As the old saying goes, the grace of dripping water is repaid by the spring, and the most important grace in our lives is the grace of nurturing.
An old man in Jiangxi, who is now 70 years old, adopted a baby girl in the early years and raised her with painstaking efforts, but she did not expect that her adopted daughter grew up to go farther and farther away from herself, but she became more and more intimate with her birth mother who abandoned her, and she had to find a TV station for help.
What happened to force this seventy-year-old man onto this path?
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Infertile adoption of baby girls, hard work to raise adults
In 1985, the 34-year-old Huang Hong and her husband Lao Wan had been married for 10 years, but because of her physical problems, she had been unable to have children, which made her very painful, and therefore very guilty to Lao Wan.
Seeing that the children of the neighbors around her are growing up day by day, Huang Hong often sighs that it would be good to have a child of her own, even if it is not her own.
And Lao Wan feels that he has no children at such an old age, and he has no face in front of his relatives and friends, but Huang Hong wants to go to the hospital with him to check on him and refuses, and every time he talks about this topic, the two of them always have a quarrel.
One day during the Spring Festival in 1986, Huang Hong and Lao Wan quarreled again over the child's affairs, and after a fierce argument, the two understood that it was not a way to continue like this, and finally decided to raise a child from another family.
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At first, the two were very hesitant, one is because after all, it is not their own bloodline, and it is inevitable that the days will inevitably get pimples in their hearts; the other is that in the process of growing up, if the biological parents come to them one day, then their years of efforts may be in vain.
Out of these concerns, they decided to go to a farther place to raise, through the introduction, they met a family that had three daughters in a row, the third child they wanted to have a son, but did not expect to be a daughter again, if they stayed, they may face trouble caused by overbirth.
Therefore, Huang Hong and his wife discussed with the family to take away the baby girl, in order to keep the child as a biological child, Huang Hong and the child's biological parents agreed to never interact with each other.
The knot that has not had children for many years has finally been solved, and when it comes to old age, this can also be regarded as a guarantee.
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This child is in good health, born in early March 1985, the following year on the eleventh day of the first month came to Huang Hong's home, they let this child follow Huang Hong's husband surname Wan, named Wan Yue, the original often quarrelsome world of two because of the arrival of this girl, into a happy family of three full of laughter.
After the Spring Festival, there was suddenly more children in the family, which could not hide from the neighbors around them and the relatives of the two, at the beginning of that time they vigorously begged everyone not to reveal it to Wanyue, hoping that everyone could keep secrets so that Wanyue could grow up in a normal and happy environment.
If you let her know her origins too early, it may cause some damage to her heart, so they have adopted such a protective method.
The happiness of the middle-aged woman is self-evident, and the husband and wife's doting on Wan Yue can be said to be excessive.
Wan Yue was more obedient when she was a child, but occasionally there were conflicts with children, and every time such a thing happened, Huang Hong would not blame Wan Yue, but chose to apologize for her.
Although the conditions in the family are not rich, they are never stingy about Wanyue, as the saying goes, poor children, rich women. Although they can't give their children a rich life, they strive to give the best for daily food, clothing, shelter and transportation within the scope of their ability, which also provides a warm bed for Wanyue on the way to growth.
But the paper package can not hold the fire, in middle school, a chance to let Wan Yue know her true life, although she occasionally heard, but she has not paid attention to it, until that day she went to the neighbor's house to visit, just heard the neighbor talking about her, she stood outside the door to eavesdrop.
When she heard that she was raised in her early years, she quickly ran out of the neighbor's house and walked alone on the road, but her heart could not be calm for a long time, and she began to have a little fantasy about her biological parents, not knowing what they looked like, and wondering how they were doing now.
But when she thought of her adoptive parents' love for her for many years, she slowly stopped paying attention to the fact that she was not personal.
