As the saying goes: women who marry far away are susceptible to anger. The reason why it is easy to be angry is because it is far away from the mother's home, and no one supports themselves, so the people on the in-laws' side are a little arrogant.
Imagine if your in-laws and mother-in-law's family are neighbors, and as soon as your in-laws bully you, your mother-in-law will hear you and rush to you, then do they dare to make you angry?
In a hospital in Hefei, Anhui Province, such an incident occurred. A woman lived in a delivery room at the hospital, who had married from Sichuan to Anhui.
Because this mother is relatively thin, so the milk is insufficient, often hungry children cry.
Watching the child cry fiercely, the mother-in-law was also very distressed That the mother-in-law asked the daughter-in-law to eat more pig fat, saying that it was so milk. But the daughter-in-law said she didn't want to eat it because she was disgusted when she smelled the pork.
Because of this incident, there was a dispute between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the two had a big fight.
As a result, the mother-in-law was angry and did not care about the daughter-in-law and the little grandson, and called the son away, and did not let the son take care of them, did not expect that the son, the indisputable guy, really left, the mother and son just left the newborn baby and the woman who was in the confinement.
Originally, the daughter-in-law's body was weak, and the mother-in-law still let her be angry, so angry that the daughter-in-law's knife was in pain.
The wronged daughter-in-law could only call her mother's mother, but the other side said that the distance was too far and could not come. Yes, a distance of nearly two thousand kilometers, how can you say that you will come over?
Looking at the mother and daughter who were unattended in the delivery room, the doctors and nurses were also angry and hugged her.
Two days passed, the money on the medical card was gone, the hospital contacted the husband of the mother, the husband secretly came over, and this time the mother-in-law also came, it is estimated that after the gas subsided, he was still worried about his little granddaughter. Although this contradiction has passed, the beam has been concluded.
Once the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a beam, it is difficult to eliminate, and this husband is still a complete "mother treasure man", whether this mother will be happy or unhappy in the future, this is really difficult to say.
After many netizens learned of this matter, they launched a fierce discussion. A netizen said this: At that time, I was not yet out of confinement, because my children were crying during dinner, so I called my husband to help.
When my mother-in-law found out, she yelled at me, and finally let his son beat me, and hit me again half a year ago. Although I lost both times, I had to resist and let my mother-in-law rely on the old and sell the old.
Another netizen said: Marrying close is also bullied, no matter how far away, as long as the mother-in-law's character is not good, the daughter-in-law will be bullied.
To put it in good conscience, why should a woman be embarrassed by a woman?
Besides, even if the contradiction is deeper, it is still necessary to wait for the end of the confinement, and during the confinement period, the mother-in-law's appearance is too much.
If I were, I wouldn't go with this man, take the child back to his mother's house, the child wouldn't let him follow their surname, and now the second marriage and the third marriage are afraid of something, just like there are good men rushing to get it.
I think there are two main reasons why this happens.
This mother-in-law is not good. I haven't seen my daughter-in-law angry during the confinement period. Second, this man is incompetent. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have contradictions, you can only mediate, and now you are on the same side as your mother, is your daughter-in-law not aggrieved?
As the saying goes: the wicked must have the wicked grind.
I want to say that this daughter-in-law should not be too rebellious and obedient, otherwise she will suffer a lot of grievances in the future.
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