Remarriage in later years has become the main theme in the lives of the elderly, but is the choice of remarriage for the elderly really correct?
The 72-year-old local tycoon Cheng Said: "I married a 52-year-old nanny, and my life was different from what I imagined, and I regret it." "Why does Uncle Cheng regret it?"
Protagonist: Uncle Cheng
I am 72 years old, and I became a retired elderly man 12 years ago, and my monthly pension is 6,000 yuan. My children are very obedient, they have their own careers, they have their own families, so I don't have anything to worry about.
After all, when people are old, the most worrying thing is the happiness of their children, but I have no need to worry.
The year before, when I was walking in the neighborhood, I slipped on the sidewalk of the neighborhood and accidentally broke my leg. After I was discharged from the hospital, my son hoped that I could live with him, but I was not very willing to live with my son, I did not like it very much, and I always felt that I was under the fence.
So, I simply hired a babysitter for myself, her name is Xiao Chen, 52 years old. Xiao Chen divorced her husband a few years ago, the children belonged to her husband, lived alone, and became a nanny in order to live.
At that time, my children were very happy, after all, I had insisted on living alone since the death of my wife, and now that I had a nanny, I could live my life with peace of mind.
Since Xiao Chen came to the house, my life is very comfortable, housework does not need me to do, every time I want to go out for a walk, Xiao Chen will accompany me, I am no longer alone.
Time passed little by little, Xiao Chen and I spent half a year together, I felt more and more that I could not leave Xiao Chen, but always spend money is not a thing, the economic pressure is a little big, I also want to save some money myself, can leave a little property for my children.
Therefore, I planned to marry Xiao Chen, Xiao Chen did not have much opinion on the matter of marrying me, and even a little in favor, I did not think so much, since Xiao Chen was willing, then get married.
Who knows, after marriage, life is not the previous life, Xiao Chen has become the hostess of the family, sometimes she does not like to take the initiative to do housework, and even buying vegetables and cooking is not so active. Xiao Chen also hoped that I could give her the house, otherwise, she would not take good care of me.
However, I found that life was different from what I imagined, but instead I found a trouble for myself to go home, so I still had to be cautious about remarrying in my later years.