Is your lover the perfect lover in your mind?
Is he or she exactly the lover of your dreams, without a single flaw?
How long have you been in love, and when did you start to feel like he or she was your perfect lover?
Do you still think he or she is still so perfect?
No matter what he or she looks like in the eyes of others, he (she) is so perfect in your eyes.
When we first met, we would blush when we saw each other and wanted to go up and hold each other's hand. I have also fantasized about being with him or her, and in your eyes, happiness overflows.
When he or she takes your hand, you are so happy that you can't speak, looking forward to 48 hours a day to stick with him or her.
Later, you can be together every day. Life gradually flattened out, and it was taken for granted to keep each other around.
But love can often withstand the wind and waves, for the ordinary life, for love, it is indeed a big test.
The other person's shortcomings began to be exposed in front of each other, and many problems that were not exposed during the love affair also began to be exposed. Originally, I thought that the other party was so perfect, and now when you see the other party's appearance, have you ever been disgusted?
No one is perfect, and after spending so much time together, we always have a way to find each other's bad in life. But not all of them are flawed, otherwise they wouldn't have fallen in love with each other in the first place.
Therefore, the love at this time needs to be inclusive and needs to experience some things together.
There is no perfect lover, it is not that I understand as soon as you say it, I do not understand, please give you more advice, you say it a few more times, I will understand.
But with the perfect lover, I will respect your choice and then try to learn and be a partner who loves you.