Regarding the bride price, it seems to be just a custom, but as everyone knows, the bride price has been used by many people as an opportunity to get rich, they all hope to change the fate of their families through the bride price, once the bride price is used as the hope of the whole family to get rid of poverty and get rich, the feelings will inevitably be affected.
If the bride price is too high, even if the family is rich, it will still feel very uncomfortable, and it is likely that they will change their minds because of the bride price, resulting in years of feelings being consumed.
Wang Na talked about many boyfriends, and her family did not agree, because now some families are not very well-off, and later met Chen Lei, Chen Lei's family conditions are very good, it is difficult to find a family rich, the family naturally will not let go of the opportunity.
When the two people were ready to get married, they discussed the matter of the bride price, and the Wang Na family thought that it would not be a problem to take the bride price of 700,000 yuan according to the financial resources of the Chen Lei family, so they set the bride price to 700,000, and when they heard the 700,000 bride price, Chen Lei's parents instantly looked at each other, and even Wang Na was stunned.
However, her parents explained to Wang Na that the family house should be renovated, and it is necessary to buy another suite, this money is far from enough, and Chen Lei's family is rich in financial resources, all of which should help our family, Wang Na naturally feels sorry for her parents, and will no longer say anything.
In the first few days, Chen Lei would still call Wang Na, but then the two people contacted less and less, Wang Na thought that Chen Lei should be raising money, but then Chen Lei sent a breakup message, there was no news, Wang Na also listened to others, Chen Lei was actually on a blind date.
Wang Na is not calm, so she hurried to consult with her parents, her parents said fiercely, otherwise it will drop to 500,000, it must not be less, hearing this news, Wang Na is very happy, he hurriedly told Chen Lei the news: "The bride price is reduced to 500,000, my mother agreed!" ”
Who knows, Chen Lei's ridicule came from the other end of the phone, and then said: "I used 200,000 yuan to marry someone better than you!" Wang Na didn't believe it at all, and directly found Chen Lei's home, and when she saw the dazzling happy words at the door, Wang Na knew that all this was true.
Wang Na was very angry, she had never thought of how Chen Lei could change her mind so quickly, but thinking of the high bride price, what qualifications did she have to complain about Chen Lei? If it wasn't for the parents' ghostly obsession and angered the Chen Lei family, how could this situation have happened? Although Wang Na is very reluctant to have this relationship, there is no room for redemption, and she can only accept reality.
In fact, when it comes to feelings, most young people don't care too much about money. However, the family is different, especially the woman's parents, who often hope to use this opportunity to ask for more money, on the one hand, to make the life of the mother's family better, on the other hand, it is equivalent to saving money for their daughter. However, if everything must be measured and surpassed, then all things will change their taste, not only can not get the money they want, but also may bury the happiness of the child.