Wanyue
Obeying her husband's last wishes, Wan Yue and her nephew consummated their marriage
Time passed day by day, Wan Yue also reached the age of talking about marriage, Lao Wan advocated marrying Wan Yue to his nephew, but Huang Hong was ten thousand unhappy. The nephew's family conditions are poor, and if Wan Yue is married to him, it is equivalent to pushing her into the fire pit.
But Lao Wan felt that he had no sons in his life, so he always treated his nephew as his own son, and if Wan Yue could marry his nephew, he would also be considered a kiss, then he would really have a queen.
In 2005, Lao Wan died of illness, and Huang Hong obeyed his last wishes and gave Wan Yue Xu to his nephew, because she felt some guilt about Wan Yue, so when Wan Yue got married, Huang Hong took out a house as a dowry to give to the newlyweds.
After marriage, Wan Yue and her husband left the company where they worked before, and the couple opened a clothing store, and the business was still quite prosperous, and the days got better and better every day.
But I didn't expect that the good times were not long, and the biological family that abandoned Wan Yue suddenly came to him one day, breaking the original peace of the family.
Wan Yue husband
The biological mother came to him, and Xiao Wan only became a friend, but there was a rift with the adoptive mother
One day after the new marriage, Wan Yue went out to the store normally, and suddenly a pair of well-dressed mother and daughter came to the store, did not look at the clothes or talk, stared at her directly, Wan Yue did not know what this meant, so she asked them what clothes they wanted, they could recommend.
Unexpectedly, the other party said that he was her biological mother and sister, which shocked Wan Yue greatly.
The other party said that he just came to see if she was doing well, and he could be treated like a normal friend in the future. So I added contact information to each other and left.
Wan Yue knew that if her adoptive mother knew that her heart would definitely be uncomfortable, she planned to hide it from her, but she did not expect to let others see it, and this matter also spread to Huang Hong's ears.
This made her unable to sit still, when she promised her biological parents that she would never interact with each other, but now they broke their promises to find out what is the matter? And even if you don't come when you need to spend money to raise when you are a child, but now wanyue is an adult, they have come to the door?
If Wan Yue and them got closer and closer, wouldn't he be the only one in the world to rely on? Thinking of this, Huang Hongqi didn't fight a place, and hurriedly got up and went to Wanyue to ask her to explain clearly.
After learning of her adoptive mother's idea, Wan Yue promised to just add a contact information, and promised not to interact with them in the future. After hearing this assurance, Huang Hong was also considered to have temporarily fallen to the ground as a stone in his heart.
After a few years of peace and quiet, during this time the two children gave birth to a man and a woman and two children, because the business was getting busier and busier, so Huang Hong took the initiative to take over the work of helping to watch the children, so that the two could concentrate on their careers.
The calm and warm life, let Huang Hong's sad and lonely mood also get better day by day, although Wan Yue and the birth mother's family occasionally have contact, but also only stay in ordinary greetings and holiday blessings, but did not expect that nine years later, an incident once again ignited the anger in Huang Hong's heart.
The elderly take care of the children
In 2014, Wan Yue's mother's family was divided into two houses due to demolition, and after discussion, they planned to divide one of them to Wan Yue's sister and the other set to Wan Yue, so Wan Yue and her sister took out 150,000 yuan to buy a house.
These two houses belong to the same community, and Wan Yue and her birth mother's family move around more and more frequently.
On weekdays, because of the work every day, Huang Hong felt that every day her daughter and son-in-law came back and did not look at herself. It was hard to spend more weekends to alleviate their loneliness, and now it is going to be taken away.
Because of the closeness, Wan Yue and her own biological sister are moving more and more closely, often shopping, playing mahjong and other activities on weekends, the number of times to go home to see her adoptive mother is getting less and less, and the care for her is becoming more and more sparse, which makes Huang Hong feel as if she has suddenly become an outsider.
Once Wan Yue's birth mother invited Huang Hong and Wan Yue and his wife to dinner together at home, and halfway through Wan Yue's husband suddenly said:
Go to so many people to do what, just get some food at home.
This sentence hit the heart of Huang Hong, who was already sensitive and fragile, and she felt that this sentence was insinuating herself.
