Children always look forward to the New Year, the New Year will have pressure money, good-looking new clothes, delicious food, etc., but for the elderly who have more children, the New Year is equivalent to a broken fee, after all, to give children pressure money, more children, the more money the elderly will send, and even some people say that the New Year is equal to bankruptcy.
Speaking of pressing the age of children, children with different relationships will also get different amounts of pressure money, but even if the same relationship is near and far, men and women are different, many elderly people will also give different pressure money, most of them will give boys more, give girls less, this practice will often make people around them unhappy.
When Wang Na and Chen Fei got married, the son of the brother's family was already two years old, and this little nephew was well-behaved and cute and very likable, especially the mother-in-law regarded her grandson as a pearl in her hand, no matter what the grandson wanted, the mother-in-law would try her best to satisfy.
At the New Year, it is indispensable to press the child's old money, Even if Wang Na does not have children, she will give her little nephew two hundred yuan, and looking at her mother-in-law, she also gave two hundred, and Wang Na also thinks that her mother-in-law has always given her children this way.
The brother-in-law just bought a house, the life is tight, the mother-in-law often helps the brother-in-law, Wang Na will turn a blind eye, after all, the family does not need to care so much.
The little nephew wanted a tablet, and the mother-in-law bought thousands of tablets for her grandson without saying a word, Wang Na was a little distressed, but the mother-in-law did not even blink her eyes.
After Wang Na's daughter was born, her mother-in-law also gave her daughter two hundred, and Wang Na did not pay attention to it at all. However, when chatting with her sister-in-law once, her sister-in-law said that she had used the money given by her mother-in-law to pay insurance for the child, at which time Wang Na wondered that it would take a few years to save enough, but the sister-in-law said that a thousand yuan was enough. Wang Na couldn't help but open her mouth wide.
The more Wang Na thought about it, the more uncomfortable she felt, the same child in the family, why would her mother-in-law treat it differently? She was very angry, told her husband about this matter, and wanted to let her husband ask, but her husband was afraid of hurting and angry, and she couldn't think of it, and Wang Na naturally refused.
Taking advantage of her mother-in-law's happiness, Wang Na coldly asked her mother-in-law how much money you gave to your little nephew. The mother-in-law said without hesitation: "Daughter-in-law, give your nephew a thousand dollars!" Wang Na said incomprehensibly, "By what, my daughter-in-law is only two hundred a year!"
At this time, the mother-in-law said with some embarrassment: "Your brother and sister-in-law's life is too difficult, I want to help them." Hearing her mother-in-law say this, Wang Na said angrily: "Have you ever thought about your child's feelings, she knows that you are treated differently, what will she think in her heart?" After listening to Wang Na's words, the mother-in-law bowed her head in shame.
In fact, most parents will be distressed about the children who have a difficult life, and it is inevitable that they will make partial behavior, after all, they are all family, if the parents do not help, maybe they will also help, so most of them will not care too much. However, this is not a reason for parental favoritism. Especially in terms of pressing the old money, if the parents are partial to one side, it is likely to hurt the child's heart, which is no longer an economic problem, and often rises to unity. Therefore, parents should try to level the bowl of water as much as possible, and cannot do acts that hurt the hearts of the family.