The plot in "Dear Kids" is really too realistic! In particular, Xiao Lu, played by Qin Hao, when his daughter-in-law and mother-in-law quarreled with his mother and brother, he yelled: "You continue to argue!" And then the fuss! Subsequently, he finally said the words that had been in his heart for a long time.
"You're all right, you're all right. You're happy, I was wrong. I shouldn't have put you all together. ”
As he spoke, he waved his hand and slapped himself hard.
"You all think about that little thing in your heart, that feeling of your own, that self-esteem, that whatever... Don't think about others? Have I lived a peaceful day since I was born? I worked there desperately during the day, and when I came home at night, I was not happy about this, coaxing. The one who gave the one a face off, and both of them were not happy, so both of them coaxed. Coax the big, coax the small, coax the small, coax the old. Yes, man, it doesn't matter, but I'm tired too! Who doesn't want to be coaxed? I want to be coaxed too!
I'm sleeping on the couch now, I have a sore back every day at work, and none of you have asked, even if you have cared. Any one of you is a little upset, and I am worried to death, because you are my family, I don't want you to be wronged, I feel sorry for you. But have you ever felt sorry for me? ”
Speaking of this, Xiao Lu cried silently and cried bitterly...
Looking at him crying sadly, everyone fell silent.
In this section, Xiao Lu released the kind of repression and grievances that men had endured for a long time. Especially when it comes to "Have you ever hurt me?" At this time, his voice changed because of choking, looking at his family like a wronged child, his lips trembling slightly because of emotional excitement, and then he bowed his head and sobbed. Even though his body trembled with sobs, he still had to hold back the tears, showing that men retained the last trace of stubbornness for dignity.
From the scene where Xiao Lu couldn't cry, we saw that it was not easy for a man. Every day outside desperately earn money, all the pain and tiredness are buried in the bottom of the heart, and when you return home at night, you must keep smiling and try not to worry your family.
He worked hard to maintain the harmony of the relationship between every member of the family, even to the point of observing the color, being cautious, and fearful.
He should consider that his wife has just given birth to a child, and his mood is unstable, he must try not to upset her, and he must speak softly. He should also try to reconcile the mother who came to help, so as not to make the mother sad.
The palms of his hands and the backs of his hands are all flesh, he wants to maintain the harmony of the family, and his emotions can be put aside first, but even if he is so careful, there are still many family conflicts.
It wasn't until the family conflict got out of control that Xiao Lu vented his long-suppressed voice. This time, all the family members were silent, and it turned out that everyone had their own embarrassment.
Although it is not easy for the novice mother in the play, Fang Yinuo, to have a baby, in fact, as a novice father, it is not easy for him.
The role of Xiao Lu is both three-dimensional and contradictory, he has a gentle side of men, such as not abandoning his wife's postpartum incontinence, and taking the initiative to help his wife sort out. But he also has a side with thin mud, and he has no clear attitude when dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, just persuasion at both ends, but he can't suppress either end.
He will also think of buying a fish for his wife (and buying it wrong), but he will also not want to go home and hide in the car because the child is crying.
Therefore, we can see the shadow of most men in reality from Xiao Lu, who have a positive side and a negative side.
There is also a plot of "Xiao Lu catching fish" in the play, which restores life.
In the evening, it was dark, and Xiao Lu, who was off work, went to the vegetable market to buy a crucian carp for his wife to stew soup to drink, but the fish were sold out, only catfish.
He came home after buying catfish, got out of the car and just took two steps to get out of the car, but the bag was broken, and the fish jumped on the ground. Xiao Lu carried something in one hand and went to catch fish with the other. Because it was a live fish and slippery, it took him a lot of effort to catch the fish, grab it in his arms with his hand and trot all the way home.
As soon as I entered the door, I was robbed by my wife: "What time is it?" "Blame him for how he came back."
He laughed and said that there were no more fish in the market, and it was hard to grab one.
Fang Yinuo was a little angry when he saw him holding the catfish, this is not crucian carp, is this not catfish?
He angrily scolded him and said, "Do the crucian carp milk and the catfish milk?" Don't buy it later, you don't have to get it.
He wasn't angry either, and put the fish in the sink anyway.
Life is troublesome like this catfish is slippery and difficult to catch, but it is a little bit of torture, so that you can't have a little temper.
Xiao Lu finished the fish, and was called into the room by his wife to tell him that the child's grandmother was secretly smoking. Then he also showed his husband the rash of the child, saying that the mother-in-law had worn too many clothes for the child and came back sweaty.
Fang Yinuo said that the matter of parenting can be discussed, but the matter of smoking must not be condoned.
At this time, Xiao Lu advised his wife to be soft and talk to your mother, with a little concern. But Fang Yinuo said that he let me say everything, and you want me to be a bad person? Then, she forced Xiao Lu to say it immediately.
Xiao Lu had no choice but to go hard.
Seeing that his mother was dancing, he cared, fanned his mother, and coaxed her to be happy. Then I asked my mother if she smoked.
The mother had to admit it, and said that she did not smoke her granddaughter, and Xiao Lu had to persuade her mother not to smoke anymore.
Xiao Lu turned back to his wife and said, I guarantee that my mother did not smoke. He also advised his wife to be generous and not to be too strict. But the wife turned over the things that her mother-in-law had been greedy and cheap before, saying that she was afraid of teaching bad children, and Xiao Lu couldn't say it at all.
Xiao Lu was able to persuade and coax at both ends, but he still did not fundamentally solve the problem, and this problem was not easy to solve.
With that, the mother-in-law took the child out for a walk, and accidentally slipped the stroller because she watched others play mahjong, and threw the child out. The mother-in-law was furious, simply retired early, and came to her daughter's house with her luggage to help with the child.
In the end, there was a mixed war between the two parents.
Life may be like this, struggling in the middle of the garbage. Everyone has everyone's thoughts and feelings, but always ignores each other's feelings, and constantly consumes in the busy life...
Just like Xiao Lu, although he strives to earn money to support his family, and does his best to maintain the harmony of family members, although it is impossible to be perfect, they are working hard for this family. Maybe there is no standard answer in marriage, only under mutual tolerance and understanding can slowly grow...