There are always some people who think that good men should spoil women, and regard women as the most precious. Many men also use this code as their standard of conduct. They blindly get used to women, but in the end they lose this relationship because they are overly spoiled.
If a person is unconditionally good to others, then almost all people will not cherish his efforts, and only by knowing how to adhere to their own bottom line can they make their own efforts meaningful. The same is true in marriage. Men can love women and spoil women, but they must have their own bottom line, and unconditional habitual women are equivalent to digging a hole for this relationship.
When Liu Cheng and Wang Na got married, almost all people were not optimistic about this relationship, because Liu Cheng's family conditions were very poor, and Wang Na was a rich woman, and it was from that moment that Liu Cheng vowed to be good to Wang Na.
After marriage, Wang Na's hands did not touch the Yang Chunshui. Liu Cheng took on all the housework, and Wang Na said that to the west, Liu Cheng would never go east.
Wang Na hated that the company's food was not delicious, so Liu Cheng made a meal and sent it to Wang Na's company. Everyone envies Wang Na for having a husband who knows cold and knows hot, but for Wang Na, she always feels that something is missing between them.
Wang Na is the company's business director and often deals with all kinds of people. Back home to face a attentive husband, she always feels that life is particularly boring and boring, she will chat with netizens on the Internet, chat and chat, who knows that the two people actually talked about feelings.
At first, Liu Cheng thought that Wang Na was talking to customers, did not care at all, and even reminded Wang Na to pay attention to rest. In order to allow Wang Na to chat with customers in time, Liu Cheng also took the initiative to prepare a backup mobile phone for Wang Na.
Wang Na often held the mobile phone and laughed, and Liu Cheng saw the clues. Wang Na was asked to break off contact with the other party. Wang Na promised very well. Liu Cheng also believed it to be true and did not stare at Wang Na at all. However, after a period of time, the two rekindled their old love. There has been substantial progress, Liu Cheng is worried about losing this relationship, so he can only pretend that he has not found anything, hoping that Wang Na can get lost and return
However, Liu Cheng's pretense never waited for Wang Na's change of heart, and Wang Na took the initiative to file for divorce. Liu Cheng did not want to give up this relationship, and also tried to make a lot of efforts, but Wang Na was bent on going her own way, she thought that she could not breathe in this relationship. Although Liu Cheng spoils himself very much, such a life is like a pool of stagnant water, which has long lost its original appearance and can only end this relationship.
Liu Cheng couldn't understand why he was so good to Wang Na, or had he failed in this relationship? Later, after reflection, I finally understood that if I could stop Wang Na's behavior in time, maybe all this would have ended differently. From this point of view, women dare to have extramarital affairs, which are all men's habits.
Blindly being good to a person will often not be cherished by the other party, so in the relationship we must learn to be a wise person. Know how to guide each other to give, and the more they give, the more they will care about the relationship. If you really care about a person, don't be too nice to him, otherwise it will be equivalent to burying this relationship.