Everyone's heart will have a person who can't be abandoned, he is your white moonlight is your cinnabar mole, is the carrier of your youth, your ignorance, your youth, the first love is indeed an indelible memory in many people's hearts,
First love is that kind of unforgettable, if two people are peacefully broken up, people are more willing to take it as a good memory, whether it is because of their own will to choose to break up, first love is always special in everyone's heart, people will always put on a layer of filters for him, with a layer of special feelings, people are always easier to give up thinking when doing things, and finally do irreparable things.
Love and marriage are not the same, in love we can unscrupulously pursue, but marriage forces us to consider reality, a person suitable for love is not necessarily suitable for marriage, many people are married to a suitable person in the end, when you decide to get married, you should put down the previous things, rather than both sides can not do a final give-up, when the break will continue to be chaotic, you have been wavering in your feelings, then do not expect others to run firmly to you, If you do the wrong thing in the vacillation, then others naturally have the right to turn around and leave.
Luo Xiaona is such a person, she is sandwiched between two men, intellectually she naturally knows that her fiancé is a very good person, is a person who will bring her happiness in life, she should not fail him, but emotionally she still can't choose to refuse when her first love is looking for her, she can't make a choice herself, and finally others made this choice for her.
01. Unforgettable first love.
Luo Xiaona's first love is a very gentle boy, the first love is her senior, but also her predecessor in the student union, before entering the student union, Luo Xiaona has always heard that the senior sisters in the student union are always special to play the score, always holding chicken feathers as arrows, they know to scare the new students, in the end they do not have much ability. For the student union this matter Luo Xiaona actually has no concept, since others are in, then she also followed the registration, heard the roommates discussed her like this, she even has some want to retreat, but thinking that she has signed up, can not do that kind of rebellion, and finally she still went to participate in the interview of the student union, and finally she was selected, but also at this time to know her first love, he is completely different from the roommate said that the person, will buy milk tea for his juniors, will also pay for their own money to invite them to eat, The senior is a very good person, this is Luo Xiaona's evaluation of him.
So when the senior confessed to her, Luo Xiaona's first reaction was that she would not dream, she agreed to the confession of the senior, but she has been in a dizzy state, on the 2nd day when she received a call from the senior to go out on a date with her, she knew that she was not dreaming.
This is The first time Luo Xiaona has fallen in love, so she is always cautious when doing things, she is always afraid of where she is not doing well, the senior is angry, the senior told her that the two people are in love, not in the docking work, let Luo Xiaona do her own, do not have to be careful, love is an unscrupulous process. The love of the two people is the same as others and there are some differences, because the senior is a very delicate person, he is not like a straight man like other people's boyfriends, the girlfriend will not only drink more hot water when she is sick, he will cook for Luo Xiaona, will accompany her to drip together, and will always find a topic to make her not so bored, will always put a relatively thick coat in her bag, is afraid of sudden cooling, the senior's bag also has a water cup, an umbrella, and Luo Xiaona's most commonly used sanitary napkins, Of course, these were all for her.
But the two people finally broke up, not because the feelings between the two people are not good, but because of the reasons of the senior, the senior has a young plum bamboo horse who grew up together, his family also likes this girl, from childhood to adulthood, everyone thinks that the two people will definitely get married, did not expect to go to college, he talked to others about love, the girl has been coming to the school to make trouble, but also has been spreading rumors about Luo Xiaona outside, but also directly with Luo Xiaona, Luo Xiaona's spirit has been very nervous during that time, But the senior in addition to comfort also has no substantive action, after all, the girl and he still have a friendship, the relationship between the two families is very good, the senior fell into a dilemma, and finally really can't stand the harassment of the girl, Luo Xiaona proposed to break up, she wants to spend her college life in peace and stability, of course, there is also a disappointment in the senior, and then she quit the student union and began to put her heart on learning.
02. Ruin your original happiness because of your own reasons.
Luo Xiaona found a job in her own city after graduating from college, but in addition to the senior she has never been in love with the second person again, the senior is indeed a very good person, she also has no love mind, but people can not not get married, you are not in a hurry, some people are anxious for you, under the arrangement of her parents, Luo Xiaona has been unable to count how many people she has kissed, and finally her parents are tired, and then met a boy with very good conditions in all aspects, After the two people communicated, they found that there was also a common language, and Luo Xiaona certainly didn't like him much, but it was indeed a blessing to meet a suitable person in this vast sea of people, and the two people began to discuss the matter of marriage.
These days Luo Xiaona was very busy because of this matter, I didn't expect to meet the senior at this time, the senior later became a photographer, came here to help his friend' help, the senior wanted to invite Luo Xiaona to dinner, Luo Xiaona thought it was not good, but finally went with the senior, the senior asked her how she was living now, after learning the news that Luo Xiaona was going to get married, she was silent for a while, and finally chose to bless her, and asked Luo Xiaona for an invitation.
After meeting with the senior, Luo Xiaona did not know why the mind could not be put on her own wedding, when the senior talked to her, her heart was entangled but could not hold back, as long as the senior made an appointment with her, she would definitely go, sometimes even the fiancé did not hear her talking to her, the fiancé of course sensed that she was wrong, but asked her what he would always lie to hide the past, the wedding was imminent, the fiancé did not say anything.
When the wedding was held, the senior did come, and then to change clothes, Luo Xiaona took advantage of this time to go to the bathroom, did not expect the senior to actually follow in, Luo Xiaona wanted to block, but did not stop, the senior chatted with her for 23 minutes, nothing more than some words that can not forget you and the like, the bride has been delayed in coming, of course, others have begun to suspect, Luo Xiaona originally thought it was okay, did not expect to come back after her wedding has been dispersed, the rest are her mother-in-law, Luo Xiaona asked them what happened, The mother said that he let you marry the toilet man, which made Luo Xiaona feel that the matter between her and the senior was finally discovered, and his fiancé also had the most drastic method to punish her, Luo Xiaona knew that she had done something wrong and got up again, she should not be ambiguous with others when she was going to get married, and now everything was a punishment for him.
Everyone will have their own people and things that are difficult to forget, but there are some people and things that can only be put in the bottom of their hearts forever, if the two sides are still single, of course, they can't say anything, but when you decide to get married, the previous people and things should be put in the memory, you can occasionally miss and sigh, but you can't let go of the current person because you can't put it down, since you promised to get married is to give others a promise, a person who does not keep his promise will naturally be punished, No one can accept their partner in the wedding with another person pulling and pulling, but also can not accept the other half because a person hides and deceives themselves, the most important thing in marriage is loyalty and trust, when these two things are not, marriage becomes a form, then what does this marriage mean, since you have chosen the moment to let go of your past, live your current life, is responsible for yourself, but also responsible for others.