, who has a super calm mentality, is finally given to the rich and handsome Oldman, which seems to be Oldman's efforts, but in fact he lives in a dream that Claire has woven for him.
From talking on the phone, to talking through the door, to seeing her eyes through the small hole, to peeking into her face, to peeking into her secret area for the second time, and then to meeting face to face, walking into her room, taking her out of the imprisoned world, letting her walk into her own world, and then skin kissing, reaching the fusion of water and milk.
In this beautiful, mysterious dream, Claire satisfies his curiosity, his desire to conquer, his drive, his curiosity, his desire to explore, his desire to protect, his desire to snoop, his desire to possess, and his desire to redeem.
Oldman doesn't fall in love with Claire, who can give him such a rich feeling, who else would he fall in love with? It was Claire who gave Oldman a taste of love, and he also completed his redemption by saving himself, healing his trauma and achieving self-growth.
So, even if the conspiracy is finally solved, it is Billy, Robert and Claire who jointly designed this scam and took everything from him, he also chose to forgive and wait, rather than calling the police, because Oldman is not stupid, he will feel so deceived, and the motivation is full of love! What you get is also full of enjoyment!
Therefore, if your posture is flat, you must not be arrogant, when choosing a mate, you always tend to look for men with general conditions, in fact, in the relationship between the sexes, the appearance is not absolutely king. Appearance is nothing more than a "sex"-oriented choice.
You know, attraction is the most important factor influencing the choice of high-quality men, on the contrary, women's core advantage if only appearance is actually a very dangerous thing.
As the male protagonist in the movie said:
"Once you have an interest in a woman, a firm belief will make you believe that she is the most beautiful."
Yes, what about mediocre looks? As long as he falls in love with you, you are the most beautiful Xi Shi in his heart.
Some people said, Mei Niang, your routine is full, so terrible. You can think of it that way, but I don't think so. Beauty and appearance are good products that attract men, how can wisdom and cunning not be?
On the battlefield of life, we can have many ways and use many methods to get the people and things we want, as long as we do not break the law and do not violate morality, we can naturally advance and retreat, can be high and low, can be light and dark, and can also attack and defend. As long as I truly love this man, what kind of way does it work? Especially those kind and bright girls, if you are always waiting for men to chase you, it is really better to use your wisdom to take the initiative after you have optimistic about high-quality men.
As the priest in the American drama "London Life" said:
"It takes courage to identify the right person, the weak are not good at love, true love belongs to the strong."
Spring is coming, I hope that girls can become strong, find their own true love, do not be discouraged, create a dream for him to make him obsessed, you will eventually be regarded as a treasure by him, love you for a lifetime.
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