As the saying goes, husband and wife are in the same heart. After men and women form a family, they become one, and they must be in one place with their hearts and use them vigorously, so that they will not be defeated when they encounter any difficulties.
We often say that husband and wife are bedside quarrels and bedside quarrels, and since they have become husband and wife, they are relatives, and they cannot become enemies. However, we have also seen too many cases of "husband and wife are originally birds in the same forest, and the great difficulties come to fly separately".
Therefore, for marriage, many people's feelings are very complicated, full of expectations and expectations, but also worried about their own life is not satisfactory, afraid of being let down.
Women, in particular, will have a fear of marriage. However, even if it is marriage, we must keep in mind one point: do our best in everything, do our best, and obey the destiny.
Recently, the picture of a woman being fed by her husband in Foshan, Guangdong Province, has caused many people to talk about it, and netizens are envious, blessed, and jealous.
The woman had just given birth and needed to take care of her baby, so she didn't have to take care of eating, while her husband was very considerate of him and came to his wife with a bowl to feed him.
Seeing this scene, some netizens said: But as long as my husband can have one in ten thousand of his, I will not run away from home.
It seems that many people have suffered a lot of grievances in their married life and finally chose to separate from their husbands. Everyone wants to be happy, but when misfortune can't bear it, maybe breaking up is also a relief.
Judging from the picture, it should be that the family was eating, and the woman was holding the child in her arms and coaxing the child to sleep, so she sat a little farther away from the table.
Children like to sleep anytime and anywhere, which all mothers should know, and at this time, if you do not coax your children to sleep, then most of the children are crying and making trouble, which will make people feel more uncomfortable.
Therefore, even at the meal point, young mothers should also coax their children to sleep, after all, for the child's mother, the child's sleep is more important than eating by himself.
Fortunately, the woman's husband is more intimate, seeing that everyone is eating, and the daughter-in-law can only stay on the side to coax the child, can not eat in time, so he took a bowl of rice, came to his wife, with a spoon to dig the rice to feed his wife to eat.
This scene looks very warm, although it is a small act, but it is enough to see the man's concern and love for his wife, I am afraid that the wife is also eating sweet in the mouth.
However, after the video was sent, some netizens also put forward some different opinions. Some netizens said: Why not let the child's father coax the child and let the mother eat first?
For this situation, we do not know what the reason is, but it is certain that the woman's husband loves her so much that he will be happy to coax the child, presumably the woman is afraid that the husband will not be able to coax the child, so she is willing to coax herself.
Perhaps the wife thinks that the husband is hairy, may not be able to coax the child, but will make the child cry, affecting everyone's meal, and as a mother, her own small child, is not too worried about letting the man go to coax, and the mother coaxed the child, the child can fall asleep faster in the mother's arms.
In this regard, many female netizens have expressed their envy, while male netizens have said: Isn't this normal? As a result, the female netizens issued a soul blow: Maybe you are lucky.
It can be seen that for this warm picture, many people have mixed feelings in their hearts, and there are no small fluctuations in their emotions, so they will touch the scenery and taste the bitter taste of their hearts.
As the saying goes, everyone has their own life path to go, every couple's emotional path is different, in this world, there are people who are happy and happy, then, there are people living a chicken feather.
There are a lot of women who are dashed with hopes and disappointed in marriage after marriage, and as for the reasons, there are many reasons. It's just that some people choose to divorce and leave directly, while some people choose to tolerate compromise, and more people live a life because of their children.
There are many unfortunate things in marriage, but it should be understood that it is very normal to be noisy in marriage, and you cannot be grumpy because of some trivial things, if it is not a serious problem, then you must not be disappointed in the marriage, nor can you easily deny the other party's whole.
Marriage is a lifelong thing, and at any time, the first marriage is the most holy and beautiful. As husband and wife, we must learn to tolerate each other, understand and support each other, and for small family conflicts, we must learn to look down on them, because contradictions are inevitable, but they cannot be easily elevated to principle issues.
To put it bluntly, marriage is not only about the emotional basis, but also requires both parties to learn to manage marriage, and management is something that many people are reluctant to do.
For example, in this case, the husband feeding his wife is only a small act, nothing special, but it has aroused the feelings and envy of many people, which is enough to show that many people cannot actually understand the true meaning of married life.
Running a marriage with emotions and colored glasses will always be a tragedy.