Recently saw a question on the Internet: What do women hate most about men?
The following is followed by "unmotivated", "eat soft rice", "dishonesty", "idle". and many other replies.
Among them, I think the most representative are the following points.
Women hate men the most for lying
In a relationship, dishonesty is what women hate the most.
For example, a man makes many promises, but none of them are fulfilled; a man always takes care of the other side of the questions raised by the woman, and finds various reasons to escape.
Even when the woman asks questions repeatedly, he is in a good mood to talk sweetly and coax, and when he is in a bad mood, he puts a distrust hat on the woman and puts himself in an innocent position, but looks like a sinner.
In a relationship, the most hurtful thing is not the breakup, but the selfishness and hypocrisy, the lies.
The most basic premise of people-to-people interaction is sincerity, and feelings need to be honest with each other.
That's why women hate men lying the most, and a man who lies can't give women the security they want after all.
As one reader left a message:
"I can allow you not to say nice things, but I will never allow you to always lie to me."
What women want to hear most is not a lie, but a sincere answer, from which women can see the attitude of men who are brave enough to take responsibility.
In this way, she can trust and trust her for the rest of her life.
Women hate men's domestic violence the most
It is often said that when a woman chooses a man, she is choosing her own future and destiny.
I think that most women, at the beginning, want to choose a partner who can hold hands and get married, and get married to stay together for a lifetime, however, not all of them are so lucky to meet.
As the classic quote goes:
"I thought you were my safe haven, but you brought all the wind and rain later."
Women are most afraid of meeting such a man, at first they say that they want to give themselves a lifetime of happiness, but after they are together, they only get indifference and impermanence, domestic violence again and again.
There are two forms of common domestic violence, one is verbal violence and the other is physical violence. Either way, it's unbearable for women.
Verbal violence is destroying her spirit, and men's endless scolding and denigration will cause her great psychological trauma;
Physical violence is hurting her body, men punch and kick when they don't agree, and women spend every day in fear.
The most heart-wrenching thing is that even if women are very disgusted with men who are abusive, they often choose to suffer in silence in order to give their children a complete home, in order not to worry their parents and various reasons.
You know, there is no upper limit to love, but there is a bottom line. Domestic violence is an insurmountable bottom line.
Women hate men the most for gambling
Some time ago, a topic about "a woman secretly taking contraceptives after discovering her husband gambling" was on the Weibo hot search list.
The woman in the incident is the female guest mo fei in the variety show "Spring Day Late Departure", until the second episode of the recording, she revealed her experience, she and her ex-husband have divorced, because the other party is a gambler who has not changed.
When she first learned that the other party gambled, she chose to give her husband a chance to turn back, but the other party did not return to the right way, and went to gamble one after another.
After the debt, he not only asked his mother-in-law to help him repay the money, but also asked Mo Fei to help him pay off the debt.
Mo Fei refused her husband's request and decided to divorce.
The two have been in love for seven years, married for two years, if it were not for the husband's addiction to gambling, repeated teachings, and resentment because of gambling, mo could not have issued a judgment on this marriage.
Casinos, there is no winner forever. With men with gambling addictions, the future is foreseeable.
When the bet is won, I always want to win more, and when I lose the bet, I want to turn the page, and finally lose my mind and lose everything.
A man who loves to gamble can never give a woman a truly beautiful and stable future.
Women hate men the most
A few days ago I brushed up on a video:
The pregnant wife fell from the two-meter attic, but the husband looked at her coldly and let his wife lie helplessly on the ground.
The police on the side are anxious, hoping that the man can go over to comfort his wife and help the next rescue, but no matter how the police persuade him, the man always sits still.
Men's indifference makes women completely broken.
I don't know what happened to the two of them before, but no matter what, in the face of such a critical situation, even a stranger can't be indifferent, let alone a couple who share a bed.
Lin Yutang once said:
"On the battlefield of life, couples are the best teammates and partners. For the invasion of life's terrifying waves, saving each other is like a left and right hand. ”
People who were originally unrelated to each other would become a family by chance. It's not just as simple as sharing a room, but no matter how big the storm is in the future, you can walk together.
If in a relationship, the man can not shoulder this responsibility, will only pick and choose the woman, completely disregarding the other party's psychological and physical pain and pressure.
Then, this woman will live a very tired life.
How many women, at first, think they are married to love, but end up losing to reality.
Love is emotional, but it also requires rationality. The meaning of two people together is to make each other better.
Life is a long way, go to the same destination, women in the marriage to love at the same time is important to choose the right person, so that the rest of life will be happy and complete.
Source: Want Want House