Everything will not be static, such as love and marriage, some people regard marriage as a temple of love, some people regard marriage as a graveyard of love, whether it is a temple or a grave, all depends on people's understanding of feelings. People who know how to cherish can always see each other's shining points, and the person who does not know how to cherish, even if you give everything, will still be left behind.
Speaking of second-married men, many women think that such men who have a history of marriage should know more about hurting women, in fact, this is just a woman's wishful thinking, and only people who come over understand what a second-married man is like. Netizen Chen Jiao said: "Insisting on marrying a second-married man, in less than a year I understood that there is a reason why my parents broke off relations with me!" ”
When I met Wang Tao, Chen Jiao had just broken up with her boyfriend and was in the gap period of feelings, Wang Tao took care of Chen Jiao in every way, although she knew that Wang Tao was a second-married man, but Chen Jiao still fell in love with him without hesitation.
Chen Jiao proposed to her family to marry Wang Tao, and the family learned that Wang Tao was a second-married man with a son and lived with his ex-wife. After listening to Wang Tao's situation, the family did not agree, but Chen Jiao ate the scales and iron heart, and did not marry Wang Tao. Her mother did not hesitate to threaten to sever the relationship, chen Jiao still took the household registration book from home, and she resolutely walked with Wang Tao.
After marriage, Wang Tao was still good to Chen Jiao, but every time Wang Tao's son came to the house, Chen Jiao obviously felt that his status had declined, the child was young, more picky, often loudly accused Chen Jiao, and would scold her fox essence, Chen Jiao, who had suffered from this grievance, she wanted to teach the bear child, but Wang Tao always did not see the child in general, and did not let Chen Jiao have a seizure, just like this, Chen Jiao had to endure the bullying of the bear child.
After marriage, all the expenses of the family are taken by Chen Jiao herself, Chen Jiao's salary is not very high, basically belongs to the Moonlight Clan, and Wang Tao saves his own money in case of future emergencies, but Chen Jiao's best friend is sick and borrows money from Chen Jiao, but Wang Tao does not give a penny on the grounds that he bought the money futures.
Chen Jiao wanted a child of her own, but Wang Tao said that the cost of raising a child was too high now, and she still needed to repay the mortgage, the pressure was too great, and she had been dragging herself and refusing to agree to Chen Jiao's request. Accidentally, Chen Jiao found out that she was pregnant, and she was very happy to tell Wang Tao the news, but Wang Tao had to force Chen Jiao to beat the child away.
Whenever it comes to the holiday, the son will call Wang Tao and let him play with himself, Wang Tao's vacation is not much, Chen Jiao originally wanted him to accompany himself to travel abroad, but Wang Tao said that his son made a request, and his father could not but be satisfied, so he threw Chen Jiao alone at home.
In the evening, Chen Jiao and Wang Tao played videos and found that Wang Tao was having fun with his ex-wife and son, Chen Jiao felt like an outsider, at this moment, she suddenly felt that her marriage was a joke, obviously married, but always alone. Other women got married, someone raised, but they wanted to support the whole family, became a moonlight family, and then look at the parents who had severed their relationship with themselves, Chen Jiao couldn't help but cry like rain, she regretted it, why did she make such a choice in the first place?
We often say that emotional things do not listen to other people's gossip, but for the words of parents should still try to listen, after all, parents are people, they know more about feelings, but also to avoid us from making mistakes, especially girls do not impulsive, it is easy to make things that they regret under impulse.