The divorce and love roundup "Spring Day Delay and Departure" was officially launched on February 23, four women and three men, all with a failed marriage, starting, healing, and then moving, and starting a "limited trip" for four consecutive weekends, bidding farewell to the past and welcoming new students.
In the first issue, the self-introduction of the first meeting, for the divorced him and her, it is inevitable to spread out the failed marriage and put the devastated past on the table to chat.
We can glimpse the corner of a failed marriage, not willing to be helpless and angry, all turned into regret.
29-year-old Lu Ying, a young and beautiful ballet teacher, lasted only half a year in her marriage.
Before entering the marriage, she had not done a physical examination for a long time, and she also ignored the marriage examination, and suspected nephritis was found after marriage. Her husband asked her whether she wanted to treat the disease first or have a baby first, and Lu Ying's choice was to treat the disease first.
When lying in the hospital for punctures and treatment, Lu Ying also touched her husband's due diligence and careful consideration, she could not go to the toilet by herself, and her husband would stay by to help her.
But this feeling of "marrying to someone" came to an abrupt end after she returned home after she was cured, and her husband did not come to visit her again, and went to her parents in advance to inform her of the idea of divorce.
Lu Ying's illness will affect fertility, the husband decided to give up this relationship, it is Lu Ying's parents poor daughter is still recovering, pleading with her husband to talk to her later.
Later, on the day of the meeting, Lu Ying saw a very cold and indifferent face with no expression.
The husband sat with her in the restaurant, and the moment the noodles were served, he said divorce, he did not say sorry to her, nor did he help her wipe her tears, and his face was indifferent from beginning to end, as if all the warmth had disappeared in this short time.
The one in the marriage vow, whether it's sick or healthy? It's like just a fairy tale.
Liu Liqi, a 32-year-old university lecturer, fell in love with her husband until she divorced and entangled her for ten years.
When we were surprised by Luo Zhixiang's time management ability, it was difficult to think of such a "rush-to-the-field" scumbag who split his legs and bubble sister, and there were many more.
Liu Liqi's husband was found to be cheating before, is a very ideal partner, straight men disdain the sense of ceremony, he will give; wife's parents, he will care for care. The husband is intimate and careful, the in-laws are also very close to themselves, Liu Liqi is immersed in happiness, until the birth of the child, just out of the confinement of the catch of the husband's cheating evidence.
Tear open a hole, and everything under the iceberg will slowly appear.
She had been touched that her husband would remember her preferences, and when she did not take the initiative to mention it, he would take her to the movie, but he did not think that her husband was the third person to take her after watching the same movie. Even, the two films are only 30 minutes apart, and she is often arranged in the second scene.
On honeymoon abroad, the husband does not forget to pick up his sister at home through his mobile phone.
It is not that she has not made trouble, but relatives and friends advised her that her husband just loves to play, and her heart is still in the family; the lawyer said that divorce was not good for her when the child was just born, and she suffered for four years, and endured until her husband became more and more excessive, and was completely disappointed before letting go.
This is her first love.
Lin Chengwei, a 39-year-old design director, has known his first love for 17 years and is still coming to an end.
When they were engaged to their wives, they bought a stainless steel Mobius ring as a ring, which represents the eternal endless love of life.
Who would have thought? Knowing too early has also become a reason for marriage failure. Maybe it's too young acquaintances, and they don't know who they really want to be; or maybe they have been together for more than ten years and have overdrawn the freshness.
After marriage, the wife can't find a feeling of love for him, and even thinks that it can be found in others.
Lin Chengwei could not accept it, chose to leave the house, left the house and money to his wife and children, moved his own things, and rented a small house. He described his "new home" as a prison.
In that former home, there are many, many memories, books bought together, laughter and laughter that have been experienced, and love all over the house.
Today, it's just what it used to be.
Talk show actress Yang Lei (rock), a socially introverted person who is afraid of birthdays, meets her with a sense of ceremony.
Yang Lei remembered deeply, on the day of his birthday when he thought about the two people simply eating noodles, his wife prepared a huge surprise for him, yes, in his wife's eyes, it was a surprise, in his eyes, it was a fright.
He could not adapt to such a sense of ceremony, and even wanted to escape, he knew his wife's efforts for it, but he was not blessed. Later, his wife was wronged, and he was not comfortable.
They have to admit that they are getting more and more different from each other.
Before the divorce, Yang Lei and his wife received the news of the death of the father of the American host family, and they returned to the place where love began, eating familiar restaurants, visiting the host family's mother, and sweeping the grave for their father.
After returning to China, he got a divorce.
The vows of keeping each other until they are old are sincere at the moment of issuance, but who can withstand the changes of time.
What if after getting married, we all grew up to be different people? What if you once loved to the point of death and lived, and now you have no feelings? What if small things pile up into sighs?
"Do you want this man (woman) to be your husband (wife) and enter into a marriage contract with him(she)?" Love him or her, take care of him or her, respect him(she), accept him(her), and be loyal to him(her) forever until the end of your life, whether sick or healthy, poor or rich, or any other reason? ”
It was as if the phrase "I do" was still yesterday, and looking back at the two of them was already strange.
It turns out that I only need to love you to get married, but there are thousands of reasons for divorce.