Looking back at the toothless aunt to go on a blind date, to finish the bride price and to go upstairs, netizens: no matter how poor you are, you have to buy a mirror

Today's single elderly people are not lacking in material life, but their spiritual life is relatively empty. Because the children have their own things to be busy after they become a family, and they have their own families to take care of, they simply do not have so much time to accompany their parents.

But now children are also more open-minded, and if their parents are divorced or widowed, they also support their parents to find another wife. When the elderly have a partner, they can take care of each other in life and comfort each other spiritually.

But it is more difficult to find a suitable partner, and now there are more men and fewer women, and even the big mothers have become tight. And the aunts are also well aware of their own value, and always have high standards and strict requirements in choosing a mate, so that many uncles are discouraged and lament that they are not born at the right time.

Just like the following big mother, her own conditions are not good, but the blind date requirements are still particularly high, under the uncle's commission to seek perfection, the big mother still waved the sleeve, turned away, and the uncle was angry and complained.

So, what kind of high requirements did this big mother put forward? Why didn't she look up to Uncle?

Aunt Wang, 53 years old, has no room, no children, no pension insurance, and has been divorced for many years. To say that this Wang Aunt is also a bitter person, when she was young, her husband ate, drank and had fun and did not care about the family at all. Aunt Wang's home was busy outside the house, and in the end it was still a green grassland.

Aunt Wang divorced in a huff, and now that she is older, she wants to find a responsible person who can be responsible for her and her daughter. Although Aunt Wang has no house and no money, her teeth are very prominent, and the standard of blind dates proposed is also very high.

Red Niang introduced Uncle Liu to Aunt Wang, who can be said to be an invisible rich man, not only has a monthly pension of five thousand, but also has a house in the city, and there are also 580 square meters of demolition houses in the countryside.

Uncle Liu said that he was 62 years old, widowed ten years ago, single for so many years, the hardware is complete, that is, a woman is missing to clean up the house. Uncle Liu heard that the red lady introduced him to his wife, and specially chose to go on a blind date in the 580-square-meter demolition house.

Red Niang took Aunt Wang to the demolition house, and Aunt Wang walked around the house and came out. Red Niang was very confused and asked Aunt Wang why, and Aunt Wang said that she smelled smoke and that she did not like men who smoked and drank.

Uncle Liu felt very wronged, he said that he only smoked occasionally, sometimes in a bad mood, smoked a cigarette to chase the drama. If Aunt Wang doesn't like it, he can quit smoking. For Aunt Wang, Uncle Liu was in love with it at a glance, and he was satisfied with everything.

Aunt Wang saw that Uncle Liu had a crush on herself, and her self-confidence came up, and said to the red lady that if the two people really wanted to be together, Uncle Liu had to give her a dowry of 400,000 yuan, and to pay her pension insurance, the house in the city must have half of her rights and interests.

Although Aunt Wang's conditions were a bit harsh, Uncle Liu felt that she could accept it, as long as Aunt Wang could live a good life with herself. However, Aunt Wang was a little ignorant of the height of the sky and said to Uncle Liu: When you meet me like this, the world is not easy to find, and if I want to find you like this, I don't need to pull it.

When Uncle Liu heard this, he was not angry, and said that he had taken a fancy to Aunt Wang's temper, and he was straight and stubborn. Uncle Liu said to take Aunt Wang to see the house in the city again, and Aunt Wang also promised to be fine, but as soon as she walked out of the house, she regretted it.

So, why did Aunt Wang repent? What is Uncle Liu's view of Aunt Wang's remorse?

For Aunt Wang's remorse, Red Niang was also speechless, asking her why, obviously agreed to Uncle Liu to go to the city to see the house. Aunt Wang dragged the Red Lady hurried forward and said to the Red Lady: You can find another one for him tomorrow, I can't see it. There are too many men in my picture, but I don't even look at those who smoke and drink, and those who have a salary can't look at it, and if I had known that he would smoke, I wouldn't have come to the blind date.

Red Niang said that Uncle Liu had promised to quit smoking, but Aunt Wang felt that this was just Uncle Liu's strategy to slow down the army, and when he really got married, he would definitely continue to smoke again. She didn't want to be deceived by Uncle Liu, so she asked Uncle Liu to find another one.

Red Niang told Aunt Wang's words to Uncle Liu, and Uncle Liu was very angry when she heard it, and said bluntly to Red Niang: Where does her confidence come from with her teeth? I just said that too beautiful to keep, ugly can be at ease at home, she is still in heaven!

Netizen views:

Some netizens said:

This big mother is also too confident, she doesn't look good, the conditions are not good, how dare she ask for so high? No matter how poor you are, you have to buy a mirror to look at yourself.

Some netizens said:

Big mom is also right, some people really don't like to smell smoke, and smokers are indeed difficult to quit smoking, big mom's worries are also reasonable, rather than getting married and can't stand the smell of smoke and divorce, it is better to stop as soon as possible.

Editor's opinion:

Aunt Wang's requirements are indeed quite high, according to the conditions, she belongs to Gao Pan, but just because Uncle Liu smoked, she was unwilling, which shows that Aunt Wang is a person with an opinion and will never be wronged by herself.

But if you really love a person, you only see the advantages of the other party, and you can't see the shortcomings of the other party, it can be seen that the aunt really has no feelings for the uncle, even if the uncle conditions are so good, he has not been favored by the aunt.

There are no really suitable two people in this world, only people who change themselves for each other, if you have to let the other party follow yourself everywhere, then you are happy, the other party must be very wronged.

Therefore, in marriage, especially in the marriage of the elderly, it is even more tolerant and mutually understanding to truly accompany the rest of life.