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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
When men pursue women, they do not only look at women's appearance, they will also look at women's interiors, and if they feel that women are too cheap, they will not rush into contact.
Especially mature and excellent men, when choosing the other half, will be more critical, if women fail in certain behaviors, basically look down.
The more mature and stable men are, the more they will see through some things, and they will be more cautious about feelings, they do not need a delicate vase, but a woman who can go forward and backward with themselves.
Therefore, when interacting with women, men will have a stronger opinion, know what they want, and if the other party is not worthy, they will naturally not casually communicate.
Once they feel that it is not appropriate to be with a woman, even if the woman is beautiful, they will not accept it, and they will not waste the time of both sides.
Generally speaking, in the eyes of good men, these behaviors of women are very cheap, and most men will not marry.
First, the relationship time is not long, and I like to ask for it
In reality, some women and men have not known each other for a long time, and they have made various demands, always looking for various reasons for men to pay.
In fact, this kind of behavior is a particularly price-dropping behavior in the hearts of men, and it will generally be rejected.
Because, the more mature and excellent men, the more they don't like this kind of demanding women, they feel that such women are too materialistic, have no giving mentality, and are not worth associating.
Good love is to give together, if you want to get each other's love, then you also have to pay accordingly.
If you just get to know a man, you want this and that, basically men will be scared away by you, even if they can afford it, they will not be willing to pay.
If a woman has this kind of taking mentality and likes to measure love with substances, it is likely that she will not be favored by men.
For example, when some women interact with men, they always reach out for gifts, or suggest that the other party sends red envelopes, etc., which is improper behavior.
Moreover, some women go out to dinner with men, order a table of rich dishes, and do not eat a few bites, and finally let the man pay for it, which seems unreasonable.
Even, some women also pull men to the mall, see beautiful clothes and bags, let men pay, the price is still very expensive, this is all a bargaining behavior.
Although, when in love, men also need to spend some money, but women can not take the initiative to ask, if they always let men spend money for various reasons, this is not love.
Moreover, a truly mature man can see your mind at a glance, and when he understands your character, he may immediately give up on dating.
Therefore, once a woman has this kind of bargaining behavior, she will basically not be looked at by men, and she will not marry no matter how beautiful she is.
Second, there is no boundary in interacting with the opposite sex, and the feelings are casual
In men's minds, if women have no boundaries with the opposite sex, their feelings are very casual, and they generally will not accept it, they will feel that this kind of woman is too cheap.
No matter what kind of man, it is impossible to accept that a woman has a lot of contact with the opposite sex, even if it is beautiful, it will not rush to pursue.
Because, such a woman is not single-minded about feelings, her words and deeds are very frivolous, and it is not worth men to pay their true feelings.
Especially mature men, more will reject this kind of woman, they themselves have a deep understanding of women, it is easier to see through the essence of women, if you feel bad, you will leave.
A truly excellent man needs to find an equally excellent woman, and two people can reach a tacit understanding in their thoughts and three views, so that they can have a happy love.
For the kind of woman who has experienced a lot of the opposite sex, she is very repulsive in her heart and will not interact at all.
My friend Mr. Zhang is an executive of a company who used to delay marriage because of his busy career, and when he was 36 years old, he began to focus on pursuing women.
At this time, the company just recruited a girl, who has a good appearance, a high education, and a very serious job.
Mr. Zhang deliberately pursued her, and after a month of pursuit, he chased her in his hand, and the two sides talked about love.
Originally, Mr. Zhang thought that he had found true love, but less than half a year after he was formally in love, he found that some of his girlfriend's behaviors were very abnormal.
On several occasions, he saw his girlfriend with the opposite sex and often went out to socialize at night. Every time he came back, he asked his girlfriend what she was doing?
The girlfriend not only did not explain, but also felt that Mr. Zhang restricted her and acted very angry. Later, Mr. Zhang inadvertently saw many chat records in her mobile phone, and the content was particularly ambiguous.
In the end, Mr. Zhang painfully proposed to break up, and he felt that his girlfriend had no boundaries with the opposite sex and could not accept it.
Therefore, if a woman has frequent contact with the opposite sex and has no boundaries with each other, it is a special price-dropping behavior, and men will not accept it no matter how much they love, and they will eventually give up.
Third, like to be clingy, too childish
Mature men, who generally have their own jobs or careers, need to have plenty of time to do their own thing and not have much time to spend with women.
Therefore, when a woman behaves very clingy, men will feel that this kind of woman is too childish, not independent at all, and will not rush into contact.
In fact, most men do not like to be stuck by women all the time, which will make them unable to concentrate on their work, and naturally feel very depressed.
Even if you love this woman very much, you will wear out your patience because you can't stand clinging, and finally leave.
Truly excellent men, what they aspire to be the kind of women who can run a good family and business with themselves, can be dependent on each other, and can be independent.
If a woman clings to a man all day, it will not only make the man feel very tired, but also affect the man's work or career, and naturally get their favor.
In fact, if a woman wants to be cared for by a man, it is best to maintain both financial and spiritual independence.
When you are not attached to men and can live your own life, you will get the respect of men and let him be inseparable from you.
Although, two people in the relationship, need to maintain a relationship, mutual care and communication is indispensable. However, if in the process of maintaining the relationship, it causes trouble to the other party, it will affect the development of the relationship.
Therefore, women who like to be clingy and behave very childishly will basically not get the good feelings of men and will lose their charm in an instant.
After all, in the hearts of men, such clingy women are more expensive, because they are not independent, so they will not easily communicate.
Men don't like to be tied down, and if women bring them not pleasure, but a trouble and burden, they won't accept it, much less marry home.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Gibran said, "Love each other, but don't be a chain of love." ”
Indeed, whether it is love or marriage, each other can not be too bound, while loving, have their own capital and confidence, in order to get respect, will not be priced.
To sum up, truly mature men often feel that women have three behaviors that are very cheap and will not marry home.
If the relationship time is not long, it likes to take; there is no boundary in the interaction with the opposite sex, and the feelings are casual; like to be clingy, too childish.
Such a woman, without her own dignity, is not independent enough in spirit, is not sincere enough in her feelings, and basically does not get the pity of men.
Those excellent men, the partners they desire, are women who can stand shoulder to shoulder with themselves, and their thoughts and visions have a certain degree of tacit understanding.
If women do not have these advantages, even if they are beautiful, men will inevitably marry, which is the attitude of mature men when choosing a mate.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.