Going from falling in love to getting married is not an easy task.
Many women, once in love with a person, will be like a moth to make up the fire, fully devoted, dedicated to themselves.
Some women are lucky to meet their first love, and they are a person who can be entrusted for life.
But some women are not like this. Heaven may be more curtain on them, to let them experience a lot of emotional obstacles, suffer a lot of emotional wounds, in order to meet their true destiny, in order to enter the marriage.
Many female friends will unconsciously sigh: "If women can be with their first man, how good it is not to experience the scumbags they met before." ”
But fate is the last thing that can be forced. For the matter of getting along with the opposite sex, in fact, there is no essential difference between the ideas of men and women. We all hope that their life is smooth and colorful, and such a life is perfect and vigorous.
Women with different personalities and different traits have their own different views on getting along with the opposite sex.
So, for women, a woman has experienced several men in her life to be considered happy? Listening to the hearts of these married women may inspire you.
@Nostalgia, 28 years old, married for 1 year: at least three men, father, husband, son
It is not that a woman's world should revolve around her own family.
Housewife is not the only label that belongs to a woman.
If girls do not get enough fatherly love, they will be very insecure when they are in love. There will also be an Oedipal complex.
The Oedipus complex is not a bad thing, so that girls can find a man who can take care of themselves.
But the Oedipus complex is serious, which is not a good thing. Many times, girls will be so humble in the emotional world because they desperately want to make up for their father's love, so that men despise or abandon them.
Examples of this abound.
And my husband, for me, is the pillar of life, the only man who can give me strength. Other members of the opposite sex, to me, are ordinary friends or colleagues, and there is no special feeling.
And then, Son, is the continuation of my life. Watching my son grow up happy and healthy is like seeing himself grow up again.
For me, I am very happy to have these three men with me in my life. The hardships of life are nothing.
@ Mei Jie, 39 years old, married for 16 years: experiencing three men, is the happiest and most satisfied woman!
My emotional experience is not complicated:
A first love boyfriend, accompanied me through the ignorant and beautiful youth. At that time, I watched him play basketball, sweating profusely, and my heart was infinitely happy.
An ex that made me understand the gap between love and reality. It also made me understand: in a relationship, it is not the effort that will be rewarded, not that you water, the flower will bloom.
The third one is my husband. He gave me a warm home and a gentle haven that would always keep me safe from the wind.
I don't think feelings are complicated. Love that does not mix anything with only the sincerity of two people.
I am thankful for my first love boyfriend and ex who have accompanied me through every stage of my life. Let me experience the beauty of feelings.
Of course, I am even more grateful to my current husband, who has always been considerate of me and holds me in the palm of his hand.
@Yamano Camellia, 55 years old, married for 30 years: As long as you don't feel that you have suffered losses, of course, the more you are happy!
Men with different personalities and different tones will have different feelings. Speaking of happiness, I think as long as you don't feel like you're suffering, it doesn't matter how many.
Some women may say that your irresponsible attitude is not fair to your current husband.
But I want to say, before you know your husband, how do you know that the man you were in contact with before can't be a husband?
Feelings are very personal things. Whether the two are suitable or not, whether they are happy or not, as long as the parties know.
If you don't have personal experience, it is meaningless to know more emotional truths, and no matter how much emotional chicken soup you listen to, you can't replace your decision on love.
Therefore, if you love, you must be brave enough to love, and why lose yourself for love? In this life, can people meet several lovers who make themselves intoxicated and give their hearts?
Of course, if you don't love, you will bravely let go, so that you are responsible for each other.
Therefore, on the issue of feelings, as long as both parties are voluntary and feel happy, one can, several can do.
Today's topic: Do you think women are on the weak side of the relationship?