Fifty years old is a watershed in a long life, if the life before the age of fifty is constantly laying the foundation and building a high wall, then the life after the age of fifty is to keep their own results, sit and watch the changes, life is bitter or sweet has been fixed.
However, if the life of fifty years old wants to be plain and stable, it is also necessary to pay special attention to it when interacting with people, and take precautions in advance, otherwise a small mistake will easily subvert the achievements and fame of the first half of life. For such a reality, the old ancestors are also well aware of its philosophy, and once circulated such a saying, "Fifty relatives and three people, such as playing with fire and self-immolation" to warn the world, and which of these three kinds of people, have you been recruited?
Stay away from snobs
Fifty and know the destiny, at such an age, has been wandering in the society for half a lifetime, understand what can be done, what can not be done, do things is no longer blindly rampage to pursue results, but has been indifferent, can calm their hearts, calmly face everything in life.
But at this special stage of life, pay special attention to the snobs around you. At this time, looking back on his fifty-year-old life, he has gained fame and financial resources through the efforts of the first half of his life, but once he falls into the treacherous trap of the villain, it is likely that his life will be empty. If you are young, you can continue to "stay in the green mountains, do not worry about firewood", but at the age of fifty, in the face of increasingly degraded body and energy, it is difficult to make a comeback.
Historically, Emperor Wu of the Ninth Five-Year Emperor was killed by villains in his later years and mistakenly forced his most proud eldest son to die. Liu Zhao, the son of Emperor Wu of Han, lived up to the emperor's expectations from an early age, was very virtuous, and enjoyed a high reputation among the people and officials.
However, Liu Zhi was punished by the emperor because of the slander of the villain, saying that he practiced witchcraft and had the intention of rebellion, and he had no choice but to rebel, and finally committed suicide because of insufficient troops and because he did not want to be humiliated. Afterwards, although the emperor severely punished the traitors in the court, he could not save Liu Zhao's life no matter what, and he could only spend his life in regret.
Do not attract red-faced beauties
Since ancient times, "heroes are sad to be beautiful", people over fifty years old should pay special attention. In society, generally over fifty years old, there are stable families and children, for their consideration, do not be greedy for a while, so as to be ashamed of their families. At this age, even if your own ability is greater, you also need the help of your family to better spend the second half of life, so remember not to make your family feel cold.
Indulging in lust not only hurts the harmony of the family, but also hurts the money of people in their fifties. At this time, the body has begun to decline, not only does not cultivate the body, but also excessive consumption of the body, which will only accelerate the deterioration of the body. Whether it is out of reason or conscience, we must be worthy of ourselves and our families, and always remember that "there is a knife on the head of the color word".
During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, the Yue King's strategy of defeating the State of Wu with humiliation and burden was still praised. However, the defeat of the powerful State of Wu was also related to Xi Shi, one of the four beauties. Xi Shi was originally a Yue national, the Yue King saw her appearance and gave her to the State of Wu, after seeing Xi Shi, the King of Wu loved beauty and was eager to accompany Xi Shi every day, ignoring state affairs and government affairs, and it was at this time that the Yue Kingdom was replenished, so the former overlord Wu Guo was defeated by the Yue King in this internal and external troubles.
People who retreat from the battle of tongues
At the age of fifty, one's own image should be honest and stable in the eyes of others, and people who are knowledgeable in general can be calm in the face of the flattery and arguments of others. If you meet someone who is strong and wants to argue, you should retreat.
You who already have an identity and status, and then go to insult with others, no matter what the result is, it is disgraceful, not only in the eyes of others is harmful, it is easier to make yourself angry and bad, depressed, how to see is not cost-effective. Therefore, it should be more generous and tolerant, there is no need to be bored with yourself, and let this kind of person find an opportunity in his own body.
brief summary
Fifty years old is another threshold in life, this time should master a more accurate cognitive attitude to society, in a better mood and way to live. If it is just that there is no growth at all, spending all day drinking, and talking to others for a while, then what is there to respect for such a person? If you want to be recognized by others, you must first examine your own behavior and stay away from the inappropriate people in your life.
The saying "Fifty do not kiss three people, such as playing with fire and self-immolation", which has been handed down by the ancestors, still plays a role in the current life, and such a philosophy of dealing with the world is worth learning and applying to our lives.