Many people think that marriage is a necessity of life,
In fact, it is not, when you meet the right person, you get married, and it is better to meet that than to live alone.
The right person always shows up at the right time,
Don't look forward to him, don't think about why he hasn't appeared yet, he's just waiting for an opportunity to enter your life
The status of men and women has always been unequal, and there are problems in both the East and the West.
Women are relentlessly pursuing their own power, hoping that power and financial resources can be equal in the family.
Nowadays, more and more women no longer marry for the sake of marriage, they stick to themselves, live their own high-quality life, and choose to be absent rather than indiscriminate in their feelings.
And Li Zimeng, a 43-year-old CCTV host, can be called a model.
Interests as children
Li Zimeng's father, who once studied at Tsinghua University, in such a family with a strong intellectual atmosphere,
Li Zimeng has been a good student since she was a child, and is the best among her peers.
Li Zimeng's broadcasting talent was revealed in elementary school, and her teacher recommended her to participate in several competitions, all of which won awards. When I arrived at middle school, the school had a radio hall, Li Zimeng and several other children with good Mandarin broadcast in the radio hall, Li Zimeng also wrote the good people and good deeds of the school into a radio, and when it was time to broadcast, it was broadcast.
Children's talents should be excavated from an early age and cultivated from an early age
, but while doing this should be of interest to the child. Talent is important, but also pay attention to the efforts of the day after tomorrow, look at the perseverance of children, not everyone can play a role in their own areas of interest, we must pay attention to the combination of work and leisure, appropriate relaxation, not forced.
Give the child pressure at the same time pay attention to the child's rest, we should cultivate the child's self-discipline, arrange for themselves to do today, there is a word"
Today's events, today's finishes
"Today's things, today's things are done, don't procrastinate, wait for all the things to pile together, you don't want to do."
A good education and learning style has always made her excellent, whether on campus or at work, she is extremely dazzling and outstanding.
Kung Fu pays off, under the continuous efforts, she adheres to the interest of childhood, step by step to the position she loves, and shines in this position,
He has become one of the best hosts of CCTV.
Li Zimeng, 43, has released a video of herself wearing a white sweatshirt and holding a puppy in her arms, and the youthful beauty is vividly reflected in her. It is completely different from the serious news anchors on TV, and even a little contrasting cute,
It was completely impossible to see that she was 43 years old.
Although Li Zimeng's father is a high-powered mayor, he has nothing to do about his daughter not getting married
, anxious, but can not force the daughter,
Because he knew that his daughter just didn't want to settle down.
As an elderly leftover woman, Li Zimeng is not isolated by this society, and she is also a representative of the older leftover women in this society.
Do not waste life, love life, be positive, do not wronged yourself, do not put yourself on it.
Do not lose the yearning for love, do not rush into love,
Because it is not suitable, I do not want to be perfect. The self-consciousness of contemporary women has risen, and many excellent women are moving forward with proud steps, not afraid, challenging this era, and striving to build themselves.
Today's unmarried people
Everyone's lifestyle is different, and the requirements of life are also different,
There is no need for us to limit the way we choose ourselves because of the way society is inherent in our lifestyle.
The reason why modern people are tired of marriage is because they are tired of marriage relationships.
Tired of introducing a man into his secret territory, he went around talking about it in disbelief. Tired of living together for a long time, there are inequalities of rights, inequality of property, and inequality of status.
Women don't understand why after getting married I have to wash clothes and cook at home, have children to take care of children, but also take care of the life of my husband's family, whether it is marriage or going to be a nanny, but also a free nanny. I was also a pampered parent at home. It is also a treasure in the hands of Mom and Dad,
Marrying is for a better life, not to be a nanny for your family.
Men don't understand why after marriage, why women start to do so much, become not fond of dressing themselves, regardless of body shape, quarrel at every turn, and are no longer the gentle and lovely woman in love.
Don't understand why women can't do even a little thing.
Never look for problems in yourself, only look for problems in each other, and will not think in a different position.
Such a marriage is not as good as single, at least you are happy, do not have to quarrel with others for trivial matters, will not worry about their secrets being revealed to the world by others, will not worry about uneven rights, will not worry about uneven division of property.
In modern society, women's self-consciousness awakens, fundamentally shaking the status of men, and society is inherently equal.
It is only because women did not have such great ambitions before, so the status of men has been raised, but long-term oppression will eventually be subverted.
We are not an appendage of anyone, and we do not have to wrong ourselves for whom
In fact, a person can also live very well.
Parents' attitudes
Many parents have the idea that their children should get married and should find someone to spend the rest of their lives with.
For a long time, China favored sons over daughters. They will feel that girls are going to marry sooner or later, and there is no need to waste energy on them. Girls also rely on their parents to feel that they do not need their consent, or that they will not have anyone to listen to their opinions if they refuse.
The status of modern women has gradually increased, and there are few more patriarchal families. And affectionately called her daughter "Little Cotton Jacket".
Parents attach importance to the education of their children and attach importance to their development.
In the face of Li Zimeng's marriage, Li Zimeng's parents are a little anxious, but they will respect their daughter's choice and not interfere with Li Zimeng's decision. And will not have any dissatisfaction with Li Zimeng,
Li Zimeng's parents feel that their daughter can handle these well.
With the development of the times, not only the status of women has changed, but also the thinking of parents. They will listen more to their children and understand their practices.
In the face of marriage, we must be cautious and not hasty.
The modern society's concept of marriage is too hasty, because of a momentary impulse to get married, and after marriage, they find that it is not their favorite type, not their favorite lifestyle, and divorce.
This view of marriage is wrong.
Everyone is an individual, and everything we do must be considered clearly, carefully, think twice, and consider the consequences.
epilogue
"Older leftover women", when you hear this title, you will feel that it is a kind of irony, it should be called "women of the new era", not leftover women, it is our own choice of life.
They will have one common trait, intellectual, temperamental.
If one day you announce that you are married, you must feel that the life of two people is happier than the life of one person.
If not, then conversely, a person will be better off.
Respecting the child's choice is the child's requirement for the parents, I don't know how many bumps I will have in choosing this path, but at least I hope to get the support of the parents, when hurt, I can look back at the parents,
It is a great pleasure to know that your parents are always behind you to support yourself.
Every woman should not be confined to the family, in childbirth, but also in her own thoughts, the world waiting for us to create, to break through.
Come on, the leader, creator and wanderer of the new era!