Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Feelings that cannot be touched or seen are invisible but clearly traced. The person's position in my heart has hurt at the touch, and it hurts when I touch it, and I feel sad when I touch it.
How lucky would it be if love could accidentally reach the white head?
It is common to divide and merge in feelings, and cold and warm self-knowledge is the norm. After experiencing it, I realized that people who love and love and disperse, what they can't let go of, is not love, but a kind of obsession of their own.
When love has become a thing of the past, how much it has torn your heart and lungs for a departed person, one day in the future, you will feel how stupid you were.
Most of the feelings that can be well connected have come to the end. Almost all the people who can be disconnected are after surviving the years of a person, and they no longer want to mention the old things and the old people.
In the relationship between men and women, men who can truly love you deeply, even if there is an unspeakable secret, will not break the connection for more than 3 days. Once it is more than 3 days, most of the people who still break off contact with you love you not so deeply.
After being disconnected for more than 3 days, your can't put it down, stemming from the 2 words of "fantasy"!
On days when you are disconnected, you always fantasize that the other party will give you a message, a phone call, or suddenly stand in front of your eyes and tell you that he will never leave again!
When the days are stacked and the disconnection continues, you will gradually understand that a man who can take the initiative to break the connection has never been worthy of your persistent affection and expectations!
A man who has taken the initiative to disconnect with you for more than 3 days, don't bother, he doesn't deserve you! The reason is simple:
First: Men who actively disconnect for more than 3 days don't love you so much at all!
There are many women who, in the process of men taking the initiative to disconnect themselves, have more than once made excuses for men. Not only that, but it also self-examines. After countless summaries, he began to use the form of "small essays" to send out a "war book" that converted back and forth to men with tenderness, sadness, and anger.
It's just that all the news is sinking into the sea!
It's not that a man can't see or receive it, he just ignores it. Even, the woman was set to do not disturb, and when she saw the unread message, it was directly deleted with a single swipe.
Between men and women, care and not care can not be hidden!
People who care about you don't have to wait for you to take the initiative to launch the "book of war", and have already given the "book of surrender" for the rest of their lives with both hands.
The person who doesn't care about you, you can't get an equivalent response from him no matter what. Even if you dig out your heart, it is your own willingness to do so, and what does it have to do with him?
Yes, some people's active disconnection is a test of uncertain love. But you have been disconnected, and you have also shown your actual heart, or you have not received a response, which can only explain:
You're not loved, or you've never been loved!
Men who can receive your countless small essays and ignore them are simply not worthy of you!
How can a man who deserves you be willing to let you turn all your sadness into a paragraph of words containing countless tears?
Second: Not responding is the best "response"!
In the post-80s junior high school English texts, there is a bird named Polly, which once said a sentence - No news is good news!
No news is good news, no news, good news!
In the relationship between men and women, men do not respond, do not take the initiative to silence, is the best refusal!
Some men are like that, he doesn't love you anymore and decides not to have the relationship. However, he just wants to force you to say the word "separate".
Because, he doesn't want to take on the reputation of a "bad man" or take on any responsibility for "hurting people".
What's more, he knows your deep affection for him, and if he takes the initiative to separate from you, he is worried about facing your tearful entanglement.
He's not seeing you crying or seeing you back, he's just bored and doesn't want to see you who makes him so irritable.
Therefore, from the time he is not enthusiastic about you to the beginning of the disconnection, it is better to force you to take the initiative to say separate, than to wait for you to pestering him in front of you.
Naïve people always think that adults should have a formal ceremony, whether they decide to be together or decide to separate.
In fact, the difference between being apart and being together is that separating a person can make a decision. Case. What else is the sense of ritual?
People who love you must understand what "initiative" is!
Men have taken the initiative to disconnect with you for more than 3 days, and have never responded to you anything, allowing you to go crazy, crazy, miss, cry, is to tell you:
Your joys and sorrows have nothing to do with him, don't bother him anymore!
No matter what unpleasantness you have ever had, as long as you have always been able to give each other a solid affection, but the other party takes the initiative to break off contact with you on this basis, he must not have thought of continuing with you for the rest of his life.
In particular, men who have taken the initiative to disconnect with you for more than 3 days and have no news at all do not love you as much as you think.
Perhaps, you really have had something you shouldn't have in this relationship.
But if he really loves you, he will solve the problem with you face to face, instead of making you think wildly in a disconnected way and finally passively mention breaking up.
In real life, the more we grasp a relationship, the relationship must not give us much security. Because of our excessive care, let this relationship bring us infinite torture.
When facing feelings, no matter how deeply we love someone, we must not forget to leave some space for loving ourselves.
Only when you retain a little spare energy to love yourself, you can distinguish who is worthy and unworthy in front of a love.
Some people are destined to lose more steadily than to have.
Instead of suffering from gains and losses on a day when the connection was cut off, it is better to gently let go. A man who regards you as a grass, why do you bother to treat him as a treasure?
After passive disconnection, you have wanted to open up the situation of reconnection countless times, but for men who don't love you, all your "wants" is an impolite entanglement.
Whatever it is, what others take the initiative to give you and the result you take at all costs must be the former that makes you feel happy and satisfied.
Often at all costs to ask for things, just your own heart is not willing, but you have never discovered this fact!
Affectionate, to be left to those who deserve it. People who don't deserve it, never deserve you!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
Topic Discussion: How long have you been humbled after being cut off by a beloved man? Leave what you are sorry to say to others in your heart and leave it in the comments section below!