It is now the age of freedom of marriage, and young people have the right to decide their own marriage matters. But young people tend to be blindly impulsive and not thoughtful enough to consider problems, so when deciding on lifelong events, they still have to listen to their parents' opinions.
In this world, only the love of parents is selfless, and only parents will really want you to live well. The feelings between husband and wife are indeed very good when they are good, and when they are bad, they can turn their faces and not recognize people every minute, and even put each other to death.
Parents are people who come over, have rich experience in life, see people more accurately, and consider problems more thoughtfully. So when you are faced with marriage events, it is very advantageous to ask for the opinions of your parents.
If the parents object, then they must have a reason to oppose, and you have to think carefully about it. There is a saying on the Internet: You can not marry the person chosen by your parents, and you must not marry the person whose parents oppose it. This cannot be said to be absolutely correct, but it does have a certain truth, and it is not possible to completely ignore it.
The girl insisted on marrying her boyfriend despite her parents' objections, and divorced after two years
Xu Rong is the only daughter in the family, her parents and grandparents are particularly fond of her, she is spoiled and raised. From childhood to adulthood, Xu Rong always wanted the wind to be windy, to rain and rain, and never suffered hardships, so she developed a very willful personality.
When looking for an object, her parents entrusted someone to introduce many objects to Xu Rong, but she did not look at any of them. Later, Xu Rong took a fancy to Zhang Qiang, who worked in a fruit shop, Zhang Qiang was very handsome, his mouth was also very sweet, and he could speak the Tao.
After Xu Rong fell in love with Zhang Qiang, she immediately took the initiative to pursue him and sent him this and that. At that time, Zhang Qiang had a girlfriend, and the girlfriend was his hometown, and the two came out of their hometown to work together. Of course, the conditions of the girlfriend's family are not as good as Xu Rong's family, so Xu Rong is full of confidence to pursue Zhang Qiang.
Not long after, Zhang Qiang broke up with his girlfriend and then accepted Xu Rong's feelings. Xu Rong was very happy, and with a sense of victory excitement, she took Zhang Qiang home to meet her parents. Unexpectedly, her parents were very opposed and disapproved of her and Zhang Qiang's being together, and her father ordered her to break up immediately.
The parents are not worried about the bad conditions of Zhang Qiang's family, but feel that Zhang Qiang's character is not good, because he can abandon his girlfriend, and he can also abandon Xu Rong, who cannot withstand temptation. But Xu Rong didn't listen to her parents at all, she liked Zhang Qiang, Zhang Qiang was something she couldn't easily catch up with, how could she let go?
Xu Rong and Zhang Qiangcai knew each other for three months, and she hid from her parents, stole the family's household registration book, and went to marry Zhang Qiang. When the parents knew that the rice had been cooked raw and mature, the parents could only accept it.
Because the conditions of Zhang Qiang's family are not good, the marriage room and banquet are all run by Xu Rong's family, and Xu Rong is happily married. After marriage, at first the two were very affectionate, Zhang Qiang opened a shop with the help of Xu Rong's parents.
But later, after Zhang Qiang took his parents over, the contradictions in the family continued. Zhang Qiang is very filial and obedient, and feels that his conditions are good, so he wants his parents to enjoy happiness. But Xu Rong didn't like the in-laws of the countrymen, but she didn't dare to let the in-laws go, she was afraid that Zhang Qiang would not be happy.
Every time Xu Rong and her mother-in-law had a conflict, Zhang Qiang always stood on his mother's side, so the two old quarrels between the two young people. When they were married for nearly two years, Xu Rong became pregnant, which alleviated some contradictions. Xu Rong felt uncomfortable because of the pregnancy reaction, so she quit her job to raise a fetus at home.
The mother-in-law, who has always been industrious and accustomed, naturally does not like her daughter-in-law to resign because she is pregnant. She chewed her tongue in front of her son, saying that Xu Rong was lazy and did nothing by taking advantage of her pregnancy. Slowly, Zhang Qiang also felt that Xu Rong was too squeamish, and it was very normal for a woman to get pregnant, and she was not sick.
Zhang Qiang was busy with things in the store every day and did not have time to care about Xu Rong, who was very dissatisfied with him and thought that he did not care enough about himself. The couple often quarreled again, Zhang Qiang thought that Xu Rong did not earn money himself, and did not let him earn money well, so what about the family's expenses?
One day, the couple quarreled again over a little thing. When arguing about the issue of money, Zhang Qiang actually proposed to have an AA system, and he did not want to raise Xu Rong in vain. At that moment, Xu Rong was surprised that the man she had to marry despite her parents' objections actually wanted to AA with her after she became pregnant because she resigned.
Of course, Xu Rong was indignant, so she packed up her things and went back to her mother's house overnight. By 5:00 a.m. the next day, Xu Rong felt that her stomach was very painful, and her lower body was bleeding. After her parents took her to the hospital, doctors said she had miscarried. After his parents called to inform Zhang Qiang, Zhang Qiang did not come.
After Xu Rong was discharged from the hospital, she insisted on divorcing Zhang Qiang, and she regretted that she did not listen to her parents. Not long after the divorce, Xu Rong accidentally learned that Zhang Qiang and his ex-girlfriend were reunited, and at this time Xu Rong understood that Zhang Qiang had never loved her at all.
When faced with marriage events, girls should keep a cool head
Love must be your love and my wishes, to be happy with each other, and any reluctance will not be happy. Someone else is married, you act as a third party, and you snatch someone else's husband or wife, which is like a robber, immoral, and undermining the marriage law.
Others are not married, but in the love stage, you insist on robbing someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend, in fact, it is also immoral. A boyfriend who can be snatched by you can also be robbed by others. After Xu Rong liked Zhang Qiang, she ignored the feelings of another girl and forced herself to insert a foot.
Xu Rong grabbed Zhang Qiang, but after marriage, she was not happy, so it can be seen that the stolen marriage will not be happy after all. So don't be a predator, don't grab something that doesn't belong to you. Love depends on attraction, if a person really loves you, it will naturally come to you, and there is no need for you to grab it.
In life, there are actually many girls like Xu Rong who are desperate for love. When they are betrayed by love and heartbroken, they realize that they are wrong, that they are too stupid. Therefore, when the girl faces the marriage event, she must keep a cool head, listen to the opinions of her parents, and think twice.
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