There is an old saying in the countryside: the daughter who marries out spills water.
The reason for this is that in the general concept of the countryside, after the daughter marries out, she does not belong to her own family, but to the man's family.
All married women with children will take their children to their mother's house to "go to relatives" after the New Year, so after the woman marries out, for the mother's side, it is a relative.
It is precisely because of this that many parents are in tears when their daughters get married, and the daughter who has been raised for more than twenty years will become someone else's family, and how unwilling and sad they are in their hearts, I am afraid that only those who have experienced it will understand.
However, there is such a father in Liaocheng, his daughter cried bitterly when she got married, but he said goodbye to his daughter with a smile, because the scene was particularly funny, he was also filmed by onlookers and posted on the Internet.
According to the video content, the married woman has already boarded the wedding car, and her mother is saying goodbye to her through the car window. After all, she would not be able to spend all day with her parents in the future, she was very sad in her heart, tears could not stop flowing, and she cried her delicate makeup.
Looking at her mother again, she also cried and drooled in the same way, and at the same time held her hand tightly, crying while telling her to eat on time and obey well.
After saying goodbye to his mother, he was about to say goodbye to his father, only to see his father go to the car window and say to his daughter who was crying into tears with a smile: Bye-bye.
The daughter was stunned at first, and then turned to laughter, and the relatives and friends around her also laughed. This dad's behavior is really funny, you can feel his subtext is: finally married, I am so happy.
The motorcade slowly moved, the window slowly raised, looking at the distant motorcade and the gradually dispersing crowd of onlookers, the father quietly wiped the tears from the corners of his eyes with his sleeve.
Once the video was posted on the Internet, it triggered a heated discussion among the majority of netizens.
A netizen said this: I got married when I was 32 years old, before I got married, my father urged me to quickly find a partner, let me get married quickly, afraid that I would not be able to marry, but on the day I got married, he cried worse than my mother.
Another netizen said: Before I got married, my father said every day that I was his "careful liver" and "little cotton jacket", I thought that when I got married, he would cry unsteadily, who knew that two days before I got married, he and my mother agreed to go to Guilin to play a tour group, and the date of departure was the day after I got married. What is more worth mentioning is that on the day of his wedding, he did not shed a single tear, and even smiled happier than anyone.
In fact, I think this father is also very sad in his heart, after all, he has raised his daughter for more than twenty years, and he will definitely worry about his daughter being bullied in her in-laws' house.
The reason why he chose to say goodbye to his daughter in this way was actually to make her happy.
I think that when you get married, you should be happy, instead of hugging and crying, this dad has done a good job, it is simply a "textbook" way to send relatives goodbye.
There are parents in the world who do not care about their daughters, seemingly smiling, but in fact, it is to cover up the bitterness in their hearts. As the saying goes: a daughter is a father's little cotton jacket.
I don't think any father wants to let his little cotton jacket help others resist the cold wind.
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