In a fit of rage, she chose not to go to dinner, and went home alone, and at home she couldn't help but cry, was it that the precious daughter she had worked so hard to raise for so many years was going to leave her?
What happened after that pushed her heart to the bottom completely.
Once Wan Yue ran to her biological parents with Huang Hong, dressed in big red clothes, stood on the red carpet with her sister and aunt and took a few photos and sent them to a group of relatives, and behind several people stood a banner that read:
"Welcome the Golden Flower Girl from outside the Hu family back to her mother's house."
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Seeing this picture, Huang Hongqi did not hit a place, she felt that Wan Yue's behavior had the meaning of "recognizing the ancestors and returning to the ancestors", and threw herself away.
So she quickly scolded in the group:
"What's your last name?" I used to ask me if I wanted to eat or wear when I was a child, but now that you're older, you go back to your mother's house and leave me in the back of your head."
As soon as these words came out, the crowd was suddenly silent, and Huang Hong went on to say that if anyone had objections, they could meet in court.
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Push into a desperate situation and ask for help
Wan Yue's actions, she herself did not think that there was anything, and the adoptive mother's reaction seemed to her to be a little unreasonable, a little too much.
In the face of Huang Hong's persecution, the birth mother said that her legs were on Wan Yue's own body, and she could do whatever she wanted, which made Huang Hong choke on nothing.
The adoptive mother and the birth mother had an argument, but Wan Yue did nothing, and as always, she interacted with the birth mother's family, which made Huang Hong's heart more and more depressed.
Helplessly, she found a TV station for help, hoping to make Wan yue and her husband and wife compensate themselves 2 million yuan as compensation for raising her and her two children for many years, she originally wanted to ease the relationship with Wan Yue and her husband and wife through mediation, so she was unwilling to take the legal route.
Adopted daughter Wanyue
At the mediation site, Huang Hong said that if Wan Yue wanted to cut off with herself and never recognize each other, then she would need to pay herself a compensation fee of 2 million yuan.
Under the questioning of the lawyer, she said that the cost was calculated through calculation, raising Wan Yue and her son and daughter for a total of 30 years, calculated at 4,000 yuan per month, plus a house worth 800,000 yuan given to Wai Yue, a total of 2 million yuan.
From this money, it can be seen that she does not really want to be separated from Wan Yue.
Because the amount of this money is not too much for Wan Yue and his wife, she just wants to save her heart through her own request, so that they can pay attention to themselves again.
If Huang Hong insists, according to the civil lawsuit, Wan Yue can be asked to provide compensation, for Wan Yue, two million is not a small amount, you need to sell your own house, and the son-in-law also bowed his head and did not say a word.
The lawyers and emotional mediators present emotionally persuaded Wan Yue and his wife to remind them to understand gratitude.
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The two of them may have thought of what they had done excessively, and they walked to Huang Hong's side, and Wan Yue hugged her and cried: "
Mom, I will be good to you in the future, rest assured, I will not be so good to you again, I will be good to you in the future, don't leave us."
And the son-in-law also said emotionally:
"We have done something wrong, you can also say us, not to say no, should say or have to say, we will be good to you in the future." 」
And Huang Hong also said with tears:
"I really don't want to be separated from you."
After the mediation of the TV station, the two sides finally reached an agreement that Wan Yue and his wife would pay a one-time compensation of Huang Hong 100,000 yuan, and then pay 5,000 yuan per month as alimony, if there are special circumstances such as illness, Wan Yue and the two will be fully responsible. The story also ends after the parties sign and press their fingerprints on the mediation document.
summary
As the old saying goes:
Born without raising, severed fingers can be returned. Born and raised, the severed head can be returned. It is difficult to be born and raised, and it is difficult to return in a hundred lifetimes.
To be a person, we must remember to be grateful, this is the basis of our life, but also the principle of being a person, whether biological or non-biological, the grace of nurturing must strive to repay, to be a person who knows how to be grateful.
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