It didn't happen to them, and many people talked about how hard it was to make the right choice.
Many women are sensual, attach great importance to love, and if they do not get the beauty they want in marriage, they will have longing. If you meet other men at this time to pluck themselves, women will be a little complacent while judging men's purposes, thinking that their charm has not diminished.
Once you fall into the wrong cognition, you will make the wrong choices and affect your happiness for the rest of your life.
The inner thoughts will decide to make a choice, but many women can't distinguish between men's routines and ambiguity, partial and self-righteous, and finally be hit in the face by reality and regret it is too late.
Xinyi (pseudonym) is a well-known beauty, even if she is married, there is no shortage of men around her, her husband is not at ease with her, no matter where she goes to work, he follows her, which makes her very dissatisfied, thinking that her husband is too small, all day long do not know how to make money, but put all his energy on her.
A person's encounters, except for uncontrollable external factors, the rest are the cause and effect of their own choices.
When she met Boss Wang to please her, she was arguing with her husband, who asked her to quit her job and go home to prepare for pregnancy, she did not want to have a child so quickly, and she quarreled when she disagreed.
When Boss Wang said to give her 20,000 pocket money a month, she knew that he was uneasy and kind, Boss Wang saw that her concerns had been set on the condition, saying that she would buy her a small apartment, she was moved, and chose to betray her husband.
After three months together, she chose to divorce, because Boss Wang said that he wanted to marry her, but after the divorce, he was quickly abandoned by Boss Wang, and the apartment was also recovered by his wife, and she was empty of bamboo baskets, regretting that she did not cherish her feelings with her ex-husband.
There was no sympathy for her, and most of them watched her laugh and thought she was stupid before being deceived.
I just want to say that she doesn't understand men too well, that she's unrealistic, and that she's hurt as a result.
Married women are seduced by other men and fall into the wrong cognition, and there is no good end.
A married woman being pampered does not mean being loved.
Many married women become particularly confident when they encounter other men pursuing themselves, believing that they are attractive and easy to conquer men.
If the husband and wife have a bad relationship, they can't help but want to borrow it to hit their husbands, but they don't know that this wrong perception will make them suffer.
Coupled with the various flattery, commitments and love words of other men in the process of pursuit, it deepens women's narcissism and self-intoxication.
This kind of fan's self-confidence will elevate their charm, but it is easy to fall into the trap set by men.
Xinyi and her husband quarreled because of whether to have children, and the marital conflict gave other men the opportunity to take advantage of the void, and she felt that Boss Wang's plucking was because of love, but she did not know that it was a routine.
Women should understand why they are married and still have men to seduce?
To see the essence of the problem in order to avoid being deceived, after all, men who seduce married women are just casting a wide net, do not have to pay anything, and do not have to be afraid of being entangled.
Married women are married people with husbands, if the man outside gets his hand, it will increase his sense of accomplishment, he knows that his purpose is only to sleep, may pay in the flattery period, but the price is not large, women think that men are love.
As long as the woman divorces, the man will terminate the game and disappear as quickly as possible to avoid being pestered by the woman.
Married women are pampered and tend to overestimate their place in men's hearts.
It is often heard that some women are caught in extramarital affairs to emphasize that men love themselves, and it is the man's wife who is too strong and unwilling to divorce, etc., so that men have no way to marry themselves.
Such women have unrealistic fantasies about men, thinking that they can fight with men for a while, believing in men's commitments, but ignoring what men do.
When Xinyi was plucked by Boss Wang, when he bought her an apartment and promised to marry her, she took it seriously.
Why she would take it seriously, it was because Boss Wang was generous to her, and she did half what she said, which made her lose her ability to judge, perhaps because she overestimated her position in the hearts of men.
In this wrong relationship, women do not know convergence, but instead convince themselves to believe the man's words, hold the wrong mind, resulting in stealing chicken and not eating rice.
If a woman overestimates her position in the heart of a man, she will fall very badly, because she thinks too much about herself, she will get carried away, and it is easy to be blinded and let herself fall into the abyss without knowing it.
Think that men outside of marriage can give themselves what they want.
Married women who fall into extramarital love and like to use "true love" to define the relationship between two people will make women convince themselves that they are going further and further down the wrong road.
Being picked up by other men, she has something to ask for in this relationship, but she is partial to feelings.
In order to prove that she is the man's favorite person, the woman will disguise herself as the person the man wants the most, and want the man to make up his mind to divorce and marry himself, or save her from "water and fire".
The woman is getting more and more distracted, the more she feels that the men outside are good, and once the scale is tilted, she will think that the man can give her everything she wants.
However, this kind of feeling is invisible, women are not rare by men outside, to know that men are best at weighing gains and losses, like to get the greatest benefits at the smallest cost.
A woman can get her hands on it without paying any price, why should a man divorce and lose half of his family property to toss, not to mention that there is no trust relationship between them, let alone love, and some are just taking what they need.
If a woman mistakenly thinks that a man outside of marriage can give what she wants, but she can't "swim", no matter how to change the pool, it is useless.
When a married woman is seduced by other men, do not be blindly confident, avoid letting yourself fall into the trap of men, and destroy your own mind and beliefs. Don't overestimate your charm, misestimate your position in the hearts of men, and avoid a bad ending.
When a smart woman is provoked, she will respectfully draw a clear line, let the man retreat from difficulties, correct his position, guard himself, do not fall into the wrong cognition, and be "cruel" to himself, so as to increase the ability to have happiness, in order to keep the original intention.
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