It can be set as a star
These two days are sealed at home, and the frequency of chatting with friends has increased.
We talked about a blind date she had earlier this year. Looking at the blind dates of everyone around me, I found that my parents really liked to find goals at the homes of friends they knew. They think they know the roots, but they really don't include the children of their friends.
Her parents invited a family of three to sit at home, and although the adults were familiar with each other, the children met for the first time. My friend didn't like the form of blind date, but because the parents were there, there were no seizures.
She had a very good personality, spoke with humor, was very polite in front of the elders, did not say much to the other party, and the atmosphere was very harmonious that night.
But because of the slight resistance to the blind date in her heart, coupled with the fact that the other party is not her favorite type at all, as the saying goes, there is no feeling, so she plans to make it clear to the other party early.
The contact information was added, and the euphemistic refusal was also spoken, but something strange happened.
My friend said it was all his own problem, and the other party seemed to have no understanding at all, saying that he liked her very much, "We can try it", "I think you are particularly suitable", "I really need a companion", and several times proposed to call and say that he wanted to listen to her voice.
So much so that she felt that she was not amnesiac, obviously they had only met for the first time the night before, and they didn't talk much about it, how the other party looked deeply attached to her.
To be honest, this is the kind of man I have not met for the first time, and my friends and I uniformly call them the big love species.
It's the kind that maybe only talked to you for a few words, didn't even know anything about what you liked and hated, wanted to fall in love with you, and the words he said made others think that he had thought about where your wedding was going.
In their hearts, for various reasons, they feel that they need a girlfriend, whether it is to meet face, or physical needs, or feel lonely and lonely, and need an emotional sustenance of their own. These people's love is driven by the need for purpose, not because they like it, not because the girl is special to him, in fact, it doesn't matter who it is, the existence of the title of girlfriend is necessary.
If they send it to you, they can send it to others as they are.
People who are fast on the top are generally faster on the bottom, so it is difficult to fall in love with fast food for a long time.
Maybe some friends want to say, maybe the other party is really love at first sight?
In fact, "love species" is very easy to distinguish. The first thing is that he won't try to get to know you at all.
Most girls will show their need to be cared for in love or explicitly or implicitly, such as hoping that the other party can notice what they don't like to eat when ordering, and realize that they are afraid of horror movies when watching movies.
However, the lover will not understand these thoughts, he will not care about your life, let alone to the spiritual understanding and fit.
In addition, there is a particularly obvious point, the love species is particularly "afraid of trouble" in love. For them, love is to meet their own needs and find pleasure, not to solve each other's problems, they do not need to take care of your emotions, and they do not need you to come up with advice. If you express dissatisfaction, they will find you annoying.
The most typical is that you send a large paragraph of text, make a phone call, and try to solve the problem, the other party ignores it, because he does not want to put more emotions into it, talk about it, and change the next one if he can't talk about it.
Psychological activity be like "I just want to talk about a relationship to be happy and happy, what do you and I do so much?" ”
Therefore, the love species is suitable for being with the love species, and it is better to make each other an emotional sustenance that comes and goes, and if you want to seriously fall in love, it is better to avoid it.
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