In the increasingly diversified education model, whether it is campus education or family education still dominates, especially mothers as the main practitioners of family education, but also have an important impact on children's thinking patterns, behavior habits and three views.
But after having children, many women shift the focus of their lives to the family, so that they have no time to care about themselves, let alone the exquisite dress every day.
Although this family-oriented approach makes people feel that they can take better care of their children, they are actually not wise. When a woman becomes a mother, she completely abandons herself by putting herself on the family, which is not only not conducive to the growth of her children, but also brings a lot of drawbacks to herself and her family.
The kindergarten teacher frankly said that whether the mother is good at "dressing up" can affect the child's future pattern
Many people in life do not know that mothers love to dress up and do not love to dress up, and the impact on children is different. At this point, the most powerful voice is the kindergarten teacher.
Teacher Zhang has been engaged in the preschool teacher industry for nearly ten years, accompanied by waves of children growing up, she found that her mother's influence on children is subtle.
For example, those children whose mothers are dressed more exquisitely will care more about their appearance, their lives are also exquisite, they have their own views on many things, and the attitude of handling things is also more distinct, and if the mother does not trim the edges, the children will also imitate, in addition to not paying attention to the outside, the children's requirements for themselves in all aspects are relatively low.
Therefore, Teacher Zhang, a kindergarten teacher, also frankly said that whether the mother is good at "dressing up" has an impact on the child not only "love beauty", but also affect its future pattern.
"Exquisite" mothers who are usually good at dressing up will play a positive role in their children
In fact, the mother who loves to dress up in her daily life, the children cultivated are relatively positive and positive, and it can be said that the mother has played a more positive role in the child.
【Role 1】: Cultivate children's aesthetics
The ability to appreciate beauty is not something that everyone has, and it is more necessary to educate the day after tomorrow.
And mothers who are good at dressing up and loving exquisite can often better cultivate their children's aesthetics. Due to the influence of the family from an early age, the child's ability to create beauty will be better, whether it is aesthetics or.
[Function 2]: It is a microcosm and symbol of active life
Mothers who like to dress up will be very optimistic in their own mentality, and their attitude towards their children will be more gentle, and they will be better at encouraging their children and letting them discover the beauty of the things around them.
Children who grow up in this family atmosphere will have a more positive and enthusiastic attitude towards life.
【Role 3】: Play a "role model" for children's self-discipline psychology
Mothers who love beauty are generally more willing to run a life and have high requirements for themselves, which will affect their children.
When living and learning, children can be more self-disciplined, and such characteristics will lay a good foundation for children's future learning careers.
【Role 4】: Let children "raise their heads" in front of their classmates
Exquisite mothers will cultivate children who love beauty and know how to appreciate beauty, especially appreciate their own beauty, so that children will also show more confidence in their classmates.
For mothers, dressing up does not mean wearing a brand name, and it is more appropriate to be simple and to hold a good measure
Love beauty is worth advocating, but it does not mean that the mother loves to dress up is to wear famous brands, show off, compare, but should be a good measure of the fall generous, simple and temperamental.
And no matter what kind of beauty, mothers should pay attention to the way, can not only pursue the novelty.
After all, as a mother, dressing up is not only self-appreciation, but also represents the aesthetics of the whole family, and sometimes it is the façade of the child outside. If you are too maverick, it will not only reduce points for yourself, but also likely to adversely affect the child, easy to make the child out of place among classmates, and even bring trouble to his learning and life.
In reality, many parents always keep urging their children's academic performance, staring at their every test ranking, under pressure, either many children are bored with school and can't learn at all, or many children have high scores and low energy, lack of creativity and imagination!
The weakness of humanistic quality education has also caused our weakness in basic theoretical research and basic innovation today.
The current situation of basic education tells us that humanistic quality education is urgent, but compared with Language, Mathematics and English, those subjects such as history, geography, economics, politics, etc., boring years and historical figures, climatic characteristics, events and other knowledge points are always easy to forget.
"Could it be better? If you jump out of the classroom, what will history, geography, philosophy, and so on become? Will it still be so cold? Fortunately, there is a former scum of history who has a good way: let the "scum" be interested and explain it to the "scum"!
Chen Lei, the founder of the knowledge public account "Mixed Knowledge" with 13 million fans on the whole network, he created a comic-style popular science, leading a new trend of knowledge learning, and the total reading volume has exceeded 260 million!
The success of the comic book about history not only made Zhang Quanling and his son become fans of the mixed son, but also allowed Zhang Quanling to rush directly to Shanghai to find Chen Lei after transforming into an investor, and invested 1.47 million yuan in him to support Chen Lei's resignation and entrepreneurship, and concentrate on the commercialization of comic history content.
"Half-hour comics", starting from comics to talk about history, is committed to using comics as a visual and relaxed form, turning a serious knowledge into an interesting and informative comic science book, whether it is language, mathematics, English, physics, chemistry, or history, economy, biology, geography, all the knowledge points that cannot be understood, half-hour comics all help you to easily understand in Haha.
From the first famous work in 2014 "If the Eastern Zhou Nations are a class, this matter is easy to understand", to the publication of the first "Half-Hour Comic Chinese History" physical book in 2017, and then to the full series of hot sales of tens of millions of copies in 2020, the mixed brother Chen Lei, so that the boring knowledge in the classroom is no longer high and cold.
Xinmin Weekly commented: After Chen Lei (pen name Erchaozi, self-proclaimed mixed brother) turned knowledge into comics, hard knowledge softened a lot, coupled with his gags, hard knowledge is no longer abominable, and even becomes suitable for all ages.
For example, in the "Half-Hour Comic History of China", funny and humorous cartoons, interesting language, and 5,000 years of history are interpreted vividly. Qin Shi Huang was a little less majestic, Yang Guifei also became the eldest sister next door, and the bastard brother told obscure historical stories in the form of cartoons and humorous words, which made people can't help but be funny.
But in addition to fun, Chen Lei and his team are extremely pursuing the rigor and simplicity of historical materials!
Rigorous: the Chinese words of the book have all been reviewed by experts layer by layer, insisting on only being a porter of history; minimalism: reading half an hour of comics, through three thousand years of history, the context is incomparably clear, and you can recite it backwards after reading it.
Half an hour to read a comic, through three thousand years of history, the context is incomparably clear, after reading it can be deeply remembered.
Moreover, this set of books is not only a simple comic, but also a set of popular science comics, not only interesting and hardcore, taking children to read "Half An Hour Comics Chinese History" is of great help to children's IQ, emotional intelligence, and three views.
Interest is the child's first teacher, "history turns out to be so fun"! Zhang Quanling said, "another methodological history", Chen Lei and his "Half-Hour Comic Chinese History" is worth a look.