For a woman, marriage is the most important thing in a lifetime, if you marry well, then there will be no grievances in your life, once you marry badly, then the future days will be difficult to say. When in love before marriage, two people just feel that as long as two people love each other, everything else is secondary.
However, once the relationship is elevated to marriage, some contradictions are slowly revealed. After all, marriage is not only a matter between two young people, but also includes both families. Every woman wants to marry a husband who loves herself and can have a good in-law, but how many people can meet the real good in-laws?
"Brother-in-law" is a more convenient Internet term on the Internet in recent years, which is used to describe a person who does not care about his other half, does not consider his own small family, and blindly spends all his energy and all his financial resources on his brother. Such things abound in life, and when you meet such a person, you must have a clear mind, never be carried away by love, and must stop the loss in time, so that you can be less hurt.
01.
In love
Mengziyuan was born from a wealthy family, her parents opened several chain supermarkets in the local area, so from a young age, Mengziyuan grew up in a worry-free environment, and her parents also did everything they could to meet the wishes of their precious daughters, always afraid of what grievances their daughters would suffer.
Although the family is rich, Mengziyuan has not become a kind of pampered big lady at all, but has a good temper, and gets along very well with her friends around her, and everyone likes her very much. Not only is the popularity good, Mengziyuan has studied very well since she was a child, and her family will sign her up for various interest classes, so Mengziyuan is also a versatile girl.
Mengziyuan, who graduated from high school, was admitted to a local university with excellent results, mainly because her parents did not want her to go to study in other places, thinking that it was best to stay in front of them, after all, there was such a daughter in the family, Mengziyuan could also understand the hearts of her parents, so she did not refute it, but listened to her parents' opinions and went to college in the local area.
In college, Mengziyuan, like other girls, hopes that she can find a sweet love in college, and when she graduates, she holds a graduation photo in one hand and takes the hand of a favorite person in the other hand to bring it to her parents.
Because Mengziyuan is not only beautiful in appearance, but also outstanding in school, there are many boys who pursue Mengziyuan, but there has never been a boy who makes Mengziyuan feel excited. Maybe the fate is really wonderful, just when Mengziyuan is still lamenting that she has no boyfriend for two years in college, love has quietly come.
It was raining heavily outside on this day, Mengziyuan stood at the door of the teaching building looking at the rain so big, he did not bring an umbrella, it is estimated that he had to wait for a while, just at this time, an umbrella appeared in front of him, Mengziyuan looked up and saw a handsome boy handed over his umbrella and said, Just have an extra umbrella, for you to use.
Maybe this is love at first sight, Mengziyuan can hear her heart beating faster, and then said thank you to the boy, and asked the boy's name and class. After that, Mengziyuan used the umbrella to go to this boy named Gu Yuxuan from time to time, thanking him and inviting him to dinner.
At first, Gu Yuxuan did not have any feelings for Mengziyuan, and after listening to Mengziyuan's self-introduction, knowing that Mengziyuan was a local, or the only daughter of the family, and the family was quite rich, Gu Yuxuan began to have more intersection with Mengziyuan, but this time Mengziyuan did not know that the other party was willing to get along with himself because of his family's good family.
It didn't take long for the two people to be together smoothly, and in the process of communication, Mengziyuan was particularly attached to Gu Yuxuan, often taking the delicious food brought to him by his parents to Gu Yuxuan, and from time to time he bought gifts for Gu Yuxuan out of his own pocket.
02.
betrothal
Gu Yuxuan took Mengziyuan's goodness for himself as a special matter of course, in Gu Yuxuan's view, he was tall, outstanding, good at studying, and he was also the teacher's right-hand man at school, and the only thing that made him feel that he was not very good was that his family was not as good as Mengziyuan's family.
But this is not a big problem, in his mind, as long as he firmly grasps Mengziyuan, in the future Mengziyuan everything in their family is not their own, after thinking about this, Gu Yuxuan is also more caring and considerate of Mengziyuan, which also makes Mengziyuan feel that he is really lucky to find such a good boyfriend.
Gu Yuxuan's family from childhood father died unexpectedly, there is a little brother of his five years old, from the small brother two people are brought up by Gu Yuxuan's mother, from the death of his father, Gu Yuxuan knows that the burden of this family will be tested for him to support him later, and his mother also warns him from time to time that he must study well, and in the future, he will have to help his mother take care of his brother.
