Fang Yinuo is a new mother, as long as she sees her child crying, she will be nervous and whimsical. But in Xiao Lu's view, he did not understand his wife's approach, and even felt that Fang Yinuo was too nervous. Xiao Lu saw that Fang Yinuo wrote down the children's feces, milk and other trivial matters in a notebook every day, and he felt that such a life was meaningless.
Fang Yinuo used to be a beautiful little girl who loved beauty and cleanliness, but since she became pregnant, everything has changed, her face is full of melasma, her stomach is full of stretch marks, and her figure is bloated and out of shape. Fang Yinuo's mood, in addition to the joy of greeting the child, is that he cannot accept such a self.
After being discharged from the hospital, Fang Yinuo and his mother-in-law also had a disagreement over the search for a sister-in-law. The mother-in-law is completely the idea of the older generation, she said that she gave birth to two children, and it is not so expensive as Fang Yinuo, but Fang Yinuo insists on using the moon sister-in-law, and the collision between the two generations is very fierce.
Xiao Lu, who was a father for the first time, was tired every day and was physically and mentally haggard. In this bland as lukewarm marriage, Xiao Lu is not a qualified husband, which makes people very angry. The audience admitted that "Dear Child" originally intended to educate married men who put their careers first and abandoned their families, but Xiao Lu's approach was really inflammatory.
When Fang Yinuo was sad, she would sit in the toilet, as if only here would give her quiet and relaxation. Every time I see myself in the mirror becoming more and more vicissitudes, no one can experience this sad mood. In the final analysis, what overwhelms people is never the last straw, but the collection of all the straws, the disappointment over time, the increasingly invisible trust and the faint hope. Fang Yinuo's experience has made many viewers empathize.
It has been said that compared with the ancients, the marriage of modern people is easy to fail, because people now pay attention to love and material things in marriage, while the marriage of the ancients is mainly aimed at morality and tradition. Sustainable marriages are ultimately supported by temperament, cultivation, and self-restraint. Marriage is a kind of self-cultivation, a kind of parent-child relationship and life cultivation.