In the matter of the wedding, the mother-in-law always feels that things have become a foregone conclusion, no matter what kind of actions they make, the daughter-in-law teaches herself that the family is already a fixed thing. Therefore, some mothers-in-law will do some demons at the wedding, always feeling that they give a little less money, that is, how much advantage they have taken, and even this matter is publicized everywhere by them, thinking that this is a very proud thing for them.
Especially in the wedding of this problem of mouth change fee, some mothers-in-law are in a particularly good mood, thinking that their son is married, they must give their daughter-in-law a big red envelope, so that all people at the wedding can happily carry out this matter. If there will be some mother-in-law who feel that this matter is not necessary, it is better to save this money for their own future pension.
A mother-in-law who thinks like this will definitely be particularly unpleasant to brainwash with her own child at the wedding, and it can even be said that after getting married, the atmosphere between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law is also particularly bad.
01. The problem of changing the mouth fee makes the mother-in-law particularly annoyed
Ever since she knew that her son was about to get married, her mother-in-law had been thinking about this change of mouth. After all, the mother-in-law also said to her own group of people of the same age that at the wedding, she would definitely pack a big red envelope for her daughter-in-law. But some people say that there is no need to keep this money for their own pension.
When the mother-in-law heard the first thought, she felt particularly distressed. After all, no matter how to say that the change fee is to take money from their own side, and when the time comes, it will be wrapped in the red packet, who knows how much money can be in the red packet? All kinds of red envelopes are simply a face on the outside, in fact, there is no practical effect.
Therefore, when the mother-in-law heard the second idea, she felt that this idea coincided with herself. At the wedding ceremony, as long as you prepare a red envelope, you can not stuff money in it. So after the mother-in-law wants to understand this matter, she feels that she has to do this, and this money will be kept to do something else when the time comes, and her heart is particularly comfortable.
The mother-in-law pondered this matter alone at home, and sometimes she would tell the people who provided her ideas about what kind of idea she was now. Even a group of people summed up together, and also said some comforting words to the mother-in-law.
"You also said now, your son is going to marry your daughter-in-law, the two people are just to do a wedding, to show everyone how good the relationship between the two people is, why do you have to pay so much wallet at this wedding and a red envelope for the change of mouth fee." I don't believe that if you don't give this red envelope, your daughter-in-law still dares to throw her face in front of you? ”
"I also think this way, I heard you say that you did not give the red envelope for the change of mouth, and now you are not holding your daughter-in-law to death at home." And this matter as long as we can get by on the face, and no matter what, I also prepared a red envelope skin, and then there will be some to take. ”
The mother-in-law finally finalized this idea in her heart, this matter the mother-in-law did not say anything, just wait for the wedding to give an empty red envelope, this matter has passed, the daughter-in-law will certainly not say anything.
02. The son's mental preparation for his daughter-in-law
Zhang Qiang didn't know what kind of decision his mother had made at home, just thinking that he was going to cultivate the right results with the lovers he had spent so many years with, stepping into the palace of marriage, his heart couldn't stop being happy.
Before getting married, Zhang Qiang and Sun Yue also went out on a date. Two people see couples walking together on the street, and they also think that everyone will be as happy as they are. After a long period of love run, although the two people also had some conflicts during the period, and even at the most serious time, the two people even proposed to break up.
But in the end, the two people still survived this relationship, and those troubles and quarrels during the period have now become the words that the two people usually ridicule each other. And as the day of the wedding is getting closer and closer, Zhang Qiang also began to make some ideological preparations for Sun Yue, saying that Sun Yue must not feel nervous, this is something they will do once in their lives.
"Baby, I know that you are dealing with this matter now, and there is a special panic in your heart. It can even be said that there is still a little confusion, but it does not matter, I will definitely stand by your side and protect you without hesitation. And after getting married, I will definitely be a husband who loves his wife, and this sentence can also be said that I will definitely be a husband who loves you. ”
After Sun Yue listened to her boyfriend's words, the panic in her heart disappeared little by little. And in the next instant, Zhang Qiang directly hugged over, a hug full of security, making Sun Yue feel that he had nothing to be afraid of.
In the follow-up period of time, the two people will often make a phone call at night, and send a WeChat message during the day to talk about recent events. As long as two people have never been separated, they are together every day, even if they are not in the same space, it is like the other party has always been by their side.
On the day of their marriage, both of them dressed up very delicately. Just for the experience of a lifetime, to leave the best memories for each other.
03. The mother-in-law's behavior at the wedding made the son very angry
Finally, when the two people saw each other at the wedding scene, they were really amazed. After all, usually two people are not very fond of dressing up, and now suddenly seeing each other's such a delicate dress, it gives each other a feeling of bright eyes.
In particular, Zhang Qiang looks at his wife so beautiful, and his personality has always been very docile, and the two people have a special relationship. At this moment, Zhang Qiang felt as if he owned the whole world. However, at the moment of signing in his wife's hand, Zhang Qiang felt that the feeling in his heart was filled with warmth at once.
All the matters are over, and it is time to change your mouth. Sun Yue's parents were particularly festive at their daughter's wedding, and they couldn't help but be happy when they saw their daughter and son-in-law in a good picture. So when he was preparing to change the mouth fee, he prepared a big red envelope, and after Zhang Qiang called his parents, he got a big red envelope from his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
When Sun Yue changed his mouth to his mother-in-law, Zhang Qiang watched his mother take out a thin red envelope. Inside the flat is like nothing is put, and then think about who my mother often walked close to during this time. Just thinking about it, thinking about it, I knew that my mother was sure that there was no money in this red envelope, or it was too selfish.
Zhang Qiang directly told Sun Yue not to change his mouth, and directly called his aunt.
"My daughter-in-law is uncultured and calls me aunt at the wedding."
The mother-in-law said such a sentence directly, in front of everyone's face.
Zhang Qiang, as a groom, tore up the red envelope, and sure enough, there was no penny in it.
"You send beggars?" This is the person I'm going to spend my life with, and I did give you a sum of money in the first place. Just so that my wife can be the happiest bride at the wedding. ”
After Zhang Qiang said this, he directly skipped this step. Since then, the two people have rarely returned to their in-laws.
When getting married, all the brides and grooms hope that they can have a good life with each other in the future, after all, the encounter between the two people was also a chance encounter carefully arranged by God. In fact, all people meet in the dark arrangement, if you can experience some setbacks and tribulations in life, then in the end two people will definitely be able to finally become a family, become a good couple that everyone around them envies.
As a husband, you must also know that for your wife, you are already the pillar of this family. For his own identity, the husband must clearly understand what kind of attitude he should have toward his wife, and what kind of efforts and changes he should make for his wife in this family. The main thing is to make sure that the wife feels the love from her husband.
Even if it is the mother-in-law's difficulties, as long as the wife has the confidence of her husband's support, then in this family, it can be said that no one is afraid.