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The Spring Festival should have been a good time for a family reunion, but many marriages and families made all kinds of unpleasantness during this period, which deepened the troubles and disharmony between the two parties. Although everyone certainly does not want such things to happen to themselves, if some misfortunes really come to them, then they must also take a positive attitude to face and deal with these things, so as not to leave hidden dangers for their marital feelings.
In fact, as early as before getting married, my mother-in-law had told Zheng Qiang, "My daughter grew up pampered and raised, and when she got married, we didn't want to see her wronged." So hopefully you'll always be spoiled as a princess by her and don't let us down. But at that time, Zheng Qiang's eyes were full of his lover, and these words would have been done even if her father-in-law and mother-in-law reminded her.
From the time the two began to fall in love, Zheng Qiang was very fond of his lover, as long as it was something he could do, he would never let her do it. By the time the two entered the state of marriage, Zheng Qiang was already accustomed to going to work during the day and returning home at night to take care of his wife's living conditions. After getting married, the two still maintained the same mode of getting along.
Such a marriage lasted for seven years, in fact, sometimes Zheng Qiang also hoped that his wife could be more considerate of his hardships. But every time she was asked to help herself with some work, the woman would say what the two had agreed before marriage, that is, after marriage, women did not need to work, and it was enough to enjoy the blessings. And Zheng Qiang's psychology has also developed from the beginning of the willingness to reluctantly for it.
In the past, he was willing to take the initiative to work because he had an indelible motivation in his heart, and he was even more looking forward to the future of this relationship, so he was very motivated to do anything at that time. But now that his wife has taken all his efforts for granted, Zheng Qiangdu feels that he is not a husband at home, but a nanny.
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This year's Spring Festival, Zheng Qiang took his wife back to her home for the New Year. But in fact, Zheng Qiang still hopes to return to his home, and his parents also need someone to accompany him. But the Spring Festival is indeed too torturous, and a trip back and forth is already tiring enough, so the two said that they would take turns in two places every year for the New Year. Thinking of going back to his mother's house, Zheng Qiang had a thousand reluctances in his heart, and every time he went back, he had to work, so it was better not to celebrate the New Year.
This year's New Year everyone did not go out, so they set up a family banquet Chinese New Year's Eve the meal at home, although there is a certain reason for such a decision, but a large family of people sat at two tables, Zheng Qiang himself was busy in the kitchen, while his wife and family all sat in the living room watching TV and snorting melon seeds, some said and laughed. No one at all considered Zheng Qiang, who was still busy in the kitchen, and this situation made him feel full of grievances.
More excessive things are still to come, Zheng Qiangming has not yet cooked, everyone has already sat down and began to eat. When he was finished, he wanted to sit down to eat, but all he saw was a messy table. Obviously, it was Chinese New Year's Eve reunion night, and their family did not pay attention to Zheng Qiang at all, so everyone's performance would be so indifferent.
Throughout the night, only his wife poured a glass of water for Zheng Qiang, and the others did not care about him at all. He was the one who cooked the food, and he was the one who finally cleaned up the leftovers, and no one took the initiative to come to the aid. Zheng Qiang thought that there was no need to be angry and angry during the New Year, so he put up with everything. At this moment, he wanted to return to his own home even more, he was also the only son who was favored by the family, why did he suffer such a great grievance in someone else's home?
When it was hard to wait until the night to go to bed, Zheng Qiang wanted to pour out his inner feelings to his wife, but he did not expect that his wife would fall asleep. The two people didn't even have the opportunity to communicate and talk well, and looking at his wife sleeping, Zheng Qiang's heart was getting colder and colder.
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When it came to the next day, Zheng Qiang couldn't help his inner anger, so he loudly reprimanded his wife, "You can do whatever you want to eat, don't always wait for me to serve you, I will never make cattle and horses for your family again, don't think I'm so stupid!" Seeing his wife's angry look, Zheng Qiang also felt that it didn't matter.
If this matter had been left in the past, he would have tried to coax his wife back. But both of them have been like this for so many years, his inner grievances and sadness have never been willing to listen, and his wife is always a feeling of superiority, the husband and wife are in such a state of getting along, no matter how hard Zheng Qiang tries, it is actually futile. They have been busy for so many years, and his wife's requirements are only getting more and more critical, and Zheng Qiang feels that he has no motivation to maintain this marriage anymore.
Just such a Chinese New Year's Eve meal made Zheng Qiang's heart completely dead to marriage, he also saw through his wife's mother's family, so many years, he always felt that he did not belong to their happy and harmonious home, perhaps he had never been accepted. Since this is the case, it is better to take the initiative to leave with your own interest. Zheng Qiang plans to divorce his wife after the end of the year.
Feelings come to such an end, it is inevitable that people will feel sad, after all, everyone still hopes to be able to accompany their lovers to spend their lives together. It's just that we should realize that if you want to get a happy relationship, the most important thing is to maintain the equal status of both parties in this relationship, one of them insists on it and the other party sits back and enjoys it, people's hearts will always have a tired day, maybe until the other party really feels that they don't want to insist on giving up this feeling, and you begin to realize that you are not willing to do it. But it's all come to that time, do you think you still have a chance to save it?