Choosing a rich man to marry himself is the dream of many young women, who think that marrying into a rich man's family is equivalent to flying up the branches and becoming a phoenix, but as everyone knows, all the problems have just begun.
In the eyes of many women, the rich in-laws are their home, but this is just a stay, how easy it is to really get the approval of the rich in-laws, marry into the rich family, but it is themselves who suffer. Netizen Wang Ping said: "After marrying into a rich in-law's family, I understood that a marriage with the wrong door is too desperate!"
Wang Ping's parents like to climb high, and many people have introduced her to the right man, but Wang Ping's parents have disagreed, until the appearance of Chen Tao, Wang Ping's parents can be regarded as smiling, because Chen Tao's family is very rich.
Wang Ping is a well-behaved person, she believes that her parents will never harm her, so her marriage is all arranged by her parents. The parents asked for a dowry of 500,000 yuan, and Chen Tao's family did not hesitate in the slightest.
When it came time to get married, almost the whole village went, and they all thought that Wang Ping marrying into such a family was equivalent to living a happy life.
On the first day of entering the door, the mother-in-law said that she needed to take care of the family's business and had no time to do housework, so everything in the family was pushed to Wang Ping. Wang Ping wanted to theorize a few words, but her mother-in-law said: "You don't have a job, our family provides you with food and clothing, gives you pocket money every month, and has the right to hire you as a nanny." ”
On the surface, there doesn't sound wrong with this sentence, but Wang Ping didn't marry into this family to be a nanny, and she still felt very uncomfortable.
Every day everyone goes out to work, while Wang Ping cleans up at home, washes clothes and cooks. When it is necessary to go back to her mother's home, her mother-in-law often looks through Wang Ping's bag, always worried that Wang Ping will take away valuable things at home, in order to be able to monitor Wang Ping's every move, Wang Ping's mother-in-law also installed monitoring at home.
Once, Wang Ping accidentally knocked over a bowl, and the mother-in-law said very angrily, do you know how much this bowl is, there is not enough success, and there are more than enough failures. Chen Tao was next to him, but he didn't dare to speak up, because in this family, Chen Tao also needed to rely on his mother-in-law to survive.
Wang Ping wanted to go out and find a job, but her mother-in-law said, you go out to work, who will clean the house. He also admitted that he was not at ease in handing over his home to others, and directly refused Wang Ping's request to go out to work.
Wang Ping is pregnant, which was originally a very happy thing, but the mother-in-law said that after the birth of the child must be taken by her, Wang Ping can not understand how to understand, the mother-in-law explained, I do not trust you to take the child, after all, this is our family's bloodline. In this way, after the birth of the child, Wang Ping is only responsible for cleaning up the housework at home, and the responsibility of taking care of the child falls on the mother-in-law.
Seeing that other people's children can be raised by her side, but Wang Ping is just like a maid, then she suddenly feels that marrying into a rich family will not be able to get a happy life as desired, but will be looked down upon by others because the door is not right. However, when it comes to economic strength, she is far inferior to her in-laws, and it is more difficult to sit on an equal footing with the other party, in this marriage, it seems that there is no lack of anything, but she can't see any hope.
In the marriage relationship, do not always blindly compare, everyone should start from their own actual situation, do not always see each other's money. If you don't have the ability to have all this, even if you rely on marriage, you will often pay a heavy price for it.