The feelings between men and women are very delicate, and once they are not well grasped, they will change from ordinary friends to intimate relationships.
After all, the emergence of ambiguity is from this little thing, a word of concern, a comforting hug, over time, it will deteriorate.
Especially when two people get along, they always don't pay attention to boundaries, share some things, such as their own food, or some private goods, and share money, once these things are shared more, the relationship between the two people is different.
Don't always say that we are just ordinary friends, just a little closer, and there is no other meaning in doing these things, but over time, no one can guarantee that they are just simple emotions.
Between the opposite sex, frequent sharing of these things, sooner or later there will be "intimate relationships", if you already have a partner around, then you still have to pay more attention, do not cross the line.
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Shared food
Growing up, no one would share food with you except your own parents, and in fact, no one else would accept eating your leftovers except for close people who didn't hate what you ate.
Some friends of the opposite sex are together, always can't tell each other's relationship, eat each other's food, and even have some intimate actions, you may feel that there is no problem, now young people play together, it is not so restrained.
But these things that go beyond the boundaries, or try not to do, especially to share food with each other frequently, which is itself an ambiguous signal.
If it is not a particularly intimate relationship, it is impossible to do this, a simple friend, is willing to share their own food with you, do not want to eat your leftovers, can do such a person, indicating that he still has some interest in your heart, or pay attention to a little.
02
Share private items
Everyone always has some private items that cannot be shared with others, such as cups, clothes, daily necessities, and some very personal things, you will mind using them with others.
But if it is a close person, it is different, you will be willing to share it with him, and you will even feel that it is a kind of happiness, and you will not mind the traces of his use.
If it is only a friend relationship between you, then do not share these private goods frequently, do not feel that everyone is a good friend, it does not matter if you use it occasionally, the more you use it, the ambiguity will arise.
You have to understand that in a relationship, what should be done and what should not be done, for things like private goods, if not the most important person, or do not share with each other, so as not to let others misunderstand.
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Share wallets
Perhaps, friends also share wallets, such as when there is a need for help in the business, and there is a need in life, which is no problem.
But there is an exception, that is, you can share money through his mobile phone at any time, or two people will not distinguish between you and me in terms of money, or even share, thinking that it does not matter.
But in the eyes of outsiders, such a relationship is no longer ordinary, after all, the matter of money is already very sensitive, and you are not shy about sharing your wallet with him, so what will others think?
If you are not in a relationship, this kind of thing is best to put an end to, distinguish between you and me, rather than not seeing each other's position clearly, and sharing money with each other at will, if you have a partner, the other party will not accept it.
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Conclusion
Between the opposite sex, if you want to keep a good friend relationship, it is best not to cross the line, especially to share some personal things, which will be misunderstood.
Especially in the case that the other party already has a partner, you should pay more attention to your own words and deeds, do not get along according to the rules of singleness, and do not disregard your own image.
Only if you keep the boundaries and grasp the measure, can you make each other's friendship relationship more simple, and get along with each other more simply, such friendship is sustainable.
If you frequently do some cross-border things, not only is the relationship between friends no longer simple, but two people will also be unhappy because of these things, it will be more than worth the loss.