Like a person must have a certain performance will make you clearly feel, and when you pursue a person, there are also some performances that will make you feel that the other party is not handled by you, when a person from nothing to you feel that you slowly like, this period will definitely not take the initiative to change to the initiative, may have been in the past you have been actively looking for him to chat, when he is infected by your actions like you, he will also take the initiative to chat with you.
And slowly there is anything he will take the initiative to tell you, there are fun places, delicious things he will definitely share with you, when he is pursued by you, he looks at your eyes must be full of smiles. In fact, as long as you pursue him with sincerity, he will definitely be touched by what you say, and feelings can be slowly cultivated later, so there is no need to rush to success, and the long-term love of the thin water makes people feel more beautiful.
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depend
Mo Xiaoyun was particularly energetic when he was young, especially for his own career, everyone only wanted to work hard to fight for his career when he was young, because when he was in his twenties, it was the best time for his career to rise and develop.
At that time, Mo Xiaoyun rarely paid attention to the aspect of love, because he himself felt that he was not suitable for love, there was no extra thought to give love, Mo Xiaoyun actually had a relationship, at that time, because Mo Xiaoyun lacked concern for his boyfriend, the two people would often quarrel. And Mo Xiaoyun never relies on his boyfriend, there is anything he carries alone, let the boyfriend feel that he is not needed, the two people are not in love at all, because the boyfriend is hoping that Mo Xiaoyun can tell herself if there is something, rather than she alone to bear.
Mo Xiaoyun did feel a little sorry for her boyfriend, that is, from this love, she understood that she was not suitable for love now, because all her thoughts were spent on her career, so she decided that as long as her career was not stable, she would never fall in love again.
Later, when Mo Xiaoyun was 28 years old, her career was initially stable, and at that time there was just a boy who chased her for a long time, and she also had a good feeling for him, so she accepted the boy's pursuit, and the two people fell in love together. But Mo Xiaoyun found that she was still the same as when she first talked about that relationship, everything came alone, and she didn't like to tell the boyfriend everything, and the boyfriend also said to herself that she felt that she was a person in love when she was not needed by Mo Xiaoyun.
Mo Xiaoyun also tried to change himself, but Mo Xiaoming found that after trying for a while, he was a little impatient with this boyfriend, and his friend said to Mo Xiaoyun that maybe it was just because Mo Xiaoyun didn't like this boy enough. Because Mo Xiaoyun's friends are very dependent on their boyfriends when they fall in love, they will be spoiled all day long, and sometimes they will stick to their boyfriends.
In fact, after Mo Xiaoyun was 30 years old, she also thought of relying on others, but she felt that if she was a mature woman, she would feel very squeamish if she was so delicate to rely on others, and she might also make the other party feel bored. It is from the beginning that Mo Xiaoyun has been insisting on busy with her own career, Mo Xiaoyun has always been very strong, she said that she can do everything herself, in fact, in her heart, she also hopes that someone can take good care of her and can find her inner pretend to be strong.
When Mo Xiaoyun was 35 years old, she met a boy who was very impressed, this boy was a special gentleman, especially knew how to take care of people, and when Mo Xiaoyun was injured, the boy would also take the initiative to comfort her, care for her, and send her medicine. At this moment, Mo Xiaoyun especially wanted to rely on Lin Yusheng, and he also understood that it was not that he did not like those predecessors enough, but because those predecessors had never only said anything but never taken action.
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Proactive attention
In the past love, Mo Xiaoyun never took the initiative, all of them were Mo Xiaoyun who took the initiative to pursue, Mo Xiaoyun also felt that they were particularly sincere, and his heart was also moved, so he accepted their pursuit. Sometimes the touch is really not like, don't take the momentary touch in your heart as a liking for each other, but for this man who cares about himself so much, Mo Xiaoyun has some throbbing in his heart, because Lin Yusheng is transferred from the head office to their department, and he is also Mo Xiaoyun's boss, Lin Yusheng is the marketing director, and Mo Xiaoyun is the marketing manager.