Mengziyuan did not dislike Gu Yuxuan after knowing Gu Yuxuan's family situation, but felt that this boy was very responsible, and he would definitely be very responsible for his family when he got married in the future, so in the process of two people interacting, Mengziyuan never asked her boyfriend to buy any gifts for herself, even when two people went out to dinner, it was Mengziyuan who was rushing to check out.
Sometimes Gu Yuxuan is doing part-time work outside, Mengziyuan is on the side to accompany him, all the money earned from part-time work is used for Gu Yuxuan's tuition and living expenses, and the rest will be used to subsidize the family at home, Mengziyuan looks at such Gu Yuxuan is even more full of heartache, so he is usually particularly generous to Gu Yuxuan, from time to time he will buy clothes for Gu Yuxuan, of course, these money are also the pocket money that his parents usually give themselves.
Two people who graduated from college quickly found a suitable job for themselves, after working for a while, Gu Yuxuan proposed to Mengziyuan, originally Mengziyuan felt a little too fast, but Gu Yuxuan said that after becoming a family, he could work more calmly to earn money and run their small family well.
So Mengziyuan took Gu Yuxuan to see her parents, and her parents did not object to their daughter's marriage, as long as the daughter felt happy, she did not dislike the man's family, afraid that her daughter would be wronged and prepared a villa for her as a dowry room, and also prepared an off-road vehicle.
In this way, the two people first carried out the engagement ceremony, and the two families discussed choosing a good day after the engagement and then doing the wedding. Although they are not yet married, Gu Yuxuan's mother and brother lived in Mengziyuan's dowry room in advance, saying that they would get married in a few days anyway, and it was the same when they lived, and they came to experience the experience in advance.
03.
parted
For the future mother-in-law's approach, Mengziyuan is not good at saying anything, can only be awkwardly agreed, and the arrival of the future mother-in-law and the little uncle gradually let Mengziyuan see the family.
At home, the mother-in-law never remembers to change slippers, the outside shoes all day long to step on the home is not the same, to this, Mengziyuan and Gu Yuxuan said several times, at the beginning, Gu Yuxuan is still patient to drag the ground, and then directly said to Mengziyuan, OK, my mother has been used to it all her life, can I change it all at once? What do you juniors think about with your elders all day?
Not only that, the mother-in-law is even more suspicious that Mengziyuan is a big miss, ten fingers do not stick to the Yang Chunshui, saying that as a woman, how can she not do anything, so let Mengziyuan learn to cook in the kitchen, and still supervise on the side.
Mengziyuan was very uncomfortable in her heart, but Gu Yuxuan never said a word for herself, just focused on his mother, Mengziyuan did not want to hurt the feelings of the two people, so she could bear it herself.
And the little uncle lay on the sofa all day either watching TV or playing games, throwing away the garbage after eating, Gu Yuxuan also explained for him that he still didn't understand things, and it would be fine in a few years.
On this day Mengziyuan woke up and prepared to drive to work, but found that his car was driven away, called Gu Yuxuan to know that the car was driven away by the little uncle, Mengziyuan was also very angry, greeting and not a sound to drive away, anyone.
When I came home from work at night, I found that everyone was looking around the car in the yard, and it turned out that the car was hit by the little uncle, and Mengziyuan said: "I am not married yet, and the dowry car will crash first." ”
"It doesn't matter, Yuanyuan, your family has money, and I don't care about these few dollars, anyway, I will drive him in the future, and tomorrow he will drive to repair it, and one day he will have time for his father-in-law and mother-in-law to buy us a new one."
Mengziyuan did not expect her fiancé to say such a thing, that is, at this time Mengziyuan realized that Gu Yuxuan never loved himself, he only loved himself as the daughter of a rich family, and at the moment Mengziyuan proposed to Gu Yuxuan to break up and let their family move out of their homes.
Every girl in the choice of marriage partner, must be clear-headed, can not be confused by a moment of rhetoric and bewitched, can not marry a good man, after marriage there will be no happy days, in the end can only be hurt by themselves, find problems, timely stop loss is the most correct approach.
Married life requires two people to work hard together, to pay together, can not only rely on one person to make sacrifices, such feelings will not last, a long time, a lot of contradictions will come out one after another
In the end, the two people can only part ways.