"Heart Residence" is a recent very popular TV series, which reflects a lot of problems, and we always judge others from our own perspective and position. It's as if everyone else is someone else's fault and shouldn't be done that way. In real life, sometimes we can't even see ourselves clearly, if we are in that position, we may not necessarily deal with it like the parties, or we don't deal with it as well as others. In fact, when dealing with things, it is not as sober as others, that is, what others call after-the-fact guns, hindsight.
There is a plot in it that still touches quite a lot, that is, Feng Xiaoqin had a fiancé's child before marriage, and people are also kind-hearted, in order not to let the fiancé's family be broken, they decisively gave birth to a widow, only because the fiancé died in a car accident before the wedding. Logically, it is generally to beat the child to find the next one, which is also for themselves. Because in the countryside, gossip is very terrible, obviously people are good at doing a good thing, but also not only saying that people are this and that, but also mouthing. Sometimes ben has no malice, just too idle to fabricate something spurious, just for fun. Feng Xiaoqin's family also knew the rumors that needed to be borne, so her mother and she went to a place far away from home, and waited until the child was born before returning to their hometown together. Externally, it is said that it is a child born by the mother, and in this way, Feng Xiaoqin's son becomes a younger brother.
Feng Xiaoqin thought to herself, this matter has passed like this, so she wanted to go outside to break in, in order to be able to take root in Shanghai, married a man with average ability and average appearance, and after giving birth to a son, she became a housewife and took good care of the Gu family. Until her son Xiaohu was eight years old, Feng Xiaoqin began to think about the future of her son in the future, so she decided to buy a house. I didn't have much savings in my hands, thinking that my sister-in-law was mixing well, and my in-laws were also people with savings, so I used my husband to go to his family to borrow money. Unfortunately, her husband, a big family, secretly investigated Feng Xiaoqin when she was never married, knew that she had an illegitimate child, and decided that she married her brother for a purpose, that is, to plot her family's money, so no matter what Feng Xiaoqin did, she was not at ease. With such prejudice, the eldest sister-in-law finally lost her brother, and finally regretted it, but she still did not change her mind about Feng Xiaoqin, or was bent on guarding against her. The father-in-law also suspected that his little grandson was not his own grandson. A simple thing, in their eyes, they feel that Feng Xiaoqin is not a simple, purposeful, no matter what she does, she turns a blind eye, one person takes care of a family for eight years, and she cannot get everyone's approval.
But the same thing was put in another eye, but he felt that this woman was extraordinary, too righteous, and he loved Feng Xiaoqin even more, and he resolutely married her, feeling that this woman was too much love, and he was also a person worthy of his life to wait.
Sure enough, the heart is different, and the problem is also different. Which view do you support, my dear?