The two of them are very close to each other's offices, as long as Mo Xiaoyun is idle, from time to time he will look up at the office opposite, and will always pay attention to Lin Yusheng, although Mo Xiaoyun is already a middle-aged woman, but in fact, there is still the heart of a young girl, like a person will unconsciously pay attention to each other at all times.
Mo Xiaoyun also became more active than before, for example, when he left work at noon, he saw Lin Yusheng still sitting in the office busy with work, he would take the initiative to enter the office and ask him if he wanted to go to lunch together. If Lin Yusheng can't go down to lunch, Mo Xiaoyun will say that he will take the initiative to help him pack a meal, and Lin Yusheng will smile and look at her at this time and say thank you.
When Mo Xiaoyun celebrates his birthday, she will also take the initiative to invite Lin Yusheng, and Lin Yusheng will also give Mo Xiaoyun a gift that he likes, and will also mention a birthday cake. I feel that although the two of them have not clearly expressed their mutual liking, Lin Yusheng has always remembered Mo Xiaoyun's preferences, and the boy who always remembers the details is always the most attractive, and the love of middle-aged people is always so mature and reliable.
Many times Mo Xiaoyun will laugh silly when he looks at Lin Yusheng, sometimes Mo Xiaoyun and his friends mention Lin Yusheng, he will also uncontrollably raise the corners of his mouth, friends told her about this matter, Mo Xiaoyun did not even find himself like this.
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share
When she was young, she did not grasp a good relationship, and when she reached middle age, Mo Xiaoyun wanted to take the initiative once, she wanted to catch Lin Yusheng, Mo Xiaoyun was afraid that after missing it, she would never meet again, and she was afraid that she would have regrets and regrets.
Mo Xiaoyun chose a time to take the initiative to confess to Lin Yusheng, and Lin Yusheng also accepted Mo Xiaoyun's confession, and the two people were smoothly together. When Mo Xiaoyun was in love before, he never took the initiative to share, and now Mo Xiaoyun especially likes to share with Lin Yusheng the interesting things he sees, as well as the delicious food he eats, the most important thing is that Lin Yusheng never feels very annoyed, and he also enjoys Mo Xiaoyun's sharing with him.
When Mo Xiaoyun sometimes goes out to play with friends, as long as she sees some small objects that are very suitable for Lin Girl, she will buy them back and give them to Lin Girls, but she will also grasp the scale, and there will often be some communication between the two people, Mo Xiaoyun will take the initiative to ask Lin Yusheng if there is anything he thinks he is not doing well enough. And Lin Girl will not say that she takes the initiative to let Mo Xiaoyun change anything, as long as she feels very happy and comfortable, Mo Xiaoyun has now learned to care and care about each other's feelings.
In fact, between two people who really like each other, it is absolutely indispensable to share, I will tell you what happened around me, you will tell me what happened around you, sometimes even friends will share, such as I introduce my friends to you to get to know, you introduce your friends to me to get to know.
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Love
In fact, love is really regardless of age, whether it is the age difference between two people, or different age stages, perhaps the love of middle-aged people will only be slightly more mature than the love of youth, know how to think more questions, but everything is more experienced.
Whether it is the love of middle-aged people, or the love of young people, the behavior of liking a person has not changed significantly, like a person, their attention will unconsciously fall on the person they like, inadvertently will pay attention to his every move, empty his head when he has time, and will unconsciously think of him.
In order to have more contact with the people you like, you will take the initiative to share what you like with him, and you will also take the initiative to understand him, there may be some people who will never take the initiative, but they are just active and not so obvious, maybe they themselves have not found themselves active. There are always people who say that even if they like each other, they will not take the initiative, in fact, to be honest, it is just that before that, he has never met someone who really likes it.
When the person you meet has gone beyond the level of liking, in fact, in order not to let yourself miss, he will definitely have the initiative to act, just like seeing the things you like, no matter how much money you have, you will definitely save money to buy.