Author | Hu Jie (Tumut Right Banner People's Court)
During the Lantern Festival, every household is illuminated with lights and is full of joy and peace.
"Almost, when Lao Chen comes back, I'll have dinner." Li Xiaohua was busy in the kitchen. At this time, the sound of opening the door came from the living room, and her husband Chen Lei pushed the door and walked in.
"You're back." Li Xiaohua wiped his hands and greeted him.
Chen Lei said with a calm face, "Xiao Li, when will you go with me to get a mortgage for Nan Nan, and if you don't go to someone else's house, you will sell it to someone else." ”
Li Xiaohua's smile froze: "I know that I will give your son a guarantee, and I ask you, when my son wants to get married and buy a house, what will I do?" I'm not going. ”
Chen Lei was also anxious when he heard it: "When did I ever treat you two badly?" You are not sorry to tell you that if you can't buy this house, we won't be able to live it! ”
"You don't really want to live with me anyway!" Li Xiaohua was not to be outdone.
Seeing that his son's plan to buy a house was about to fail again, Chen Lei raised his hand in anger and gave Li Xiaohua a slap, and then slammed the door and came out.
Li Xiaohua stood where he was, tears of anger and grievance coming out of his eyes.
Enter the city again and look forward to happiness
What's going on, how did the couple return your son and my son, it turns out that the couple is divorced and reorganized the family, which is what we often call the halfway couple.
Husband Chen Lei is a freight driver, divorced 9 years ago, with his son Nan nan, and later met li Xiaohua, who was also divorced and brought a boy, both of whom were unhappy in marriage, and the two gradually developed a good feeling and fell in love and received a marriage license in early 2016.
Fight over the purchase of a house, divorce again
But after getting married, the two found it too difficult to live a good life.
In 2017, the 21-year-old Nannan talked about his girlfriend, and after getting along for a while, Nannan told the family that she wanted to get married, but the woman asked to buy a building. Chen Lei went home and told Li Xiaohua about buying a house for her son, and Li Xiaohua was not happy, she thought that Chen Lei patronized Nannan and did not consider her and her son, so she did not agree to take the money. Later, the two quarreled several times because of the purchase of nannan, and neither of them could convince anyone, but the two hearts quarreled more and more coldly, and finally the two decided to divorce, and went to the Civil Affairs Bureau on August 8, 2017 to go through the divorce procedures.
But the day after the divorce, Li Xiaohua found Chen Lei, she said to Chen Lei, "Divorce is my impulse, I did not feel love in the first marriage, single for so many years it is difficult to meet you, you are good for me and my son, I thought we could accompany the old, who knows... Alas, let's say that we can become three marriages when we leave this time, this does not let relatives and friends see jokes, I want to remarry, you think again, give me a second chance! Li Xiaohua whispered and cried.
Chen Lei looked at the former lover in front of him, remembering the happy time the two of them together also had a little regret, but also complained that Li Xiaohua was good at calculation, he said angrily, "Remarriage is also OK, but you have to show sincerity, since marriage I have not taken money at home, you can't tell where the money goes, you really want to remarry and turn 100,000 yuan, I bought a house for Nannan, and when the money was transferred, I agreed to remarry." ”
Li Xiaohua said to consider, tangled for a few days, on August 16, 2017 Li Xiaohua transferred 100,000 yuan to the bank card of his father-in-law Chen Hu, and the next day the couple, who had only been divorced for 9 days, remarried.
Life after marriage, and then waves
This time the couple should always live a life with peace of mind, but not to think, a wave of uneven waves, in the purchase of a house for Nan Nan need a guarantor, Chen Lei wants to let Li Xiaohua guarantee. Li Xiaohua felt that taking 100,000 yuan had already done her best, and she could no longer be the guarantor, so there was the opening scene.
After Chen Lei finished beating Li Xiaohua and leaving, Li Xiaohua thought more and more angrily, "No, I have to make Chen Lei pay the price, I have to go to the court to sue him, I want to get back my 100,000 yuan." ”
Li Xiaohua consulted a lawyer, because the money was transferred directly to her father-in-law, so she could not sue Chen Lei, but she could sue her in-laws, the evidence was the bank receipt she transferred to her father-in-law, so Li Xiaohua went to the court to sue her father-in-law Chen Hu's mother-in-law Wang Shulian, asking them to repay the loan of 100,000 yuan.
Considering the special relationship between the parties in this case, in order to avoid deepening the contradictions, Judge Zhang, the judge in charge of the case, intends to mediate first.
On the day of the mediation, the mother-in-law was anxious as soon as she met, and Wang Shulian loudly questioned Li Xiaohua, "Little Chestnut, when do you say that our old couple borrowed money from you?" Where do we have such a big place to spend money? "You buy a house for your grandson!" You said that you received the 100,000 yuan that I transferred. Li Xiaohua tit-for-tat, Judge Zhang quickly persuaded the two to leave.
In this case, the bank transfer submitted by the plaintiff, Li Xiaohua, could only prove that there was a flow of funds between the two parties, but could not effectively prove that the funds were used for loan purposes. As a result, her burden of proof was not fulfilled and she risked losing the case. The mother-in-law believes that the 100,000 yuan should have half of Chen Lei's. However, Li Xiaohua's transfer occurred just one day before he and Chen Lei went through the procedures for remarriage, so it could not be identified as the joint property of the two couples, and should belong to Li Xiaohua's personal property.
After listening to the judge's explanation, Li Xiaohua and her mother-in-law were silent, and Judge Zhang continued, "Although the husband and wife are as hard as iron in the middle of the road, the real heart can be exchanged for the heart, and the hard iron can also be softened." The family sits in the original and defendant seats, and how to get along in the future. Hearing this, the mother-in-law wiped her tears: "Little Chestnut, you said that after you passed the door, what did you do to you and your father?" We sincerely hope that you two will be well, but you..." The mother-in-law choked and said no more. Li Xiaohua also lowered his head and tears fell straight down, and Liang jiu looked up and said that the judge I wanted to discuss with the defendant to solve the problem.
After mediation, the plaintiff and the defendant reached an agreement, and the defendants Chen Hu and Wang Shulian returned Li Xiaohua 100,000 yuan.
Message from the speaker
Ordinary people always say that marriage is a lifelong event, but the couple in this case has left behind the vow of "holding the hand of the son and the old man with the son" and regarded the marriage as a child's play and as a means to achieve their own ends. What should be pure love is mixed with money and selfish desires, which makes married life taste bad.
The remarried family, like a heavy sailing ship, compared with other families at the beginning of the voyage, has been loaded with various loads in the marriage, so it is more necessary for the couple to help each other in the same boat, no matter what kind of ups and downs they encounter, they must take a step back, be more humble, and not abandon. There is truth in the world, there is a temperature in justice, I hope that all people who have lost the happiness of marriage can cherish the opportunity for the second happiness brought to them by fate, and may your future marriage road be smooth and long, and not defeated in triviality!
(The story in the text is based on a real case, and the names are pseudonyms)
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